Very well said, I started to write in your blog page, lost it when I stupidly went to paste into your minti mail and forgot to copy.....gggrrrrr, any way, I'm going to write an article to administration, post on Advice.  I'm so ticked about all the women who have left in the past two weeks, so frustrating.  Just going to send off some ideas, and request other members do so as well, to assist with a positive change!~

Take care, Simba1

Perhaps if we voted on the article, but left comments as just comments without rating them, it would cause far less friction among members here.  It's sad that a person can say that it will happen to everyone at some stage.  We are all different and the comments on articles are great for letting people know that their article has been read and what people thought of it.

I never realised how big this site was! There are so many advice pieces to get through and not enough time in the day to read them all in between children, work and housework! Oh the day needs to be longer to fit in Minti hehehe.

Yep......this is a huge bugbear with a lot of us. Some people have been voting each others comments despite being a good or bad on whether they like te person or not....it will happen mostly if an argument happens on a topic that is sensitive....but yes it also happens on random articles also...it's happened to most of us, you just have to learn to ignore those stars....I have...!!!!

Amanda