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I hate bullies !!!!

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 Yesterday Kylie came out of school with a grump on she would not tell me why . Well until i was cooking dinner . She said Jessicca had smacked her . I asked if she had told the teaccher and she hadnt when i asked for an explanation for not telling the teacher i got i ont know . Then this morning i got i have tummy achei cant go to school i knew this was rubbish so i told her tummy ache or not your going to school . Thats when the beans spilled but yesterday Jessicca slapped me in the face . So i again asked if she told the teacher she again said no this time she knew why she didnt tell the teacher . She said she wasnt allowdto tell the teacher Jessica would not let her and she made Kylie lye on top of her .

So this morning i pulled the teacher and told her where and when this happened she was shocked . Such behaviour had occured iin her classroom very sneakily behnid the book case . Before i left her teacher assured me she would keep a close eyue on both girls and we have both told her if anybody does anything nasty or something she doesent like she must tell the teacher no matter what .

Im hoping it is going to be sorted by the time i go and pick her up . Kylies teacher said she will also write a letter to her parents informing them of of what happened . I felt so  mean leaving Kylie this morning knowing she was scared but i cant keep her homne because she is being bullied . But we will see i have to get her soon .

Luv Emz xxx

  

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Domestic-warrior
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | Domestic-warrior
Re: I hate bullies !!!!

I think kids bully because they are trying to get their power back, like Arna says there is usually something going on in their lives.  I hope it stops though and she leaves Kylie alone and gets back to being friends again.  Silly old Zane got into a fight yesterday and has 3 days of detention, nothing to do with bullying - they were all in the wrong - but he took more of the blame so his friend wouldn't get into as much trouble.  Very admirable but silly!!



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      emmie
March 2008 | emmie
Re: I hate bullies !!!!

Hi Julie,

Yes you know last night i was sat here thinknig about it and i thought my i wonder if when she gets smacked its in the face?? Maybethats why she hit Kylie in the face. But thankfully they were the best of friends when i arrived to pick her up Jessicca was sat on her lap . Both girls have been spoken to and a letter has gone to Jessiccas parents .Oh dear silly zane hopefully he wont get into any more fights to get himself detention.

Luv Emz xxx



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           Domestic-warrior
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | Domestic-warrior
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That's great they are friends again...maybe a one off?  They do get all emotional about their friends  You never know it could be as simple as that girl having older siblings who are rough with her, like Zane can be quite mean to Tahnae sometimes and then T is mean to Kaelan in return!  Not nice i know but i spend all day telling them to be nice!

Yes, a letter came home too and i had to sign it and Zane had to write down what happened and what he would do differently next time  all trying to reinforce positive behaviours.  They threaten more detention if i don't return the letter so maybe i could use that as a bargining tool!!  I wouldn't ...lol



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                emmie
March 2008 | emmie
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Im not quite sure i guess i will have to see what she is like tonight . The trouble is i dont know what to believe coming from kylieat the moment all that seems to come out of her mouth is lies . I went in her room last night cosshe was scresming got her up she calmed down she said she had earache so i said if its not better in the morning she will go drs . That caused a kick off no no no i ont wanna go drs i explained he would not hurt her he just wanted to put a light in there he wouldent touch it at all When i finally calmed her again i sent her back to bed off she goes quiet as a mouse . Gets into bed SCREAMS i go get her back up (chloe was asleep)she expected to watch cartoons all night but i ordered she laid down crying my ear hurts my ear hurts so i gave her medcine she cried a further30 mins this morning he ear is amazingly better . Now for someone to be in so much pin last night to nothing only 8 hrs later i think someone was pulling my leg well it wont work tonight .The other day she told worse lies than this sdo now i dont know what to believe anymore .Kylie is always mean to chloe too her fav is pushing her off the bed . Kids dont they drive u nuts.

Oh dear he was very silly wasnt he but i hoepe he doesent get any more detention and no  more negative behaviour . I would use it as a bargaining tool too haha mean arnt i ?  lmao

Luv Emz xxx



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                     Domestic-warrior
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | Domestic-warrior
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You know Kylie better than i but sometimes with earache it can actually be more painful at night when they lie down.  I remember this when Zane had it as a toddler.  He would be fine during the day and at night screaming in pain, then in the morning fine.  Maybe you could get it checked out just incase there is a middle ear problem....at least you will know if it is attention then, and if she doesn't like the doctor she wont be trying that one again!



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                          emmie
March 2008 | emmie
Re: I hate bullies !!!!

Yes i will get it checked out weather she wants to or not onvce i get a dr . But the way she was this morning i dont aactually think there is anything wrong with it . It only started after i told her i didnt have any ear buds . She expected me to go to the shop because she wanted her ears cleaning and there was no way . I just dont know what to believe coming from her at the moment because it is mostly lies . Maybe i should just run away for a wek or so .

Luv Emxz xxx



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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | llmunchkin
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I hope this resolves the situation... I hope that my little man never gets bullied physically like that, however I hope even more that he doesn't bully anyone either.  So glad to hear that the teacher took action on Kylie's behalf, that is always a good sign. xox

 



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      emmie
March 2008 | emmie
Re: I hate bullies !!!!

Hey Lui ,

I hope so too a letter has gone home to the girls parents and they were both sat down together andspoken too and yesterday theyu got on like the best of friends whe n i arrived Jessicca wassat on Kylie lap so hopefully that will be the end of it . Im sure Jaydee wont be a bully u has taught him not too . The teacher was brilliant she dealt with it immediatly

Love ME XXX



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FremantleDocker
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | FremantleDocker
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i dislike bullies aswell. Its not nice at all to be bullied. I'm sorry to hear you are going through this. HOpefully it'll get sorted out really soon.



