my two year old amazes me everyday hes a blessed boy thats for sure im happy that i doubt he will ever go though all the learning troubles my twins had ( poor babies)

i went online to look up games two days ago we found the thoman the train site and went into that

they have a matching card game there with three levels

we put him on easy to start and showed him once how it all worked he listened and he aced the whole game mouse and all

he is now two days later is in medium and he also now just lastnigth went to hard cause he said its too easy mummy

he knows how to match all the cards and trys to time himself with his speed lol

he knows all the yes i want to play the game again and what to click on .. he amazes me with what he can do ,, its me that cant keep up with him lol

we went to the docs yesterday and he took all his word cards and wanted to read them all so i let him take what he wanted as i know we would have to wait at least an hour to see any doc cause so many people have the flu ,,

it was him that actually said to me in the moring  this

mummy i want to go to the see doctor jellybean ( not the docs name but after he see him he give him a jelly bean so thats the docs name for all of us and the doctor loves it when he calls him that also ) to give me medicine cause i feel sick and he will make me feel better.

i was like omg what a sentace

anyway while we where there there was a 3 year old also waiting for his appointment

sausage took his cards out and said to him ill teach you to read( another things new that he said that day that also blew me away)

he took them out and said hey boy look at this this word says polar bear you see it etc,,

the little boy was angry and threw his cards all over the floor ,, my son looked at him and said its ok dont be mad its ok the doctor will make you feel better lol

this other child was sooo naughty i had to get my two year old away from him as he started to bang tables and push my two year old arround ,,, my son said hes a naughty boy mummy he needs the doctor to give him medicine to make him be nice lol

We are going back to have another appointment with the school on monday about the boys going to year 11 and 12 ,, if they want to stay on then they should ,, after all im the one that pays their wages in the school ( catholic)

when i called yesterday , i asked to see the schools headmaster tues i got no hes busy then wed then thurs then fri hmmm hes still busy is he will how about monday at 4pm

they where like umm umm umm ok but ill still have to ask him if hes free i said great but untill then mark me down im comming with my partner this time

( i have found out that they mark their kids results as a whole for the school on grades and thats why they dont like the slower kids to stay on cause it brings the whole schools grades down ,, well tough titties i say ,, so now i know as to why they try to get rid of the kids ,, thats just not on

they have been told that the headmaster will place them in the subjects

good cause it will be the easy ones haaaa

cooking digital photography , buisness studys etc,, i think that sounds great anyway

my friends son went through the exact same thing

she told the headmaster ,, dont say anything i pay your wages my sons going on and that it you can not let him continue school cause hes not a bright spark ,,

hes on a contract for next year and they said if he dosent hand in his assignments or homework he will have to leave the school ,, they are trying their best to get the slower kids out now i can see it soo clear, but they cant refuse the kids to go on cause they are not as smart as the other ones ,, what a bunch of snakes huh

less then half of year ten are going to continue on next year

Im going with my partner cause hes a bright spark when it comes to witty words and he knows the system only too well and can debate them alot better than i ever could

and funny this but the schools soo nervous about him comming with me lol

im waitng now to see if they will call me back today saying mondays hes just to busy and if thats just soo then it will be another week ,,

my boys are not bright but they do their work and are great boys , the system has failed them in the past before high school so this one we are going to fight till the end or im off to accurent affair ....

 

since he was 8 months old he has been getting fevers every month at times twice a month

and they are not low grade fevers the highest ones are at 40.4, the lowest at 38.4

he has been having fevers way before i started this diary

I have started a fever diary awhile ago but after he had his second febrile convulsion

his first was in June 2006

second with fevers also was two weeks later 5/7/06

fever diary to date ill just put the dates here

August  7th to for 3 and ahalf days

August  23rd for 3 days

September  29th for 3 days

October  24th for 3 days

November 25th for 3 days

December , i lost the paper but he had a fever

2007

January i also lost the paper but he had one

Febuary 8th for 3 days

Febuary 24th for 3 days

March 14th for 3 days

March 28th for 3 days

April 18th for 3 days

May 11th for 4 days

May 31st  for 3 days

till june 2nd

June 26th for 3 days

july 20th to date has gastro right now and we are waiting for the fevers to kick in

yep fevers  kicked in now ,39.4 here we go again

August,24th fevers started again

Sept 16th fevers

had all the blood tests came back nomal the urine normal ammune system normal

hes not in child care or play groups hes not outside a great deal

when he is shopping with us we dont let him go to touch toys etc,, always having wipes on hand to clean him .

always changing dummys before they get old and the teats off his bottle

now we have been told to keep up the diary for another 6 months and go back to the specialist cause they have no idea

