Ok so today is the big  day we tell my ex that jess is not going home with him this arvo....

Story so far jessica 15 has decided she dosn't want to go to school any more her dad says that's ok but she has to get a job... they live in a small small town no chance of her getting a job there... So if she were to get a job in my town it would make sense for her to live here with me... there town is about 40 km away...

Over the week end i set out her options

A. get a job .....how u gonna get there every day (dad not gonna drive 40 km every day)

B..don't get a job and dad sent u back to same  school

C..live here with me  then there is easy acess to busses to get to work when got job.

D stay here get job... and back to school of her choice or to tafe and finish her yr 10...

I gave her a time limit to make her decision... and on sat she came to me with her answer...She has decided to stay and live here with me(yay) sorry but i can't help secretly being so over the moon about her decision been waiting for so long for them to come home to me.....Now i just gotta wait for megs to follow her won't be long megs is 13 and she wants what eva jess has all the time ...

Any way back to the story... I made sure she was definate about her decision repetidly asked her are u sure every time she said yes so this arvo when their dad comes to get them we have the job of telling him that she will not be returning to him to live,, She is staying here..He's not going to like it very much well not at all actually...thank god i have a back up plan it's a 6 foot tall 100 kg black man... ( my partner)

so please every one don't judge me for just keeping her here it was both our decision ( hers & mine)...just wish us luck that all goes well with no argueing or violence ....KEEP YOUR FINGERS AND TOES CROSSES FOR ME

GEORGIE