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Well things are really moving now . I got a bit mad that that matron never phoned me i waited untill lunchtime and then got on the phone i rang the hosputal this time i never asked for P.A.L.S. instead i chose to explain to the person on the other end of the phone whats been going on 1 day not allowed to complain the next i am . I told her she was meant to call me last night after she spoke to the nurse in question yet i am still waiting. She was suprised at that and said nobody can stop you from complaining i told her whatthe matron had said and she said ok hang on a moment and i will put you through to the executive i think she said of the hospital they will be able to help you further. I told her what had happeneed i am now waiting for her to ring me back she wasnt too imressed it took the papers for me to be ableto complain. She advised me i should contact the miscarriage assosiation as at the time i was very upseet . Also as you can proberly guess seems my foetus has not been put in my notes or anything i want to know what happened to it so i wanted to ask if i had that right also i explained how upset and hurt i am. Also how the nurse has made me feel so angry and the hospital not helping me much. Theey were fantastic help here i will copy paste the message its nothing i havent told you guys.
Thank you for contacting The Miscarriage Association. I was very sorry to hear that you sadly suffered a miscarriage recently and can appreciate what a difficult time this is for you. I do hope our organisation can help provide you with any support and information you need.
It was sad to hear about the lack of information you have been given about your foetus and it's understandable that you feel angry about this.
The hospital will have routine procedures for what happens to miscarried babies or foetuses and they should be able to tell you what that is and what has happened in your case. If you can't get this information from the ward or a bereavement officer, why not try the hospital chaplain?
Hospitals should be responsible to dispose of the remains in a sensitive way and they really should be talking through with you, how this is done if this is the case. It is possible that if you are making an official complaint and also talking to the media that this might make them a bit more cautious in talking to you and it may have been passed on to the hospital trust (which you could always write to). This however shouldn't really make a difference in you finding out the information, which you are entitled to do.
I do hope you can find something out soon and if we can help in any other way, do contact us here at anytime.
Best wishes
Lisa at The M.A.
She lead me into the right direction i googled torbay hospital trust . Isaid aboutthe complaint and me wanting to know whats happened to the foetus silly me pressed the wrong button and sent it to the wrong person yet i still got a reply it went to a website
Your message has arrived via our website and I have forwarded it to the hospital’s manager for women’s services. I know that she is aware that the matron spoke to you earlier this week. I very much hope that she can help you – I know she will do everything possible. We are very sorry indeed that you have had such an upsetting time.
I didnt personally get this email until after 5 so i guess the manager will get back to me tomorrow at least i hope,
As for the herald they called last night to make sure much hasnt changed before my story gets published which should be early next week. The reporter i have been doing this with is at a funeral today but she will be calling Barry tomorrow to ask him a few questions basically the same as me just from his point of view. So really they are moving faster .
Afterall ive been waiting 2 days just for a meeting time for that witch to apoligise to me. I wonder if she even got pulled??? But still i should find out tomorrow . I will not be taken as a fool and they can ignore as much as they like i wont go away until i have it sorted i will be their worst nghtmare lol.
Also i got called into Kylies school today when i got the call they said it was reguarding her behaviour but unfortunatly it doesent stop there . Kylie is sppending alot of time out on the naughty chair lately . The behaviour reason i was called in was because she was being rude to the dinnerlady. They are supposed to line up quietly to wait fortheir lunch no talking til hey are sat down well Kylie would not shut up . She was told to stop talking 5 times and each time she said NO !!! For this she was put on the timeout chair apparantly sahe is like this quite alot. I asked if she was a bully because of the way she is with chloe lately she said she is kind to everyone just wont do as she is told . I explained to her i was going to speak to her because i get it at home too i shown her what Kylie did tp Chloes head yesterday when she tipped her out the buggy she was amazed . The other problem is more to do with her learnming she is struggling at school i think its her concentration its just that the teacher says to the whole class go find something to do everybody will find something yet Kylie will just stand there . She cant make up her mind for herself thbe teacher has to give her a few things to choose from and if there is more than 2 she gets confussed . But they said they would inform me if this got worse or ifother problems in this area develop so we will see what happems
Luv Emz xxx
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Re: Finally things are moving!!!!
Hi Emmie,
Really sounds like you are going to be heard about all this! yay! Today, your hospital, tomorrow, the world!
I read your comment in my blog, and I'm glad you are able to keep your sense of humour, means you are much stronger than anyone thought possible, maybe even yourself!
As for Kylie, sounds like maybe the teachers are taking the wrong approach with her. If I were closer, I'd volunteer to spend time at school working with her etc, but that would be one terribly early start and one late finish for me! lol
You keep being positive, and remember that you have so much strength within yourself.
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Re: Finally things are moving!!!!
Hi Honey,
YAY really coming along huh??? I still havent heard from the matron barry just called to say herald rang him to ask what happened in his eyes and how he feels .As i type my stoery is being written she will get in contact when she is done.
Ah yes well you are so funny i needed a arna blog with all those sileys i was feeling really miserable but your blog did make me chuckle quite a bit hows the bruises ??? I was a mess the other night and a friend of ours carl said i need to be strong now i need to stand tall of what happened and figght for the the presence i had of my heavens baby anmd i feel he is right after a long think of course and thats exxactly what i will do i will fight!
I am not sure about this learning thing because here she is bright and confident they explain her as quiet and stands there when the children are told to find something to do. i was saying to barry at the other schiool we were getting brilliant reports and they say she is bright and really gets involved in activities. The behaviour im not suprised by but she does keep saying she dont wantto go school like today.I may be getting chloe in creche if she does i may go in and see for myself exactly what is happening.
Yes positive cant go negative not now must keep strong i keep telling myself that . Well i suppose i better sort this run out for the pups ive been in bed all day im, getting nervous about this article being published what looks am i going to get at the school omg hide me
Luv Emz xxx
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