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Apr

I'm fuming

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Me and my next door neighbour have been getting stones thrown onto our back verandah's, and they were blaming me. All my kids are out except the youngest one who's 5. She doesn't throw stones onto the roof, let alone any at all.

I saw the guy look into our yard, and wondered what the hell he was doing, then he went off, and the woman come and started at with will full of abuse like ' fu**ing neighbours are at it again, they can never leave us alone ' and other viscious language and crap like that, and i said ' excuse me, but i've been inside while this has been happening, and so has my 5 year old daughter, so don't go accusing us that it's us that's doing this crap. '

She did apologise, and the guy looked on the roof, and was getting thrown in the direction of our other neighbours house, who's next to me. ( these other people are on the side of me ) and they thought it was me. I let it rip with her, stating that it wasnt me who was doing it, and when i confronted the other kids on the other side, all of a sudden the rock or stone throwing stopped. so i knew it was them.

I just can't believe that they would say crap like that. I'm still fuming mad. the story is, the reason why they think it's us who were throwing the rocks is because i can't say too much, but the guy next door got arrested about 2 or so months ago, and is out on bail, and think it's us who dobbed them in to get him arrested. I only put a complaint in about him for what he did, as i didn't want my kids seeing what he was doing outside his house in his property, but it took one of my other neighbours kids to see it, and his parents called the police and he was arrested for what that child has seen, and they've got a grudge against us.

So to hell with them. I'm so over neighbours like them. I don't think they'll accuse me of anything from now on, or the next time they do, i'm calling the police on them for accussing me of something i didn't do and that'll be a breach of his bail. I just simply do not care.

I'm sorry, but i just had to vent about this. It just made me so angry.

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janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | April 16th | janicepovey
Re: I'm fuming

 Kerri, sorry you are being treated badly by your neighbours, it isn't nice being accused of something you didn't do. Before they go around accusing people they first  should get proof, not assume..Some neighbours can make it very uncomfortable, to live next to.

Good for you, standing your ground Kerri.

Janice xxxxx



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      FremantleDocker
5.00 (Excellent) | April 16th | FremantleDocker
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Hi Janice. Thanks so much for your concern. No it's not nice at all like you said. I feel terrible, and scared now to even go outside or for my children to go outside as im scared they'll accuse me of something else.

You're exactly right about the uncomfortableness now. I don't like living next door to someone like this. It's horrible.



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Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | April 16th | Kellzacar
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Hi honey,

Personally I think neighbours are over-rated! ! ! he he he he

I make it a point of not getting to know my neighbours to well so that I don't get dragged into any crap. My neighbours now me to say hi to and that's about it. If we meet out the front a friendly hello is all that is really said . .

I've been in the position that you are in now and it was horrible. Luckily for me I was renting and was able to move . . I hope things settle down for you soon . .

Cheers Kellz



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      FremantleDocker
4.73 (Excellent) | April 16th | FremantleDocker
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The problem is Kellz, we've never spoken to them hardly, so that's what's making this so damn annoying. They accused me of something that i didn't even do, and they've never talked to us except the odd hello, but they go around and accused and abused me yesterday of something i didnt' even do, and didn't deserve to be treated the way i did.

Yeah, it's a horrible position alright, and also im renting at the moment, but i'm not moving just because of this idiot. LOL I got tougher skin than that my friend.

Karma will get these people, and they're bound to stuff up one day. I wish i could move but i like it in this house. It's a great house, and was planning to stay here as long as i could.

Hugs. Kerri.



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Arna
5.00 (Excellent) | April 16th | Arna
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If only we could choose our own neighbours, life would be so much easier!  hope they pull their heads in from now on.



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      FremantleDocker
4.50 (Excellent) | April 16th | FremantleDocker
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Hi Arna. thanks. I hope so too that they pull their heads in. Wasn't nice at all what they did



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rissa1112
5.00 (Excellent) | April 16th | rissa1112
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sorry to hear about that with neighbours only yhing you can do is ignore them i guess we are lucky i have my mum and dad as my neighbours but when my sister argues with them they always try and bring me into it lmao



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      FremantleDocker
4.50 (Excellent) | April 16th | FremantleDocker
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thanks rissa. Yeah, i will try to ignore them, thanks. LOL. yeah, it's great that your parents live door to you. a good thing in alot of ways.



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nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | April 16th | nell18-3
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Sorry to hear that

Just goes to show you can pick your friends but not your neighbours

thats why I rarely make friends with neighbours, I can be courteous and pass the time of day but not friends, cos if you're neighbours turn on you then you can't even feel safe in your own home

Hope this gets sorted for you really quick

xxx

 



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      FremantleDocker
4.56 (Excellent) | April 16th | FremantleDocker
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thanks Nell. That's right what you said about friends. Sometimes i wish i could pack up and leave, and just run away from it, but then i think, bugger it, i'll stay and face the problems.

I to hope it gets sorted really quickly. Thanks again.



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DarkenedAngel
5.00 (Excellent) | April 16th | DarkenedAngel
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I can't blame you, if I was in your situation I'd be fuming as well. I think neighbours are like relatives, you can't chose them, you just have to deal with what you get given. Look on the bright side, if he gets into too much trouble again you'll have some reprive while he's in the slammer at least.



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      FremantleDocker
4.56 (Excellent) | April 16th | FremantleDocker
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thanks Darkened Angel. I totally agree. You can't choose your relatives or your neighbours.

