Im sorry but does anyone else follow me on this one. If you met a guy and he was in prison but wont tell you why. Would you not dump the loser??? I mean truly do you nead a man so bad that you would settle for that? I dont have the time for a man that pays the bills late. That directly affects my kids and my kids are #1. Not my need to be loved. Children learn by what they see, no we are not perfect but come on. Really?