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      emmie
March 2008 | emmie
Re: I hate bullies !!!!

No its not poor thing , the teacher dealt with it ratherwell so hopefully it will stop now

 



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cassaustin
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | cassaustin
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Hey Emz

I hope Kylie has had a better day at school today. Hopefully the teacher will make sure it doesnt happen again. It's aweful to think what Jessica must see at home thou to be treating Kylie like that...

Cass xx



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      emmie
March 2008 | emmie
Re: I hate bullies !!!!

Hey Cass,

They were the best of friends yestrerday so hopefully that has continued today . It really made me think Kylie has never hit anybody in ythe face it masakes me wonder if her parents smack her in the face or if they hit each other in the face ?? Scary thought

Luv Emz xxx



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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | cazza
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Grrrrrr what a naughty Child and hope the teacher helps Kylie feel more safe at school..

xxx cazza



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      emmie
March 2008 | emmie
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Yes i was vvery mad . The teacher sorted it out and a letter was sent to her parents and kylie came out really happy so i hope all will be ok now.

Emz  



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nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | nell18-3
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I was so sorry to hear that Emz

Hope the teacher is able to stop that right away and prevent it from happening ever again

xxx



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      emmie
March 2008 | emmie
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Hi Helen,

Iwas so mad i had steam coming out of my ears. The teacher dealt with it and the have played like the best of friends today .A letter was also given to her parents informing them of what happened so hopefully they will be ok now. Kids huh need them dont we.

Luv Emz xxx  



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Izzy
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | Izzy
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sorry to hear that. But you know, bullies are good this way. They are very sneaky and can hide things right under people's noses.

I was bullied when I was 5 years old by a boy who kept pinching me on my upper arm (right where it's usally hidden by sleeves) and made me carry his book bag everywhere. I never told anyone until my grandmother discovered the marks on my arm. My grandmother scared the heck out of the boy and it stopped after that. From then on, when the boy and I crossed paths, he promptly went the other way.  LOL.  My grandmother was the coolest lady!



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      emmie
March 2008 | emmie
Re: I hate bullies !!!!

Hi Izzy,

Yes they are very sneaky its quite scary how sneaky some kids can be.You would think it happening in th e book corner they would be supervised but nobody knew nothing.

The girl was stood there when i told the teacher what had happened but apparantly they were unseperateable today so we will see. LOL

Emz



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dannii17
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | dannii17
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hey emz, i know it would be hard on kylie and she hasnt been at this school for very long.But no matter wat school you go too there will always be bullies and its sad that parents raise there kids like this :( i hope kylie goes ok at school and this doesnt happen again,its not fair for little kylie to be scared to go to school..I hope the parents of that little brat jessica sort her out and let her know that behaviour like that is not exceptable. Dannii xxo


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      emmie
March 2008 | emmie
Re: I hate bullies !!!!

Hi Dannii,

Yes its just such a shame cos she has only been there 2 weeks and it was the girl she has been playing with from day 1 . She has been told since she was bullied in her old school if anyone smacks you smack back and tell the teacher. She has been ok today they were the best of friends again sitting on each others laps and stuff the school are sending a letter home so hopefully her parents will deal with her and tell her it isnt acceptable

Luv Emz xxx



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mum2b84
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | mum2b84
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You did the right thing. Also I think maybe it's time to teach her to stand up for herself because as she gets older, the more she tells the teacher, the worse it gets. My sister was bullied all through school and it is such a horrible thing to have happen!

I hope it gets sorted soon so the little angel can go to school and enjoy it!



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      emmie
March 2008 | emmie
Re: I hate bullies !!!!

Oh yes i dpo i know i shouldent but i tell her if somebody hurts u do it back and tell the teacher they have been best of friends today soo we will have to wait and see lol

Emz



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cathbusymum
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | cathbusymum
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 I really hope this gets sorted quickly for her sake and yours. Keep on the teachers back if it goes on.

Cath



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      emmie
March 2008 | emmie
Re: I hate bullies !!!!

Hi Cath,

The teacher had a word with both girlsand a letter has gone home to her parents so hopefully they will deal with their child and today they have been the best of friends so we will have to wait and see

Emz x



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Arna
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | Arna
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I used to be a bully, now I'm the 'good bully'.  I make sure everyone is taking care of themselves, so are you?

Poor Kylie, I had a friend like that girl, and from what I hear, after 11 years, is still the same and still after my head! lol.  Might be something going on in this girls life, so have some patience with her until you know more.  In the meantime, you tell Kylie that she is the stronger person and doesn't have to  put up with it.



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      emmie
March 2008 | emmie
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Hi Arna,

Haha that was sneaky , Im ok just been getting the house sorted ready for the in - laws lol back to drs thursday fresh dr hopefully he will be better than the last. And how are u do u look like ur hiding a beachball yet? hehe

They were gettigng on like the best of friends today so hopefully she has learnt she cant do this to people .A letter has gone hme to her parents so i hope they deal with her and ive told kylie if she does it again smack her back and tell the teacher no matter what .

Luv Emz xx



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           Arna
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | Arna
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Belly is getting bigger, huge in fact.  Still trying to get the camera working though!  That's what I get for buying one with a battery charger that doesn't work and I don't have the right powered reserve batteries!

Glad things are being sorted with Kylie and her friend. 



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                emmie
March 2008 | emmie
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Lmao well thats a sign of a healthy baby growing in there! Ah my camera is broken i really do need to get a new one well as soon as istop breaking everything lmao .

Luv Enmz xx



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