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Jul

Will it ever end??

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My body and its bleeding i mea is really getting stupid now. Its really getting me down. Since i had my miscarriage 6/5 i think i have gon around 10 days that i havent bled. I had a proper period 25/6  and believe me it wa a proper one the cramps omg i stopped bleding on wednesday now come friday i am bleeding again grrr. What is wrong with my stupid body. I really have had enough of it. I will be going to talk to my dr on monday . Its been 8 weeks it has rto stop soon.

Health visitor rang today she wanted to do Chloes 2 year check i was about to go into town so i had to tell barry to forgetit i will have to stay home as the health visitor wanted to come TODAY. Chloe didnt like her very much. Neither did i to be honest . Anyway i h ave to start taking Chle to toddler groups bit hard when my confidence and self esteem has gone totally down hill. Chloe got some new boos she loves them. She tried to weigh chloe but she sat down for a minute and then jumpedo ff and wouldent go back on so i have to take her to baby clinic. She kept asking how i was coping when barry is at work i told her i am just fine, She was asking stupid questions like can she count does she know her alphebet . Give me a break she was only 2 last week.. I told her she can say around 50 words and her biggest sentence is 'i love you' . She said i should put chloes hair up more often as its bushy but why shiuld i she has beautiful longish curly hair why should i tie it back because she wants me too? ggrrr.

My computer is the most powerful its been all week ive suddenly got nearly 6 meg YAY that is much better not as much as it should be but its enough lol. Engineer is coming out again monday they have been playibf with the line today so who knows?

Luv Emz xxx

 

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KathrynR1402
July 6th | KathrynR1402
Re: Will it ever end??

Hope the GP can help you - your poor body needs a break!

Those were some weird questions from the health visitor. But in my experience, good HVs are like hens teeth - very rare! I wouldnt let her worry you - bet she doesnt have a 2 year old herself! My DD1 was advanced knowing her alphabet and lots of numbers a year later, and starting school at 5 counting to 100 and knowing all 26 letters, so why a 2 year old should know any of that, I dont know! If she gets what you mean when you count to 3, she's doing well (I swear my DD1 learned to count to 3 so early coz she heard me count her out so often LOL!). And there are only 2 reasons to tie back Chloe's hair IMO - 1.  because you & she want to, & 2. coz the nits might find it harder to climb onboard. But if she's not going to toddler groups, and no-one's bringing them home from school to her (?) then the latter isnt an issue. But I would recommend Toddler Groups for you and Chloe - its a bit chicken & egg - you have to summon up some confidence from somewhere to go in the first place, but once you mix with other mums, you will find they're just as nice as Minti mums, and that you have a lot to share and gain. And Chloe will have a great time making friends.



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      emmie
July 6th | emmie
Re: Will it ever end??

My last health visitor was great but this one geesh boy she is horrible. I dont think she has a 2 yr old at home my child is clever but gosh not that clever, She isnt countng at all yet we are working on her words and speech at the moment. Kylie can only just do her alphabet she only knew tat at 4 . As for her hair well she could catch nits if kylie was to bring them home from schoolbut i doubt it as i put repellant in her hair purposely to stop them getting on her head.  But i love her curls and i dont want to tie them away and hide them also i dont want to hurt her head as she suffers exzema and quite a bit on her scalp . As for the toddler group i really need to get some confidence and self esteem first

Luv Emz xxx



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anon
July 6th | anon
Re: Will it ever end??

Hey, honey, I really don't know what to say about the bleeding. Apart from maybe get a second opinion. I know it can sometimes take your body a while to get back to a routine. But I am sure you sick of hearing that.

And the child health nurse. Tell her to go to hell. It's not her job to decide if chloe wairs her hair up or down. Play group sounds like a great idea and can be a great support network. I hope everything settles down for you real soon and you can get some normality back in your life. You really need and much more deserve it. NORMAL! ha whats that! pmsl.

Much Love, Karen. xx.



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      emmie
July 6th | emmie
Re: Will it ever end??

Hey Sweetie,

Ive so far seen 3 differant drs about it but they all say the samed wait for the scan which is on the 14th but tomorrow i will be telling her i am at my witts end with this. Ive had enough of waiting now.

