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2008

Anyone else want a go???????

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Man im stressed who needs ememies when you have friends like mine!!!

Seriously like im having surgery in 36 hours and im stressed as hell. Lee come round this morning as Barry was fixing their car. Boy i wish she never bothered. She has been OK for a few months now i thought the hysterectomy sorted this problem out. How wrong was i gees.

First off it was just me when they arrived and Kevin gave me a 3rd degree bollocking of why i shouldent put up with it. Bla bla bla likei can make my own mind up im not a bloody robot. (I did say i was stressed) .

Then when the men and little rae was outside well it was Lee's turn to start . God why wont anyone leave me alone god dammit. I just want to get this place sorted and my bag packed ready to get this operation over with i dont want this stress, anyways she sytarts with 'you are cruel to kylie' pull another one.

Because i smacked kylie on the butt for biting her little sister. So cruel of me. Get this one i dont do any housework.Really funny. Since chloe was born i treat them differant.Yeah like course i do.

Oh the best one was i need help . Not just help but help from her . So funny. Believe me I put her in her place we were full blown arguing for a good hour then little Rae came in. We are OK with each other we didnt fall out but we hd a big row about it all. She rekons she knows what im going through but she doesent have a clue i donnt tell her anything anymore ggrrrr.

Guess what it only 35 hours and 3 mins til my operation so close now yippee.

Anyway i best go its like 1am and i need my beauty sleep LOL nah im not going bed jusdt yet im finnishing my drink first . Lots to do tomorrow hopefully Lee wont comeround weith Kevin im not up for round 2,

Luv Emz xxxx

PS thanks1uj4.gif

For all your support it really means the world to me xxxx

 

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Marglr
December 2008 | Marglr
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

Hello little one.  My all the powers that be look over you. May you feel better and gain strength.  I will be saying this over and over until I know you are out and on your way to recovery.  I have always wished for you that you find peace emmie and I know you want and need that too. Spend no time focusing on any one or any event.  Clear your mind and relax to be on your way to a healthier and happier you. It is coming.  Nothing else matters right now more than having your op and getting better. sending HUGE vibes Sweety!!  HUGE vibes!!! 



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      emmie
December 2008 | emmie
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

Thanks for those HUGE vibes . I need to feel better i dont need all this stress its no good for me, I have my op tomorrow and everyone seems tobe out to get me . But it isnt long now its tomorrow and im going to be up at 5 so i can have some brekfast. as i cant eat or drink afterr 7.30am . soon it will all be over love ya xxx



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lexiw
December 2008 | lexiw
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

Hugs for you Emz I am sure your op will go really well and it is really great that you will have someone to take care of you and Chloe.

As we walk our path of life,
We meet people everyday.
Most are simply met by chance.
But, some are sent our way.
These become special friends
Whose bond we can't explain;
The ones who understand us
And share our joy and pain.

Their love contains no boundaries.
So, even when we are apart.
Their presence enhances us
With a warmth felt in the heart.

This love becomes a passageway,
When even the miles disappear.
And so, these friends,The Gods send our way,
Remain forever near.

 Lexi xxx



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      emmie
December 2008 | emmie
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

Thanks for the poem its lovely .I sure hope so just getting a little shaky aboutit lol not long now xxx



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pauline27
December 2008 | pauline27
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

No one on here want to have a go at you. It is obvious we all want you to make a good recovery after your op, and you will be more clear in your head to make decisions. Icame on minti in April and you have had such an awful time for several months and it seems you have to do everything. I'm so glad your dad is going to look after you for a while. Keep your chin up and keep in your mind that you are a GOOD mother to those girls.

Thinking of you continually

Love Pauline



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      emmie
December 2008 | emmie
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

Im glad of that believe me everyone wants to have a go at me for some reason.I just want to get this op over with. Yes u joined minti just before i had y miscarriage and since then it been one thing after the other. plus i dsont get any help .I am a good mum to my girls they are treated no differant what so ever they are just treated like a 5 yr old and a 2 yesar old . dad is here now nice to have him about he is making me a drink. bless him. xxxx



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nell18-3
December 2008 | nell18-3
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

You will probably find out now just who exactly your friends are Emz...

I know I did

I had one friend that I would have done anything for , I confided really private and intimate things about my marriage to her hoping for support, she convinced me it was normal !!!!! So I stayed longer !!!!!!!!!!!! She then supported him when I left !!!!

It broke my heart. Just know that any choices are yours to make and your real friends will support any choices you make.

So hoping and praying that all will go well for you this week

xxx

 



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      emmie
December 2008 | emmie
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

Ive become very wary that is for sure it slipped bary had been round talkingto kevin and she has fed of that.

