On wednesday my keyworker told me N from housing was coming with the police to give me a stage 2 warning. Then yesterday she came and gave me this letter.

According to this i breach NOISE , NUISANCE & HARRASSMENT.

Now I wouldent mind this at all if it was me. Do you know I have to spend every day telling my kids they need to be quiet , they cant shout , scream , run around , and i darent let chloe play with her guitar. Anything like this they get told to be quiet. Simply because my neighbour from hell will make a complaint, You would think with this being their home they could do al this stuff but they cnt,

Noise .

I breach noise for an Electric Guitar , Drums , Banging doors &/ walls

Electric Guitar - The last time Barry played his electric Guitar the complaintee was on holiday and it was in the daytime within the hours that you are by law allowed to make a noise. He has played his guitar 3 times in about as many months,

Drums - Unles its invisible there is NO drum kit. So how Ii can get a warning for that is beyond me.

Banging doors &/walls. - That one is true Kylie keeps on hitting the walls and slamming doors but its a kid thing. She is emotionally confussed at the moment half of her wants to meet up with her mother again the other half isnt so sure. So yeah she slams doors im trying to stop it but i cant stop it altogether well unless i take the door off but that is a big no no.

Nuisance .

I breach nuisance for Electric Guitar , domestic arguements to the point it can be heard outside the door , Loud music.

Electric Guitar - As explained above.

Domestic arguements tothe point it can be heard outuside the door - Yeah ok I will admit to that one we do argue but is that not normal ? We are only human and sometimes we dont get on its not as if i am the only one around here to argue. I HAVE A STEP DAUGHTER THAT WONT DO A THING SHE IS TOLD AND IS CONSTANTLY KICKING FOFF about something and her father doesent like discipline so we argue about it its all oveer within the hour there is never any screaming my kids are never directly present .

Loud Musci - Yeah i will have a blast out every now and then when im feeling low and need a pick me up me and the girls have a good little boogie not loud loud bbt eenough for us to enjoy ourselfs.

Harrassment .

I breach harrassment for threatening any tenants or visitors to the property about their age , gender disability , or race.

 Threatening any tenants or visitors to the property about their age , gender , disability or race. - Ive never heard so much croc if anything im the one being harrassed. Itsm e thats done absolutly everrything to stop complaints but that has only made them make things up.

The truth to the story is neighbour from hells hubby took stick out of the  door. Barry told him to leave communal door as it is open to get rid of the smell as no 60 has cancer and is having her bags full of urnined sheets etc is left outside her front door. He claimed he dont like thedoor open because of wind well wedont like the smell neither does anyone who visits us. he then blamed the smell on us which led to barry then suggestingif he shuts it again he will take it of altogether. He then said he was going to report him for threatening him when barry said that he was not threatening him he was threatening the door .

Then yesterday our housing manager rekons the evening before being weds she was outside for 40 mins between 5.30 - 6.10pm unable to get the police to attend she had to leave.Well the funy thing is at 5.30 i was on the phone to my keyworker her phone does not lie and at 5.40 anne knocked at my door and told me to listen somebody was playing guitar she said i bet you get blamed well guess what ?? i did apparamtly it was coming from here . Yet it was silent here i couldent play guitar if i tried and barry wasnt even here .

Sound meters that record everyones decibels is being fitted i cant wait cos IT AINT ME!!!

 

I am so so sorry guys  but this week nobodys gonna be able to shut me up the nxt 6 days. IM TOOO EXCITED!!!!!!!!!!

Why ??? Because after ive been to bed 6 more times i get my teeth.........PERFECT teeth.

My teeth have NEVER been so perfect and they fit perfect too.

i so cant wait. I cant believe its only 6 more days .

Only short today but i guess i better go Kylies gotta be at trampolining in an hour . Though she ha been sat with her brekfast for the last 2 hours. Its soggy now and she is just out to wind me up . To be honest im really fed up with this every week and i went and got her a new outfit yesterday for trampolining and really i dont know hy i bother i bet he kicks off again this week.

Me : Well my teeth are almost done on tuesday i had another moulding so they know where to put the teeth this time it didnt hurt so much actually it was only the bottom that hurt and that was because it was too big. Apparantly thats why my wisdom teeth broke because my mouth is too small for them. then i still needed a filling and polished and scraped teeth .I asked if i could do it without an injection but she declined she said alot of drilling is needed so she dont wanna do it without anathetic so because i hate needles she gave me this tiny bit of i think cotton and i barely felt the needdle she kept it in there while she polished and scraped my teeth. so it was numb anyway she is good like that haha. I go back tuesday and thats my trial hopefully the denture will fit then it can be sent back to the lab and i will have it fitted the following tuesday its all getting a bit exciting. I cant wait.

I am not seeing my phycologist anymore havent for about 6 weeks now. But she set me up with a phyhiatrist . Little did i know it was at waverley house where i weent 9 months ago and they  told me they couldent help me because my problems were too deep. Seems i have got worse since then i have a feeling its still gonna be the same. They sent me an appointment and i never went they sent me another so i rang up and explained i didnt want any appointment and that i wont be attending waverley house at all. Anyways when i told barry he said i need the help and i should give it a go and he rang back and uncancelled my appointment . So i have to go monday argh. Anne is going to come with me though she knows everything anyway well most of it. Nothing that will change anything between us. Then tuesday im speaking to her phychiatrist from the same place and she may be able to see me at annes that way no ears are about. As anne has told her about the way ive been . I think im beyond help to be honest but we will see cant give up.

