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What a joke !!!

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No wonder i havent yet heard from the hospital im going to recieve a letter all about my emotions and that they are going to get me help according to my advocate we now have to wait a few days for letters to get to the right places . I told her he made me feel as tthough his doctors mistake was my fault because they lack gyneacologists .

I told her they admit i was given back my foetus although it didnt have any live parts . (apparantly) . Although they denie her saying 'its ok its only a miscarriage. Well obviously to me it wasnt just a miscarriage this has turnt my world upside down, I told her they were asking if i had ever made mistakes before and comparing themto her mistake and she told me yes hse made a mistake and it was NOT my fault and when a mistake is made the person who makes the mistake pays for their mistake.

So i wait for this letter in hopefully a few days and then we can start taking this even further as my complaint has NOT  been addressed its all to do with my emotions and that is rubbish also bringing this up in a meeting and having a room made for miscarrying mothers is not enough for what i am being put through bythe hospital.

So we will see manager of the hospital is getting on to Karen McMahom about my letter i should have recieved over a week ago at least and  boytth i and my advocate will get a copy.

Luv Emz xxx

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nell18-3
July 8th | nell18-3
Re: What a joke !!!

You go girl !!!!!!

I'm so proud of you that the way you have fought your corner and never given up

xxx

 



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      emmie
July 9th | emmie
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Im not giving up Helen . Not until i get an apology from that woman .xxx



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mumof2b
July 8th | mumof2b
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They are unbelieveable!!!!!!!  They certainaly weren't banking on you being this tough......I'm so glad you're fighting them all the way. You're doing what so many don't have the strength to do, you should be very proud of yourself.

Amanda xxxx



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      emmie
July 8th | emmie
Re: What a joke !!!

Crazy arntthey ? that woman eill psy for what she did they will deal with my complaint properly.

Luv Emz xxx



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Arna
July 8th | Arna
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Is it just me or are they really starting to panic? lol.  I think you kicked up so much of a fuss, as you should have, that they don't know how to deal with it and are just making it up as they go.

I really hope that they pull their heads in and deal with the real problem, the insensitive nurse who treated a patient like a farmer treats a sheep, as though they are just another transaction!



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      emmie
July 8th | emmie
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They are shitting it thats why they are ignoring me and why i havent yet got my letter they are scared what  i will do with it as they know i legally can do them over for my mental state.

Mycxomplaint has been pretty much ignored i dont have the answers i wanted and have the right to know them . They are just making it harder on theirsselfs they think by blaming me forlack of gynaecologists has nothing to dso with my complaint they tried ignoring the fact she said 'its ok its only a miiscarriage ' and when i brought it up i was called a liar its all fear .

But with my advocate now being fully involved in my case they cant feed me bull as she will get onto them for me and she knows what is right and wrong.

Luv Emz xxx



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llmunchkin
July 8th | llmunchkin
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Oh just as well you are getting a letter all about your emotions, as I am sure that you have no idea what emotions are, and what ones you are having and what you would like to do to address these emotions... After all, you are just a hysterical housewife with no idea and you probably didn't even attend that hospital at any time this year...  Lucky you that this bunch of jumped up bureaucratic boffins isn't too busy to help you out; after all, it's only been like 2 months or something since none of this happened... ; )

Go get 'em tiger, show them what for!  xoxox



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      emmie
July 8th | emmie
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Of course i need a letter to tell me how my emotions are /were whatever . How about writting the god damn truth. It really pisses me off. that adocate rekons they knew i was weak he wound me up which gave him an excuse to end the meeting just u wait til i get that letter there will be hell.LOL XX



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MrsSanders
July 8th | MrsSanders
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So the plot thickens, eh. First it's not then, it is clots, now they admit the truth, but dont want responsability. Well they are going to get a shock are'nt they hun. Thinking of you, and sending massive hugs.

Luv from Winnie and Crew.xxxx



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      emmie
July 8th | emmie
Re: What a joke !!!

hEY hUN,

Thry sure are me doesent give up that easy i will get my apology from that stupid woman. If it kills me. Also this help that dr ranjit is getting me where is it then as i still havent got a proper councillor.

Luv Emz xxx



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lonely28
July 8th | lonely28
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 these people just make me mad grrrrr!!!!! You are so right, this is a joke!!! No one should be treated like this.... hmmm if I could get on a plane and be there I would do it in a heartbeat!!!! Me and the other fire dancing girls will add you to the list of people to help.... believe me we're a powerful bunch!!!!  I wish there was more I could do or say to help you Emz.... you deserve so much better than this!!!

love ya,

fi xoxo



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      emmie
July 8th | emmie
Re: What a joke !!!

Aww thanx Fi . Thery make me so angry and frustrate me so much they always have to hide the truth so much . If it is all to do with my mental state in thasat meeting i am going to hit the roof. They wqant to hope they have a good solicitor They have pushed me way too far i am so sick of them . Do they forget i have witnesses? Grrr

Luv Emz xxx



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mum2alittleboy
July 8th | mum2alittleboy
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I have just read up on all your blogs and I can not believe it. It is horrific what they put you through to begin with but to drag it out and ignore the issue is just plain wrong. I hope you get the result you are after and all this pain is worth it.



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      emmie
July 8th | emmie
Re: What a joke !!!

Yes it is sick and ts wrong this should have been over long ago yet because they are dragging it out and even in their last letter theey said they understand that the doctor in question and the matron wernt avaiable added to my pain yet they are still dragging this out . I want an apology from that woman o i can see for myself she is truel;y sorry . Enough people have hurtme in my life and walked away not 1 more person is doing that and i will make sure of it.

Luv Emz xxx



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gecko-baby
July 8th | gecko-baby
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oh sweetie

i really wish that this will get all sorted out for you it's gone on for far to long now. you and Barry need to able to grieve and deal with your emotions privately not with everyone else telling you how you are feeling.

you were there you know what was said and what wasn't said and that's all that matters sweetie.

sending you lots of warm hugs and love

gecko-baby

 



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      emmie
July 8th | emmie
Re: What a joke !!!

Hey Sweetie,

Its been 2 long months yet they are still dragging things out my advocate rekons it could take another month hopefulkly at the most. It was 3 of them against me they made me have a panic attack and abused that fact

I know how im feeling i dont need them telling me im crazy cos thats what he basically said to me in the meeting . If thisa letter is purely about my feelings and mental healthg im going to hit the roof.

Luv Emz xxx



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