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"Maybe if I act like that, that guy will call me back
Porno Paparazzi girl, I don't wanna be a stupid girl
Baby if I act like that, flipping my blond hair back
Push up my bra like that, I don't wanna be a stupid girl
Disease's growing, it's epidemic
I'm scared that there ain't a cure
The world believes it and I'm going crazy
I cannot take any more
I'm so glad that I'll never fit in
That will never be me
Outcasts and girls with ambition
That's what I wanna see"
Pink Stupid Girls

Why can't people think for themselves? Nothing annoys me more than people conforming to societal views without thinking things through for themselves to decide the best course of action.  Is it easier to conform than to think for yourself? Is it wrong to stand up and be counted? It's those who stand up for what they think even if it goes against the norm that are so quickly shot down.

I want to teach my kids to stand up for what they believe in, and to make moral decisions based on the best interest of themselves, society, and the environment even if it goes against what people do in their everyday lives.  I watched her once, a child who is a friend of her, one of her best friends, has developed this attitude (at the age of 4 sadly) that she's superior to everyone around her and talks down to others.  This is what her mother does also.  My child simply walked away from her when she pulled attitude rather than try to keep up with her to be "popular" in the room.  She found another friend who would treat her as an equal, just as she treats other people, as equals.  I was very proud of her for not coming into discussions or being led by the ...


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Co-Sleeping - What Worked For Us and How We TransitionedSeptember 2007 (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend)
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10
Oct
2007

Tomorrow will be better I'm sure

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Last night was interesting.  Went to bed early as I wasn't feeling too well.  DD suddenly woke up screaming, and screamed for 2 hours! She didn't tell me what the problem was, didn't appear to be sick at all, I took her into my bed and she kept on crying.  After about 90 minutes I turned on the light, waited til our eyes adjusted, then made her look at me and tell me what the problem was.  She said she had to go to the toilet! What the? She could have gone to the toilet without waking me up or crying over it.  She then went to the toilet and kept on crying.  I asked her if she had a pain in the tummy, a headache, all those questions I'd been asking her the whole time without a response from her.  This morning I woke her up at 7am to get ready for daycare.  She ate her breakfast then I asked her what she upset about last night.  She told me that a velociraptor jumped through her window and was ready to eat her!  So we had a talk about dinosaurs and she's ok now.  She knows that dinosaurs are not alive anymore.  That'll teach me for taking her to the museum when they had their palaeontologist expedition school holiday show on won't it.

Anyway this morning after breakfast and after our talk I sent her to her room to get dressed into the clothes already set out for her on her bed.  By this time it was about 7:40am and we had to leave at 7:50am.  I was printing things out for work from the computer and finishing my coffee then realised the time.  I checked on her, she was still in pjs at nearly 7:50 so I dressed her.  Then I sent her off to find a hat and put shoes on.  She took her time with this too and ended up going to childcare without shoes on.

We got there at 8am instead of 7:55 (it's on the same block as us) which meant I would turn up for work just on time instead of getting in early as planned.  While she was getting out of the car she tripped and hit her head on the concrete around the garden bed.  I took her in, put an ice pack on her head and sat with her while I rang work and said I'd be late.  Got to work late to find we were short staffed and the others were somewhat annoyed with me for taking my time!  I had made a coffee at home in a take-away coffee cup before I realised I was going be later than expected, and well before I realised I would be very late. I walked in finishing that off and one smart-arse made a comment about how I had time to stop off at Maccas on the way through.  Grr, I wouldn't go to Maccas, or any other place like it, for the same reason I would never enrol my child in a large childcare company - I don't support capitalism!  As if I was in the mood for stupid sarcastic comments after my child bashed her head and I left her anyway.  GRRRRR!!

Had some problems with a couple of ppl from daycare.

Hopefully other people had a better day, although I did read through a couple of blogs and it seems there are some confused members and a couple of deleted members which is probably for the best.  We need to rid Minti of these troublemakers.  I thought it was a little far fetched that someone would hack into a member's account just to report the advice written by a member then report the member.  Anyway, it's all sorted.  Enjoy the rest of your evening!

09
Oct
2007

Been a little sick :(

Comment Published at 03:4703:472 comments2 comments35 Visits35 VisitsReport

Been a little sick the last couple of days.  2 of the girls at work went home sick last week with Rota Virus and I started feeling a little crampy yesterday afternoon at around 3-ish.  It got worse as the day went on but work finished at 5 so I stuck around.  Last night was just awful! I felt stuck to the loo, today wasn't much better but I think it's gone now.  Just feeling really tired now and ready for bed.  No house work has been done.  We've just been watching movies.  DD went with her grandma who's in town today so I could rest.  Didn't last long though.  My mother isn't doing so well at the moment.  At least she wore her out enough to have a relaxing afternoon.  Hopefeully back at work tomorrow but we'll wait and see.  I saw a doctor who said it wasn't rota virus and it was just a bug so hopefully he was right.  It seems to have passes a little faster than rota virus.  The other 2 had to have the whole week off, not just one day.

On a good note though, DD learnt how to do butterfly in the pool and did a tumble turn on the weekend, and apparently again today I was told.  She has become very good at doing somersaults in the pool! I'm just sorry I wasn't with her today to see the look on her swimming teacher's face when she showed him.  Never mind.  I'll talk to him on the weekend anyway.  I'm just very proud of how far she's come in the short time she's been on this planet for.  It's amazing how much they learn.  It's been said that children learn more in the first 8 years of life than we learn in the next 90 years of life.  That's gotta be true.  They come so far in the first 8 years.  Enjoy the rest of your night everyone.  I'm off to bed.

07
Oct
2007

Been googling some fun activities

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05
Oct
2007

Tried leaving radio on at night

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It wasn't very successful.  Madame kept on getting up and turning it back off again so it was interrupting her sleep throughout the night.  I snuck in at 4:30 to turn it on low to see if my alarm would still wake her when the radio started at 6 and her radio woke her at 4:30 so that was the start of our day.  So much fun! NOT!  Will maybe try it again a few times to see if she eventually falls asleep with her radio going.  Maybe if I can get her to sleep with the radio on in her bedroom my alarm won't wake her so easily, it might muffle the sounds.  Thanks to all those who made suggestions on how to get her to sleep a little later.

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