Maybe i will give her another chancebut i need to give it a long think first and she will have to fight a littke friends dont tell lies about our kids friends dont lie to cause arguements and this will be the 3rd chance so its also the last thats if she gets another but friendships goes 2 ways too but i will email her later wen i figure out wat to say lol

Totally agree friendships goes both ways, if she can't behave then she doesn't deserve you.  It's hard to find someone you click with, but you will know when you meet them, well it only took me 25 years, lol.

Hello YOU.

Matey she will be grey this yr she is like 8 yrs older thanme she goes grey first haha we will proberly be friends in time but just not now as you know i dont like lies and come on do u seriously believe Kylie got chloe out of her cot went to the back of the kitchen side to get a bottle into the cupboard which by the way is high boiled the kettle and made her up some baby milk while my dad was sitting im sorry but i find this hard to believe and hard to forgive.

But yes we are both a pair of stubborn bitches and really are terrible this is the 3rd time we have gone without talking each time its took 3 monhs to talk again so we def stubborn but i will send her a card when she goes into hospital i may even visit her with some flowers you never know it might make her heal better  umm y didnt u save any gin for me?

Luv ME XXX

Yes it can ecspecially wen 1 wants your full attention we had a long chat yesterday outside in the caer she dropped me home as it was raining we did have a chat but it ended in lies but i think i will emaail her tomight so i can tell her how i feek

Thanks

Luv Emz xx

Hey Helen,

I may send her  an email later when ive finnished my appointment and explain how i feel cos i do feel bad and worry how she is feeling after our chat yesterday but if im  to be honest me and L were closer than close but if everytime i walk down the street wit another friend im going to be risking our frienship really there is no point and to telll me lies about barry and my dad thats hurtful and nasty.

I wouldent mind if she was reading them because she wants to know how i am but it seems the only reason is to use it to tell me lies i just dont understand her she is like the wind

Luv Emz xxx

Thanks bel but i dont think we will be able to work this out not unless she changes back to the old L i knew and loved and strangly enough still do.

Luv Emz xx

Yes i think i will email her later i just dont think lies fix friendships i just dont think we can be friends like before unless she changes i know u shouldbe there for friends no matter wat and dont get me wrong i am here for her i would not turn her away but i cant sit and watch this new person either she isnt the same as wen we met and as our friendship grew i know that proberly dont make sense but it does to me lol.

Luv Emz xx

I am going to email her later we did have a chat about it yesterday but thats what has made me feel that it is definatly the end for us for now anyway its just wat i think is best at least for now i dont being lied to ecspeciallly about people close to me .

The thing she doesnt like about me being on minti is that i can sit here and email my friends on minti and help out other parents and im not talking to or spending any time with her because she isnt talking to me

Emz

Yes i think thats exactly it matey we have just grown apart i may feel differant in the future but right now

Luv Emz xx

That is exactly right. My oldest friend (who i once called my best friend) and i had a moment like this - where i thought i would never forgive her for what she had said. It took nearly 2 years, but we did get our friendship back. That was about 6 years ago. And while i no longer consider her my best friend, we are still friends.

It will sort itself out!

yEAH IM SURE IT WILL BUT I THINK IT WILL TAKE TIME

lUV emXZ XX

I am stepping back and have been all along she approached me im happy to move on from her but it upsets she lies to me to cause arguements between me and barry really is nasty im more angry than upset

Luv Emz xxx

I think if shes causing arguments between you and barry you definately are doing the right thing cutting off from her, Em x

Yes we are both stubborn my friends dont tell me lies because i hate lies i just dont know we can be friends anymore i think we have just grown apart .

Emz

Every freindship has its ups and downs, you can get past this, you miss her i can tell that

xxxshar