I was told in the beginning this is not normal for him getting so many fevers

then when the test results came back normal i was then told that thats what lots of babys have lots  and lots of fevers

contradicting everything he had said in the first place

we had a meeting with the scools head master  this morning ,, all year ten students must go through this before they are allowed to go to year 11

It broke my heart that one of my twins was trying to hold back his tears and he said he shouldnt go into year 11 and 12 as it will be a total waste if time cause their grades are good enough and they would struggle to go on

Im proud that they wanted to go on and not leave and do nothing ,im proud that they wanted to continue even know they are not like most students that find school easy

they want to get the most out of school before they leave

we are going to look into going to tafe full time to do a trade for next year

but it just broke my heart as its like saying to a child you are just not smart enough to go to year 11 their spirit was broken this morning ,

 

,, mmmmm why is it when you go to a specialist and he agress that having fever.s for this long and all the time isnt good , and that something has to be causeing them

I have a fever diary i presented that

now the test results are saying hes fine ,,

but cause he still dosent know this ,, hes saying keep doing the fever diary for 6 more months and if its still on going come back and ill look at things again

doctors and specialist should just swollow  their PRIDE and say hey yes as ab normal this is I DONT KNOW WHAT HES GOT

this has been happening since he was 8 months old and hes now 2 and a half ,,

ecery specialist we have gone through that cant find out whats causeing this has said come back in a few months and yet still nothing and say come back aggggg

im going to look for specialist number 4 now

he even tryed to say its cause hes arround children ,, child care and he keps getting fevers cause of this

i have said over and over again hes not arround kids nore does he go to child care grrrrrrrrr

 

I thought i was going to be smart trying to get the urine sample and set myself and bubb up in the afternoon in the loungeroom, i even went out and got him the bag to collect it as he wouldnt go into the sterile containor ( I think he has stage fright )

well after 4 hours i think it was ,, sorry my heads not all clear this morning

he did go but he ran arround the house also and i lost the sample in his nappy aghhh

back to the drawing board

2am he was fast asleep on me i was fighting to stay away myself he still didnt go

i just ended up taking him to my bed i really needed to sleep also

i had left the bag on him hoping that he will just let loose and give me the sample i really needed , well he did but it was all over my bed instead ( typical he let loose when i couldnt stay away any longer ) there was still a bit in the bad this morning so i put that in the fridge

i think it may be useless though as it might be contaimated ..

i cant do any more this morning as i have to get ready and get him off to get the blood out to be tested ,.im really not looking forward to it either poor bubba

i know it will be hard as hes got alot of extra padding where the veins are located ,,, it just needs to be done ,

then friday its the hearing test

we went to the specialist the other day and he checked him over doing the normal in room checks etc,,

he still had a fever so in a way it was sort if good cause then he could take a look at his throat and ears.

he said that even know his throat was a little red and his ears a little gluey it isnt enough for him to have such high temps and predictable ones every month also .

the nest step is to check the urine again and the bloods for unusual things like kidney disease thyroids whatever they can think of ..

this will be done this wednesday and then friday he will have a hearing test , he hasnt got any problems with that but they want to rule out everything ..

last friday morning i was on msn chatting to a mother on minti as shes a nurse trying to get a few tips on how to get my son to pee in aJar lol,,

right after the chat i went ahead got myself ready and him in his room thinking that its not going to take long for it to just come out

well 6 hours later he still hadnt done any wee for me ,,

i cant beleive how i spent the rest of the whole day in my sons room for this and got no results lol

he had lots of water and also i had ready a warm bottle of milk thinking after he drinks all of this he wii go ,,

i was soo wrong nothing,,

i knew the blood place was closeing at 4pm so i was desperate to have the sample and go get the bloods the same day

.well i called them up at 4pm and told the lady that it just wasnt going to happen for us that day and made the next appointment . she did tell me that i can get a special bag for him to wee in but i would have to go there to get it ,, ( but thats not going to happen as i dont drive dont have a car and dont have the money to go there and back by taxi to just get one from them ..

so its back to the jar lol

tuesdays going to be a full day of just him and me sitting there the whole day again just trying to get a sample ready to go eith the bloods for wednesday ( i was told that i can put that in the fridge overnight )

wish us luck to get this done ,,,,any other tips would be very helpful

I did have him butt naked ,

i did have lots of water for him to drink and warm hilk

i did have him watching his favourate dvds to help him relax

i even was tickeling him in hope that he would just burst lol

all i got in the end was a stiff back and a headache and was bored as ..

i even was rubbing his tummy lightly to help him wee aghhh nothing ,,

he held on for 6 hours straight

as soon as i put his nappy on his did number twos ewww lol