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About a week ago now I received an email threatening to take me to court for visitation rights concerning E. It freaked me a lil at the time because it makes no sense. I have never denied access, though I admit to discouraging it in the past year because of E's total lack of liking and trusting and anything good to do with him. Since then I have received further emails and he even came by the front of my place to speak through the security intercom system to threaten me again - just in case I hadnt got the message already I guess.
Why?
- He never voluntarily spent time with her in the past. It was cuz I had noone else while I was working and he wasnt working, so he might collect her from child care once a week - I only worked 2-3 days. Or other similar instances.
- He disowned her about easter time last year, in an abusive phone call that was witnessed by a christian friend of mine who nearly flew out the window with the venom of my language when I got off the call....i dont take it well when people accuse me of cheating etc.
- He believes his friends over anyone else, including himself. It is so sad.
- He refused to send her a christmas card cuz what was the point? he doesnt love her
- He has never given any support,and last years call was apparently due to the fact that he had a job and didnt want to support her cuz'she aint his'. yea right, she looks just like him.
- Legally she is born (mere months) before the days of shared custody so he actually has no rights, only the legal right to pay maintanence for her. Therefore all the cards are in my hand....if he wants court, so be it, but it would be much better for him to do a private arrangement via our solicitors.
Oh how sad this all is. Just had to get this out. Sorry to splurge sadness and grief here. Life is good and I am hoping to contact the solicitor tomorrow finally.
Peace
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An extra shoulder
Hi
Don't you jsut love men like this.......
Keep a journal of everything and bear in mind that it is him in the end that loses with his bitterness.
We don't need to turn our kids against their sperm donors.....they do it so well them selves.....
E will know how he upsets you and they get to dislike pretty fast anyone who upsets mum......
Keep remembering good things come to those that wait and you are one of the good ones....
Hugs and prayers for a quick peaceful time for you
All my love
Luv Deb
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