Hi yep sometimes I would have to agree with  you,sometimes I feel Minti could be a good thing for ppl with depression ,but on the other hand it could also bring ppl down aswell if you feel you are not being supported .I have a few members on Minti and they are the only reason why I stay on here,I dont talk to anybody on msn either.I think we have a very clicky bunch on here and like in real life they have their little groups.

I dont comment much in people's blogs except for a few.I have sent messages to admin and have never got replies dont really e-mail members either.I for one don't really agree with the compliments as it shows the popular members and make others feel less worthy of them,my opinion anyway.Same for the gifts,I have given a few gifts out and compliments but I only send them when I feel the need for a special occasion and not for the hell of it.This way if a member is down or something special has happened in their life it is relevant to them at the time and have not used all my minti moula and compliments.These are just my opinions and how I feel about Minti at present also.Have to say if it wasnt for a few members I would not be staying around,as I sometimes find it very bitchy and clicky sometimes.

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Hi

To be honest, I dont know if i respond to your stuff or not. I just read something and if I have something to say I will say it. Im sorry you are feeling crappy. I dont have many members coming into my lounge but I dont go in their either as i have dial up still and it takes forever to leave a piccy. As for compliments, i have 12...some people have 20-30..doesnt mean anything..i hope! lol

Your not ignored it is really hard to get around to all members blogs and somtimes you simply just forget to check them or you thought you did and you thought you replied but it didnt work. Ive had that many of the times. But you arent ignored.

Hey there,

                Well now... who could ignore you??? I know I haven't been commenting that much lately but it's a little hard from the loo hehe. I approach minti like this. I blog for me, to get thoughts, feelings etc out of my head. If people comment then great, more the merrier but if they don't well so be it. Minti is kinda like my online diary and I pretty much write it for me. When I comment I hardly ever expect a reply and most of the time whoever I've commented to will reply but there are instances where they don't. I don't take it personally and just move onto the next part of minti. Just keep being you. You know the ones that appreciate you and there the one's that matter.

I really hope your home life settles down for you really soon. Must say, you've got me a little concerned..... I really do hope that you're ok,

fi xo

hey kerri,

sadly, i know exactly how you feel :(

one thing i've learnt though is, whether it be on Minti or in real life..
sometimes you can treat people so well and there will always be the few who don't treat you like you deserve...
but you gotta keep doing what you're doing, because then those who DO treat you like you deserve, will make up for all of that :)

and, speaking on my own behalf, i have NEVER ignored any your minti mails, blog entries, or anything like that...
i think you're a valued member of Minti, and if you had anything to say, i would DEFINITELY listen :)

love ya.. keep that chin up kk :)

Love Thuy xox

hello... I'm just another someone wanting to let you know that I'm sorry to hear you're feeling so down about things. I know I'm still trying to figure out how to make the most of my time on here, because it is hard to try and comment on everything you want to, or even read everything you want to or even keep up with everything! You seem to be pretty active as I see your name and avatar on a lot of things I read or comment on. But even though I "see" you around a lot, you and I haven't actually "chatted" yet or anything. Y'know what I mean? Maybe if you think of Minti as a big party where you go around and mingle and get into little group conversations with people (commenting) and then at the end of the party you have your two or three real friends that you hang out (minti mail) with after the party, it won't seem so frustrating. I'm still just mingling!

I hope you feel better soon!

hi kerry

you do belong and things just seem to be really rocky at the moment. I know I don't spend as much time here as I used to with work committments etc, and i haven't had any time to send out lounge greetings. I will get to it again one day.

take the time to get your homelife settled down. That has to take precedence. Just don't hink you are being ignored.

hey kerri,

hope things at home get sorted out and minti shines brightly once again for you

we havent mixed much here on minti however ill be in adelaide on holidays between xmas and new year catching up with friends and will be more then available, lets do lunch/dinner ...lol i know im not the grooviest here but can shout lunch /dinner ?

all the best, catch you around, rue

So sorry you feel that way Kerri

I promise I haven't ignored you, I just haven't spent a lot of time on here lately with my own issues

I still count you as one of my friends, Take care

xxx

I'm sorry that things at home aren't going too well and I wish you all the best for that.  I'm sure that everyone who is your friend will understand why you have done this and I'm sure if they're a true friend they will support you no matter what. 