As for the health visitor well she can get lost if she is there when i get her weighed she best be leaving me alone. As for the toddler group i will proberly go wen i feel a bit better. . Normal i dont know wat tha is LOL

Luv Emz xxx



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Queen-Fire
July 5th | Queen-Fire
Re: Will it ever end??

Hey

Taking Chloe to playgroup will be great for both of you. I found it was a great support base for boht of us.  I really hope your bleeding stops soon. Really sorry for your loss. Hope you start feeling better soon.



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      emmie
July 6th | emmie
Re: Will it ever end??

Hey Queen - fire ,

i might take her to a toddler group when im feelig abit better . I really need this bleeding to stop its really driving me nuts. Thanx

Luv Emz xx



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llmunchkin
July 5th | llmunchkin
Re: Will it ever end??

Health visitor?  What business of hers is it how your child wears her hair, or how you cope when Barry is at work???  Some odd line of questioning there.  I stopped going for our visits once Jaydee was one, as they were boring and I had no questions and I knew that Jaydee was developing well anyway. 

Have you tried getting alternative advice?  Like from a Naturopath; they give you a more holistic approach to healing and your lifestyle be taking into account ALL of your symptoms, and FEELINGS. 



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      emmie
July 6th | emmie
Re: Will it ever end??

I know matey its none of her bloody buisness. Chloe is absolutly fine. I dont llike the way she was questioning me . I took Chloe every week to baby clinic from birth tright up until she trned 1. Ive never had any worries about her it was a case of taking her to get weighed her weight is fantastic she is doing great i have no reason to take her.

A who?? never heard of it will have to google later. Matey they need to LISTEN to me nobody seems to be listening nobody seems to want to listen to how i feel and actually help me . Doctor wants to listen tomorrow cos me is sick and tired of this really i am.

Love ME XXX



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pauline27
July 5th | pauline27
Re: Will it ever end??

You have had such a terrible time, with all this on your mind it's no wonder you have trouble sleeping.don't worry about how you do your daughters hair just tell them to help you with your health.It is obvious to all of us you are a very caring mum



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      emmie
July 5th | emmie
Re: Will it ever end??

I thought with them putting my sleeping tablets up i would be asleep before 1am it relly is silly i seem to be up til earluy hours the nup again at 6 with the kids its really begginning to drain me ive had enough i surrender LOL. Chloes haair is fine maybe they shhould start listening to me and get me some decent xcouncelling and find out what the hell is going on with my body god damn NHS i really am loosing so much faith in them . My daughter is my world she s in perfect health they sre worrying about the wrong tings totally.

Luv Emz xxx



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janicepovey
July 5th | janicepovey
Re: Will it ever end??

 Oh gee emz, some people have a hide don't they, fancy telling you how to do Chloes hair.....and Chloes is doing just fine for a 2 year old, more than fine, my thoughts.

Better then her poor Mum is doing, so sorry i can not be there for sweet....i so wish you could  find a doctor or someone who do something to solve your  health problems....so my dear friend could feel normal and enjoy life once more.....i so feel for emz.

You are in my thoughts & prayers & i send you big hugs and loads of love Mum xxxx



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      emmie
July 5th | emmie
Re: Will it ever end??

Hey Mum,

I know it just really takes the mick dont it . I WONT tie Chloes hair back in fact i am going to make sure its down when i get her weighed just because i know she doesent like it . She is my daughter i will do what ai like. Chloe is absolutly fine thry really want to open their eyes.

Yes im not doing too good at the moment but i will pull through i always do. Dont you worry aboiut me worry aabout getting yourself better . In the last 2 months i dont know who i have become its  kind of scary. But it can only get better thats what they say.

Love u heaps Emz xxx



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nabutters
July 5th | nabutters
Re: Will it ever end??

Tie her hair back???? Who does this woman think she is?? Chloe's mother??? GRRRR, health nurse needs to back off i think...Chloe sounds like she is a smart little 2 yr old!! Some 2 yr olds dont say that many words, they all develop differently and no one should compare like this health nurse...some health nurse...shezzzzzzzzz....i hope ur health picks up hunny...

get better soon.... na xxxx



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      emmie
July 5th | emmie
Re: Will it ever end??

