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Member » golliwog78
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Hi everyone it's great to be here!!!
I am a mother of 2 beautiful boys - Bj and Jordan - a wife, a sister, a daughter, Aunty, Uni student, carer, government employee and Creative Memories consultant and try to be a good friend.
I dated my now husband for 5 years, was engaged for 5 years and now married for 5 years = 15 year relationship. Although we have been together since we were very young, I guess that has been part of our fantastic (yet challenging) journey together.
When I was asked as a child what I wanted to be when I grew up, my answer has always been a MOTHER...I think that's why I love scrap booking so much, because I like to revisit my most cherished memories, especially my children growing ever so quickly everyday. Some of my most memorable memories are:
- Bj being born at 7 months
- My wedding that we organized on our own (which was long overdue)
- My first and only trip back to the Philippines (where my mum and husband are from)
- Growing up coming from a Western culture (my dad is Australian) and asian culture (my mum filipino)
- Seeing my Mother recover from depression
I love to make new friends and share with others the stories of my life and the lessons I have learned so far in my 30 years on this earth...
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To cut a long story short, my mum is recovering from severe depression. She had 2 stints in hospital because of it and I am not sure if she will ever fully recover. She is on meds and still sees a Psych, but I am so scared of her falling into that depressive state again.
My family and I are meant to move to QLD by the end of this year, but the guilt of leaving her is really getting to me!!! She lived with me for 8 years and only just moved out at the end of last year...this is the first time I am living alone with my husband since we have been married.
The last couple of weeks have really had me worried...she says she thinks her depression is coming back again. I sometimes feel she is so quick to use her depression as an excuse. I tell her all the time that people have good and bad days, that is normal. But she thinks she know in herself and no one else can understand. I want to be the good daughter and just nod my head, agree and be sympathetic, but I want her to fight harder. Because of her Asian background she is very old fashioned and set in her ways, she says I talk like I know everything...when I am just trying to help.
What do I do? I think the meds are only a bandaid to the problem and that she should have behavioural therapy, but she won't even entertain the idea. She says she doesn't like people forcing her to do things...but what will happen when I am away. I have a sister, but she is planning on travelling too...this GUILT IS DRIVING ME CRAZY, but I want to live my own life too. I need to feel ok...but how do I do that? Any advice would really help...Thanks guys :0) |
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Hi Everyone,
I was so excited when I heard about the newest Creative Memories specials and products that I had to share the great news with you all...not sure if I have mentioned I am a scrapbooking, card making, paper craft collector & addict hahaha!!!
BRAND NEW SPECIALS
Grab a BUNDLE ONLY $99 each Bundle saving customers between 32.50-74.50 (plus bonus crop box for first 6000 orders) -
Oh my Gosh this special will not last long!! Choose from 20 BUNDLE deals and grab a BUNDLE of BUNDLES each featuring:
A coverset, a pack of refill papers, a pack of page protectors and enough decorative product to complete an ENTIRE album - Papers, stickers, journal boxes, idea book +++. These BUNDLES come in the original 12X12 size, but remember this offer is while stocks last!!! If you place your orders by the 1st of June the first 6000 product bundles will also include a FREE original size CROP BOX, this is also while stocks last!!!!
BRAND NEW PRODUCTS
Tag Maker - Create decorative tags with just the push of a lever with our newest shape maker. The TAG MAKER is unique because it allows you to create tags with or without a hole. This is fantastic not only for albums and scrapbooking, but cards, name place table settings, Christmas&Bday presents, wine glass tags etc etc.
DISNEY new true 12X12 coverset, 8X8 coverset and Picfolio's as well as a matching Disney Vacation (feat. priness, mickey, pooh and toy story put together), Pooh, Pricesses Additions, Cars, Primary Zoo Album Kits. These new products are also available in BUNDLES with a BONUS FREE Disney Magic Maker.
WINTER WARMING ADDITIONS - True 12X12 Power Pallette Winter additions features 4 sheets of double-sided true 12X12 paper, 8 double-sided photo mats, title stickers and 1 sheet of additional stickers. Available is Earthy, Pastel, Primary and Jewel, this seasonal range is beautifully themed and customers can also receive a WINTER WONDERLAND IDEAS SHEET at our JULY WINTER WORKSHOP.
To take advantage of these FANTASTIC offers or find out more, please contact me ASAP. For those customers that order by the 1st of June I am also offering my own personal surprise gift with their order...these are not available to customers EVER so be quick!!!
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