Yeah, so true there. Dont know to what extent he has to do to go straight inside though, but i think being abusive will cut it. not sure. I can't say what he's done on here, but he shouldn't be acting the way he is though, or should she



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emmie
5.00 (Excellent) | April 15th | emmie
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OMG - what horrible neighbours you poor thing they sound so mean i guessi am really lucky i get on with all my neighbours . I hope they l;eave you alone now they know it wasnt you



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      FremantleDocker
4.56 (Excellent) | April 16th | FremantleDocker
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Thanks heaps emmie. They are horrible. We've done really nothing wrong to them, kept out of their way, never spoken to them except for about 3 hello's in total and an odd wave to say hello, but then they turn around and do this.

I hope so too that they will leave us alone. At least i've calmed down a little now. lol



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Ngairi
5.00 (Excellent) | April 15th | Ngairi
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We are lucky with our neighbours, but have had weird ones in the past. Sorry to hear you are going through all of this. Hopefully it will all settle down real soon. And don't hesitate to call the police on him if they do start accusing you again. It is not worth the worry of wondering what will happen next.



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      FremantleDocker
4.75 (Excellent) | April 16th | FremantleDocker
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That's great to hear you have good neighbours. I think anyone's neighbours are better than ours at the moment. lol

I also hope it all settles down soon. I can't handle being abused like this. It's just not right.

I won't hesitate at all this time to call the police. thanks heaps for that. That's right. im not going to worry anymore. Im sick of being walked on, and not speaking up for myself.

 



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dannii17
4.73 (Excellent) | April 15th | dannii17
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hey, Sorry to hear all the crap your going through with these spastic ppl lol..We have good neighbours on one side and on th eother we have 2neighbours, 1 are fine and we talk alot and the others are africans.There is like 10kids living there and they are always hanging on our fence (which is now falling down), one even came to my front door and done a pee in front of my 6old neices ggrrrr...I hope ii all stops for you soon..Id be fuming too, you dont need to be abused by anyone.

Dannii xxo



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      FremantleDocker
4.73 (Excellent) | April 16th | FremantleDocker
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Thanks Dannii. omg, that's terrible what that kid done. That's not right what that child done. That's disgusting.

Good to hear you have decent neighbours except one. Thanks dannii, that's right, i don't need to be abused by anyone.



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cazza
4.71 (Excellent) | April 15th | cazza
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That is disgusting, and i would have called the police and told them to do something..

I have a friend that fears to leave her home as her windows have being smashed in with rocks, and it makes me so mad..

Hope it all sorts itself out for you and your family soon..

xxx cazza



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      FremantleDocker
4.56 (Excellent) | April 15th | FremantleDocker
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The next time  i do hear them accusing me of anything or my kids, i will be calling the police. there is a name for it that i can get them charged with, as i'm the innocent one here, and they're accusing me of something i didn't do. That's disrespectfull.

I'm not surprised if it will come to that with the windows being smashed,  and i am starting to fear my life as i don't know what they're capable of.

thanks cazza for yoru comments.

Kerri.



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2BeautifulGirls
5.00 (Excellent) | April 15th | 2BeautifulGirls
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I must be lucky because I have elderly neighbours on both sides and I hardly hear boo out of them. 

I hope that now they know it's not your kids they'll stop using offensive language and if he was doing something he shouldn't in full view of people then how can he blame you, it could have been anybody.

Trouble is, we try to sheild our children from this sort of thing but when you've got neighbours like that, it makes it even harder.  Keep your chin up.

'chelle



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      FremantleDocker
4.73 (Excellent) | April 15th | FremantleDocker
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You are so lucky to have neighbours like that anyday. I'll trade you. I hope so too that they stop the bad language, and all that other. that's right, it could've been anyone who did this.

Exactly right, i try my best to bring my kids up right, but then you get adults like this. I don't understand.



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mumof2b
5.00 (Excellent) | April 15th | mumof2b
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It's so hard living next door to people you can't stand..........especially when they start yelling and swearing like that to your children. the trouble is too if you make too much of it, it could get worse. Not a nice situation to be in.

I hope things calm down for you all.

Amanda xxxx



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      FremantleDocker
4.56 (Excellent) | April 15th | FremantleDocker
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Hi there Amanda. thanks heaps for your comment. No it's not nice at all living next to neighbours like what i've got. It's making me feel very uncomfortable, and making me edgey. I'm getting up set now over it, as i can't take this crap anymore. I've just had enough.

I too hope things calm down also, and realise it wasn't us who actually got this guy arrested in the first place.



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sinstress
5.00 (Excellent) | April 15th | sinstress
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Sounds like they are the trouble makers to me! If I was you I would now have nothing to do with them if you can and if they do something wrong I would report them to the police, obviously he doesn't care abou the fact that he's on parole if he's going to carry on like that!



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      FremantleDocker
4.73 (Excellent) | April 15th | FremantleDocker
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I think they are trouble makers, but all mouth and no action if that makes sense.

I never had anything to do with them before, but occassionally would say hello to the lady.

Next time they do accuse me of something they didn't do, and i hear it, i will be calling the police, as that is wrongly accusing me, and they can be arrested for it.

Yeah, i know it looks that way with the guy doesn't it, but it's starting to make me think now because i did hear the womam before i went out there say to the guy to stop it, stop doing that. so i don't know if it was him doing it making out that it was me i don't know, but i'm still peeved off about it, and don't like being accused of something i haven't done



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electrifying02
4.75 (Excellent) | April 15th | electrifying02
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oh what horriable neighbours and to accuse you of it . you must be pretty good throwing stones well your in a house

belxxx



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      FremantleDocker
4.73 (Excellent) | April 15th | FremantleDocker
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Yeah i know electrifying02. Funny how they heard me open my sliding door to go out side, and then the stones were still being thrown while i was having a go at her. geez, people like that really make me mad.

Enjoy the rest of your day. Hugs.



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