Thanks time is nearly up tomorrow is the big day YAY  xxx



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      GilliLP
December 2008 | GilliLP
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

Amen to that!



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           emmie
December 2008 | emmie
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

LOL XX



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GilliLP
December 2008 | GilliLP
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

With friends like those, who needs enemas? (And yes, I do mean that they're giving you the sh**s!) Please God that your op and visit to the dentist will be the first steps on the road to a better life. Once you don't have pain added to the complications in your life, you'll be able to assess your priorities with a clearer head.



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      emmie
December 2008 | emmie
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

Not me for sure gees she is such a ass she wants to hope she dont see me today . Once i have my op done and my teeth done i will be on thew road to recovery i cant wait i gotta stop all this negative stuff happening.At the moment my heads in a thousand pieces roll on tomorrow only 1 more slkeep to go xxxx



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Queen-Fire
December 2008 | Queen-Fire
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

Who the Heck do these people think they are? They are not K and C's primary carers, and how dare they have a go at you for hitting Kylie. I don't know what I would do if I was in your situation, but I would try and find someone to stay with if I could while you got better, I would take Chloe and stay at a friends or family member's house for a few days after the op.

Cheers Queenie

xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox



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      emmie
December 2008 | emmie
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

I gotmy daddy coing to look after me he promises to keep mmy coke glas  filled food whenever i want it. take chloe park when i want to sleep.If i want anything at the shops i just need to write a list lol im going to be sofa bound lol and ewont be able to  pick up chloe xx



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anniebabe
December 2008 | anniebabe
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

nice to see that barry got his priorities right (not) 

how long are you staying in hospital for sweetie? remind me who lee is again is she kevins girlfriend? was kevin the friend that used to stay at your house?why would you need help from her? if someone needs help it would be neutral . already she has made up her mind about the situation without being there

im just curious whos version did she here?  wise move not to confide in her anymore.  sweetie you dont need all this at the moment  i know its hard but think of something sweet even if you have never been there or had it before . nothing wrong with daydreaming trying to block things out even for 5 minutes.

hugs and kisses  annie xxxoooo



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      emmie
December 2008 | emmie
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

Yep he hasa his priorities perfect NOT.

Here a little bit about Lee. She was my besat friend i say was because we fell out all summer a couple of summers ago and things havent been the same since. After i had chloe i felt she was cold and bitter . She gets jealous when i have other friends she doesent like it she then thinks i am not her friend. Anyways we fell out she took my photo of 'us' she got printed and put in a frame for me for my birthday . It was her wedding day picture as wwhen she got maried the only person in her fmily she had there was her sister and she invited herself she only wanted me at her and kevins wedding. As yyou can guess the photo did mean alot anyway she tok it to hurt me as this was a token of our friendship. Since our friendship hasnt been the same sand she is now so cold and bitter i dont see Lee stood  there anymore i just see a cold and bitter woman who cares about nothing oh except rae. Its obvious who she has been listening to cos she has been here about 4 times in the last 6 months

See its all stress andi  could do with her staying away today yes alot was talked aboyt and i was expected to rennember something 2 years ago but i dont need this right now i have enough shot going on without her adding to it

Luv Emz xxx



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tassiebiarch
December 2008 | tassiebiarch
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Good luck to tomorrow em, it will be all fine, lap up the luxury of being by yourself for a while lol. I hated being in there, then i got home and was like god i wish i was back in lol..Nah serious good luck!!!!!!!



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      emmie
December 2008 | emmie
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

Cheers it should be k i just hope they dont make no mistakes xx



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           tassiebiarch
December 2008 | tassiebiarch
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

They won't you will be happy afterwards, we all think the worse when we go into surgery but majority/high percentage come out fine. When i had my op not long ago, i was looked after so well,like you wouldnt beleive. This will happen to you. We will all be thinking about you

Take care and look after yourself xx



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llmunchkin
December 2008 | llmunchkin
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

Yes, I'd love a go... At each and every one of the people in your life who are supposed to care for you and support you.  They are all doing a rotten job of it and you are better off alone with Chloe than putting up with all that negative rot and no help.  If they gave a damn they would take the pressure off and help you with the house and the kids and let you rest and get better.  They would also be having a go at Barry, NOT you!  Let me at 'em!



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      emmie
December 2008 | emmie
Re: Anyone else want a go???????

Go at em girl they are driving me insane i hope for lees sake she dont comne round today cos im ready to kick ass she has really annoyed mw ggrrr . She expected me to remember something that was said over 2 yeres ago like give me a break already l better go my electrics gonna go i better go sho[p and get some more aand get thiongs sorted round here fir tomorrow xxxxxxxLOVE YOU XXX



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