Hey matey - yeah, some people seem clicky - but don't sweat it.  It's all about offering what advice and good comments you can, and it is a forum to air your views.  Don't worry about whether or not everyone agrees with you, loves what you write or if they seem to freak out about it.  You are valued, your opinion is valuable, and you are good fun!

I got sick of it for a while, and didn't even have time for it, but the last few days I was sick & not up to much - it was good to get back on.  Think of it like some friends and family - great in small doses!  I will be looking out for you - so keep writing & you have to keep us up to date on your IVF.

For those of you who don't understand what I mean by the word clicky...it is when you for groups of friends...similar types stick together. 

You all remember high school, there were the nerds, the jocks, the preppies, the druggies.  Those are clicks.

Just for some clarification.

well im sorry i have to disagree with you there - but please dont take a offence to this at all.. I really enjoy minti and never participate in any debates as everyone is entitled to their opioion and if we were all the same, we wouldnt need such a greta site as minti.. I have being on here since november 2006 and have found this site very useful... yes there may be a few that will try and disagree with your comments, but hey it happens in the out there in the big world as well. you just need to take it on the chin and move on.. This site is to help us all, and not a competition on how many votes to how high you''re rank is...I have made some great people on here and will strongly recommend this site to any of my friends when they have access to the internet and need parent advise..

What do you mean by clicky? I just don't understand the phrase clicky.. Sorry...

But I do understand that it is very easy to upset some people..  Try thinking like this...

For every one person you might upset, there are always those that are happy... I have made a lot of good friends here... And I just keep away from those little heated discussions it is not worth stressing over people you just don't know....

So care about the ones you do. And hope those that carry on with the pettiness actually get along ok in real life... :)