thanks heaps for the tips there cathy. I try to be as consistant as i can, but it's hard at times. She's going to learn the hard way i think. but eventually she'll learn.

Yeah, i hope she also eases off, as i don't know how much more i can handle it. I to hope she gets sick of it. School so far has been a great influence.

Exactly right about the butter. She cracks it sometimes when i take things away from her like the tv etc.

She loves her teacher, and wouldn't do anything wrong by her. so yeah, it hit her hard when her teacher told her off.

Yes, it is very frustrating, but i see it as a phase and she'll grow out of it.

I'm having the same problems as you. she's good as school, but bad at home. Maybe talk to the teachers at pre school to see if they have any ideas?

Hey there Bel. the bad behaviour sadly doesn't stop there. It continues on and on and on. You have got more bad behaviour coming from miss 3  believe me. It doesn't matter i think how much you disciplin them, they still have that bad behaviour in them, and doesn't get any easier. I too hope it calms down soon too for miss5. thankyou.