Take care of yourself.

Hey Kerri,

Im so sorry that your feeling this way!! Please dont feel like this!! I write blogs and sometimes i get alot of responses and sometimes i get none but it really doesnt bother me, reason being : My blog is for me, I write to get everything out, and even tho its just writing it helps and feels good to get it out even if nobody cares.

I try to comment on as much blogs i can but sometimes dont know what to say.Lately i havnt even been on minti. To tell everyone the truth, since ive stopped coming on minti so often i feel better and have realised alot. Yes!! i love minti and love chatting to everyone and sharing what i have to say but really i have noticed how much time im not spending with my bf and i felt bad and still do. He never complained but i gave to much of my time to minti and not to the person i really love.

Anyways enough of my rambling, i hope things get better for you at home and i hope you return to minti soon, please dont take not getting replies to heart, if i did i would be very depressed, its not worth the worry.

Dannii xxo

I am sorry you feel so isolated on Minti, I too was under the impression that you had a lot of friends and activity on here. I used to spend a good two or three hours passing time of an evening reading and interacting, but circumstances in real life have taken that away. I dont get the chance to read and comment on all I would like to, so I have to be content to try to get round my small friend list, and catch one or two Items from activity if I am lucky. I so apologise to you if I have ever deliberatly ignored you or made you feel isolated. Sometimes in a crowded forum it is sadly all too easy for some to become isolated. When I filled my friends list, on my new page I deliberatly kept it small so that I could manage to interact with those in the time frame I have, even then I fail miserably. My advice is keep your list down to those people you interact with most and wish to keep up with, and you can send compliments and mail the rest of the community as and when you wish to or want to offer support. I am sorry life is so low for you at the moment and I send you some positive vibes to help you through. I also will urge you not to leave minti, as Marg said to me a little while ago, to share a little when things get you down is what minti is there for, to support, even if it is only one person, that person has taken the time to show a little care. So please dont stay away too long, and hope you feel a little better in yourself very soon. Thinking of you.

Luv Winnie.xxxx

Hi,

Sorry you are having such a bad trot.... and im sorry if im one that may have upset you in anyway....

Like you have mentioned that you are going to sit on the side lines for a while, I have seemed to be like that all along.... I read lots here on minti, about different members not likeing the others, minti members leaving 'cause the feel pushed out etc blah blah ( you know what i mean).... So i have choosen to to sit out and just read good advice that is given and comment on only things that i think that i might be able to help with....

You are on my friend list, and i have wanted to join you at the next minti meet here in adelaide....

so please take no offence to me when i don't comment on things, sometimes i feel like im a bit of an outsider on here and have not wanted to push my way into already formed friendships.... I can be a very quiet person....

When your feeling better, and if you wish me back to join your friends lists, just minti mail me and i SHALL reply, with an invite back to you..... and i will take no offence if you choose other wise.....

Take Care Mate, Chin up....

Hugs Frogie x

Hi Freo, Try not to take things too personally because the thing is people have all got limited time so therefore a lot of people comment at what they know for a start, no good responding to something you have no knowledge or interest in that field, plus they may not be on at the same time. I know some people like to respond to every comment made. If someone makes a comment in my blog, I will not always reply but sometimes go to that person blog or lounge to see what is going on for them. Sorry I did not know you had personal problems. Some people have made some close friendships on here as they may see each other outside of minti and also the ones that are getting more notice are the ones that blog all the time on here, at least every day. I know that I can not be on here everyday, only weekends and an hour here and there during the week. If you notice they also open there heart on here, a very hard thing to do, even get themselves in trouble from people in there real lives because of it. It actually is not an easy thing to do. To get a lot of comments they make a ton of them too. I am not saying you are not doing that, but I would just say accept what you get and try to get around to talk to others. Recently I have been looking up people that I haven't heard from in a long while. Did you know Jenlemen is leaving for Rwanda today? I haven't called into her blog for ages and noone h