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May
2007

Harrassing....

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I don't know why I am even defending myself because if any of you think I was the one harrassing another member, this won't make a difference.  But, it is for my own peace of mind! 

Below you will find the 2 emails I sent to sweet-bear after she reported me for my comments on anemia.  And in my view, neither one of them is harrassing in any way. 

To: sweet-bear Subject: hello From: HarrisonsMommy Date: Thu 3rd May 2007 8:28pm   Sweet-bear,

I am assuming you got my first email and have just decided to not talk to me.  Which is fine.  If you choose to not talk to me about your feelings, that is fine, I won't email you after this.  I just wanted you to understand why I know it was you who reported me. 

I don't know when it happens, but eventually you get Admin Functions.  That allows you to see any reported advice, comments, images, and members.  It is something I look at when I am online and that is how I knew it was you who reported me.

Anyway, just wanted to clear that up for you incase you thought it was someone who told me. 

Angela

To: sweet-bear Subject: Reporting a member From: HarrisonsMommy Date: Thu 3rd May 2007 12:25pm   Hi Sweet-bear,

I am not sure why exactly you are reporting me.  In response to your statement that I "jumped on" another member, I disagree.  I was simply stating what I was taughtand was in no way being mean or malicious.  Below are two links that share this information.

I don't know if you are aware but when you report a member, it can result in them (me) being deleted.  If you have a problem with my comments, report them.

If I have said something to upset you, please accept my apology I didn't intend to do so.

Angela

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anemia 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bruise

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cheleinkal
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | cheleinkal
geeezzzzzzzzz Thats nothing

I just came to check you out now that we're friends and I find you've had a dissagreement that has you upset.  I have had full on barneys that had me & the other person in tears & unable to sleep (actually this happens to me a lot LOL).

As far as I'm concerned, you are either up for a debate on ÖPINIONS"and thats all anything really is, no one is trying to pass a law throiugh Minti after all..........or your not and if your not they should leave well enough alone, you can't have a one sided debate or arguement or fight or anything...that takes two willing participants, so do what I do.

Make sure what you wrote you stand by,   Try so hard not to type swear words (I actually sound posh when I'm reved up with the effort of not swearing LOL)  and if it is getting way too agressive and you can't leave it, drop the Q&A or comments & move to Minti Mail.

Seems to me you followed all these (dare I say) "Rules"and YOU are still here.  let it go in your own heart.  And put it down to an exchange with a person you disagreed with and thats that.  Lifes to short for regretting things like that, I reckon, Don't have regret'sor mistakes,  have life lessons.as long as long as you've learned something from it you have turned a negative into a positive and that can only be a GOOD thing right????????

Trust me, I'm right, just ask me any time and I'll tell you. LOL



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      HarrisonsMommy
May 2007 | HarrisonsMommy
geeezzzzzzzzz Thats nothing

Thanks Chele.  I have let it pass.  I do stand by what I have said and have the evidence on my side.  Here say doesn't cut the mustard with me. 

I have been to the point of sleeplessness with other "disagreements" but I have decided to not let it get to me like that again.  Just isn't worth my time.

Thanks for the suggestions.  And glad to hear you are right, and happy to share it.  Funny thing is I am too!

Take care,

Angela



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jenlemen
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | jenlemen
no worries
these things happen i think--so many people here and we are bound to disagree. i hope all this falls by the wayside and that you can continue to offer great advice and make lots of friends here. i love that you are backing up your position with some research--that is really needed and a big help.


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      HarrisonsMommy
May 2007 | HarrisonsMommy
no worries

Thank you so much, your support is appreciated!!!

Angela



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jmrmumstheword
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | jmrmumstheword
you shouldn't have to do this
well i guess everyone is to scared to comment on this matter but i'm not lol
i never read the anaima thing that happened but i do say you don't come across as someone who is nasty or hateful so i would be pleased to have you as my friend regardless what anyone else thinks, almost everyone on minti has a point of view and it won't always be something everyone will like but hey you can't please everyone now can we lol
don't put to much pressure on yourself you believed in something so you told the world who cares i have too lol
good on you for standing up for what you believe in mwah xx
Nikki xx


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      HarrisonsMommy
May 2007 | HarrisonsMommy
you shouldn't have to do this

Thanks for the support Nikki!  And thanks for having the nerve to say at least something in regards to this issue.  I was beginning to think no one would say anything.

All the best.
Angela



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