I finally broke the friendship between me & Leonie . F-or good this time there is no going back. Its been a long time coming really. The end of it was she told barry i had some male friends on FB and told him to check up on me good friend huh ? she kept slagging me of to anne and of course anne told me , then one day she rang up accusing  me of having som prroblem with her i knew it was coming and i asked her why i should be pissed with her and then she started on about me having an attitude problem my god its real childush so i told her that if all she called for was an arguement not to bother ringing my phone again . now kev phones haha i saw her last week couldent even look at her but said to her that i do love her to bits and wish her all the happiness and all that but there is no friendship anymore she is a evil bitch and thats the end of it over done forgotton. Im better off without her. She knows she is wrong she just cat admit it cos she is so cold.

I got fed up of staying home every night with the kids . So now every tuesday me Anne , Lisa & Karen now go tothis pub up the road for a drink then after we go and see some mediums . Its differant people every week some are brilliant some are rubbish never the less we always have a good night . Plus it isnt too expensive drinks , £2 entry andd £1 for raffle tickets and i usually win a prize on the raffle haha.

Kylie ; Well K isnt my favourite person at the moment . Very defiant , demanding and very mouthy . Tantrums dont exsist anymore she just trashes her bedroom , hates me , hits chloe , slams doors and shouts. I thought this is what you get from teenagers not 6 year olds argh.

Been trying to get her into trampoling 1st week she loved it 2nd week didnt want to go i made her as i knew she would enjoy it daddy took her and brought her back she refused to go 3rd week i took her stayed 10 mins went off she loved it found a friend. 4th week i took her again her friend wasnt there , it was her turn to run would she run ? nope . would she exercise to warm  up no in the end she just burst into tears and said iw ant to go homei couldent stomach anymore and called her out. Apparantly all the tear were cos her friend from the week before wasnt there i explained she couldent putu this other child on the spot like that . It isnt fair. Anyway she wasnt prepared to try so we went home. I was so embarrassed but still never mind . Wasted money that was.

Kylie has lost 2 teeth now bless her she was braver this time no real tears daddy pulled it out as it was annoying her and just hanging there and of course she wanted the tooth fairy to come LOL.

Chloe: Well chloe is just chloe really . She is enjoying being a big girl and loves helping me do the housework love her. She issuch a mummys girl.

She starts nursery in october notthat i am looking forward tothat.

I better go Kylie has woke chloe up so all hell is breaking loose. Argh bloody kids x

So we took a trip to the zoo on sunday. Such a great day though very tiring . It took us 5 hours to walk around the whole zoo. The kids absolutly loved it though chloe gottoo tired to carry her legs so she ended up in mummy's arms LOL. I swear that place gets bigger each time i visit.

the beginning of mr snake

A funky looking lizard

These Baboons were so cute they kept fightin well untill the mumma came and sorted them out hehe.

Theres mumma when she sorted her babies out haha

Peacock

Mr scary crocodile believe me he was big.

Pretty crocodile

BIG snakey

Orange Utan they were very sweet.

Cute little monkeys the one in front is being checked for fleas gave me the giggles.

zebra

Camels.

Argh minti wont let me pload any morre pics so i will just have to stick with what i got i got heaps and heaps of photos . Hope you l ike the ones i was able to upload

xxx

 

Saturday we went to living coasts they were building it when we moved here and always said we would go but never actually went so yesterday we went . It was bigger than we imagined and were still suprised it only took an hour and30 mimns to walk around . So we did it twice.

Then today we we nt to paignton zoo but i am gonna have to blog about that tomorrow cos i am SOOOOO tired i need my bed i forgot how big that zoo is it took 5 hours to see everything i am so knackered.

So much for letting me know when the plaque for my nans graveto be fitted, Maybe i am over reacting ut i am rather disappointed in my aunts, instead of them simply sending me an email or text message to say its done or being done . Instead i have to find out by visiting her grave, I bet they told my mother when it was being done yet i live 20 miles away from the grave andi cant be told . So much for family huh ? my family are just the best NOT !!!!

Anyways heres some pics that i took today.

This is one of the oldest houses in Ashburton its also where my dear Nan was born .

Me

Kylie

Chloe

Nans badge / magnet i got her for mothers day.

Me and my adopted mummy Anne.

OK im off my dad is here and i am being very rude xx

 

So my big girl is reallly  turning into a big girl very fast. This tooth has been wobbling 2 - 3 weeks noww. She was playing with Daddy he was tickling her she got excited and banged her mouth on daddys knee we think LOL . We were then presented with a mmumy mummy im bleeding its my tooth. So got her all calmed down and got rid of all the blood and

Oh dear tooth hanging out !!!! Now i cant send her to bed with tooth hangingout so we had to beg her to let us pull it but no she wasnt having none of it she wantted to do it herself

So we let her get on with it supervised of course. I said pull it backwards . She did !!!! Guess what ???

1 healthy tooth and a bloody hand LOL she is sooo proud of herself. I am proud of her too yes there were ots of tears but it was expected .

YAY there is the gap she is so proud of ready for her big tooth.

I best get her into the bath and off to bed ready for the tooth fairy to come and visit her,

Love you Kylie Mummy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx