Today I spent most of the day working through the mess of my grandaughters room .Her Father came to visit and for Tea ( He had no money left for food ) and he founn our interactions too noisy and tried to tell me how I should handle the child (She has been in my care since 10 years) I realy lost it and told hiom to try and raise his daughter if he he knew it all . It is not like me to rub it in but I had enough after 10 years of Finincal struggle (Not a cent from either parent To help out Not even someting good for special days) How can I keep on going without making the situation worse . My husband has just had a 300 dollar drop in his wage and this is killing us . I think that is probably the main reasion I was so irritable .Am I wrong to voice my opinions .