Hey Na,

i know its absolutly crazy its like who is the mother me or her im not going to suddenly tiew her hair up because she wants me too she can kiss it.She says a word out of line when i take her to get weighed i wont be keeping my mouth shut.

Chloe isa a very clever toddler. My friend came over this afternoon to bring chloe an otfit for her birthday and she said how talkative she has got in just a month. Also she likes ta;lking on the phone u have to beat heer to it else she answers says hello and hangs up LOL not good when its an important call though lol.

As for me well hopewfully the dr will do sopmething this is eating me up inside i cant wait til the 14th this isa joke .

Luv Emz xxxx



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Domestic-warrior
July 5th | Domestic-warrior
Re: Will it ever end??

Whats her hair got to do with anything?  How odd.....do you have to go back and see her?  I'd see someone else next time...lol....!  Btw, Chloe sounds perfectly normal to me, i don't know any 2 year olds that can say their alphabet!



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      emmie
July 5th | emmie
Re: Will it ever end??

Hey Matey

You tell me cos i dont have a clue ?? Hopefully not her exactly i have tro take her to get weighed monday /wednesday but i will take her moday hopefully she wont be there . I think chloe is doing great for her age . She is non stop talking, potty training, sleeping in a bed, out of highchair , very well behaved, loving she can say 3 word sentences she is pretty much out the buggy, she dont have a dummy what more does she want she is only 24 months.

Luv Emz xxx



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nell18-3
July 5th | nell18-3
Re: Will it ever end??

What a strange health visitor????

I'm so surprised you didn't tell her to stick her advice where the sun doesn't shine LOL

xxx



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      emmie
July 5th | emmie
Re: Will it ever end??

Hey Helen,

Hm i know she was horrible she made me feel so awkward.

I came close i am telling you she nearly got told to get the bleep out of my house i dont know what is with the NHS  but they are really pissing me off at the moment.

Luv Emz xxx



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mumof2b
July 5th | mumof2b
Re: Will it ever end??

In my fiesty mood lately I would have tols her off right there.........how dare she tell you how to raise Chloe or even how to do her hair.....it's none of her business!!!!

Oh I hope your Doctor can do something for you Emz.......that's so miserable to be going through that.

Amanda xxxx



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      emmie
July 5th | emmie
Re: Will it ever end??

Hey Amanda,

I nearly did if it wasnt for the dr saying she needded to see them in the first place i think i proberly would have buti came close to telling her to get the hell out of my house the cheek of it. Chloe is my childi  gave birth to her i put her on this worldi will choose if she has her hair up or down weather i will constantly take her to baby clinic when she doesent need to she is a toddler now she dont really need weighing i have no concerns about her weightgrrr.

Im hoping she can sort something out because i really have had enough o f it i am sick of it its making me feel so miserable and down.

Luv Emz xxx



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lonely28
July 5th | lonely28
Re: Will it ever end??

What kind of health visit was that??? I mean really, tying back her hair???? How does that have anything to do with her health??? She's your daughter so if you want to tie back her hair you can and if you dont well then you don't. Chloe has beautiful hair.... maybe she was jealous lol.

That's alot of words for little lady... good on her!!! Sounds like that your little miss is going to be a champion little chatter!!!! From what you've said Chloe is coming along just fine.... I wouldn't be to concerned about what that so called health visitor had to say.

As for your health..... Emz I've got everything crossed that the doctor can give you some answers and some much needed relief. I know how frustrating it is when no one seems to listen....grrrrrr. I don't blame you for having enough of it all... it's high time that someone gave you some idea of how to deal with this and what exactly is going on. Sending you loads of healing vibes,

fi xoxo



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      emmie
July 5th | emmie
Re: Will it ever end??

Hey Fi,

I know it was more of a parent visit LOL . Chloe's hair is gorgeous  absolutly love it i love putting my fingers through her curls they are so cute and i dont ee why i should tie them up when i dont need to it hgets washed every other day so its not asif there is ever anything wrong with her hair.

Yes she is a little chatterbox not that you can understand it all yet alot of it is gibberish but she is definatly trying and she can use up to 3 word sentences i think she is bright for her age. I have no concerns for her development at all i think she has had a fantastic start to life. I mean this health visitor was even aasking what foods she eats like WTF is this a million questions she even asked if kylie asks to see her mother etc like whats that got to do with chloes 2 year chexck?? I dont like her at all i hope she is nt here when i get her weighed,

Fi its been 2 whole months and i have put up eith it al and took every rock thrown at me . Ive begged them to help me eat and sleep and even tostop this bleeding but still i am getting nowhere . Ive told them i really really need help the last 8 weeks i have changed into a totally differant person and i dont know who i am anymore my head is a complete mess but alli  get is a  appointment to see the drs councellor who has already told me she cant help me ive just had enough of it all i cant take no more of it . Get this i cant eat yet i am putting on loads of weight and i mean loads.

Luv EMz xxx



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cathbusymum
July 4th | cathbusymum
Re: Will it ever end??

I can't believe someone would actually say to tie back her hair! I mean, hello but she's your daughter and you can have her hair any way you want. I love her curly hair!  I would of said i was going to get her a mo-hawk just to see her face LOL  No wonder you didn't like her! What a crazy thing! 

Chloe being able to say so many words is great! I can't wait for Keiraleah to say I love you. Thats great for her age when some kids that age don't say much yet at all. Don't let that stupid woman worry you at all. Your doing a great job!

I hope the doctor on monday can give you some answers. I can understand how frustrating it must be. I really hope your health problems can get sorted once and for all.

Cath xxxx



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      emmie
July 4th | emmie
Re: Will it ever end??

Its crazy isnt it . How dare she tell me what to do with my daughters hair . She is my daughter and she will have her hair how i want it and i want it down showeing all her pretty curls i can put my finger in. Its not asif its in her eyes it goes behind her ears perfect. Stupid woman is crazy.

Chloe doesent stop talking only when she is sleeping,eating or drinking. LOL . She can say alot of words really seems she has only been talkig a few months i think she expected her to be a dictionary. Give her a break she is 24 mnths . She is already talking about her going school next september.Like thats over a year away.

I am just so fed up  with it all really i am i just wish they would take the whole lot away and have done with it . Dr best be listening cos i am so fed up with it.

Luv Emz xxx



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dannii17
July 4th | dannii17
Re: Will it ever end??

Hey Emz,

I can understand how frustrated your getting!! Although i didnt have it go on as long as you have but i did have a problem with my periods. I wouldntget one for 2 months and then i would bleed for 1 month straight, then it would go and return a week later, it was CRAZY!! In the end they thought it was my pill so i had to stop taking that and wait for a normal period before i started a different brand, then i was told i had cysts on my ovaries, then i was told i had Irritable bowel syndrome. My normal period never came through because thats when i fell pregnant.

What a stupid woman that health visitor sounds like!! All kids develop differently and talk at there own speed. Not many two yr olds even know 50 words!! So its a good thing that Chloe does. About the hair, ive seen pix of your daughters hair, blonde curls she has and i think its stunning, dont listen to that dumbass about tying her hair back, its your choice how you want to have YOUR daughters hair.

I dont understand some people.. In the world there are so many parents who dont look after there children properly, they dont dress them, feed them, love them yet these people do nothing about it until its too late. Instead they pick on people, like she did to you about stupid things like, "WHY ISNT HER HAIR TYED UP"???? They need to pick up the act on the bad parents not You.

Dannii xxo



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      emmie
July 4th | emmie
Re: Will it ever end??

Hey Danni,

I bld like that before i got pregnant with chloe too worked out my tube was stuck in my pelvis blocked i had to have a operation to have it freed and unblocked just 3 weeks later before  got chance to have a period i fell pregnant with my beautiful girl but this is doing my head right in its jyuust constant .

Chloe does actually speak quite alot for her age Kylie didnt say half of what chloe says now when she had just turnt 2. As for her hair its beautiful i love it its getting long and turning blonde and really curly i love those curls they are so cute and im not going to hide them by tieing it up She is my daughter and i will have her hair how i want it not how the health visitor says i should have it.

It makes me sick there are people out there that beast heir kids up , neglect them what have you yet they have to complain on how i do my daughter as hair just dont make ssense ots none of their buisness howi  do her hair sheis a bright kid and that is whats meant to matter.

Luv Emz xxx



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