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I'm devastated

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Well, for some time now I have been fearful that Harrison was allergic to eggs and peanuts (of all things!).  Well, I was going to have him tested before going to the US but since we moved and all, I thought it best to wait until we got to Perth. 

So took Harrison yesterday to the pediatric allergy specialist and he tested Harrison for 28 different types of food allergies.  And Harrison was so good.  He just sat on my lap watching the doctor draw the grid, place 28 drops of fluid on his are, and then proceed to scratch/prick his arm 28 times.  He didn't make a noise, try to pull away or cry.  He just watched, my good little boy. 

We waited 10-15 min and went back in and sure enough, allergic response to the egg and peanut.  Egg was worse than the peanut.  So he sent us for bloods to see if we need to own an epi/adrenaline pen in case of anaphalxysis! 

So I thought Harrison might be ok with the blood work.  He was until they put the needle in his arm (and had hit the vein first try).  Then he cried and jerked away, the needle had come out of the vein and skin so they had to restick.  Poor thing.  He went dark red in the face crying hard and was almost inconsoable.  Stickers didn't work, cuddles didn't work, but alas, the chocolate did.  He even said goodbye to the girls.   Cried a bit when we got home cuz we took the cotton ball and tape off so that hurt but he got to take mine off (I had blood work done too) so it was ok.

Anyway, I am so upset about the peanut allergy.  That one people don't grow out of.  At this point, it isn't lethal.  He only gets a mild rash around his mouth but the scary thing is that at any time, it can become a lethal reaction.  Thats what worries me.  The egg thing, well, he has eaten cakes and stuff and as long as it isn't like egg by itself, he seems fine.  We can deal with that.  That one he can grow out of.  Hopefully.

Anyway, just wanted to vent.  On a positive note, Harrison has self weaned from breast feeding...YAY! 

Adios Amigos...Angela

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mum2b84
5.00 (Excellent) | March 17th | mum2b84
Re: I'm devastated

I actually had that done and how brave he is to not flinch as it is not a nice feeling. Sorry to hear that he is allregic. It will be tough but at least you know.



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Izzy
5.00 (Excellent) | March 9th | Izzy
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I'm so sorry to hear this! Just a couple of days ago, while eating at a burger place where everyone can eat as much roasted peanuts in shells as they want, I mentioned to my husband that all the shops beside it would be a big NO-NO for moms with children allergic to peanuts.

My son's birthday is on Tuesday and I put an order for a cake at Wal-Mart and had to ask if there was any peanuts or peanut products on it, and then I was told that it is handled in a place where peanut is handled.  I didn't know whether there was someone in my son's class with peanut allergy, so of course I had to talk to someone at school. Thankfully, there wasn't.

A child of a friend didn't use to have peanut allergy until he turned 2 years old. IT was quite a fright. Now they don't go anywhere without an epi pen.

I imagine this won't be easy.



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      HarrisonsMommy
March 17th | HarrisonsMommy
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Hi Izzy,

I don't even want to think about my future with this allergy.  But, I know I have to.  I think I am still in a bit of denial at the moment.  Hoping it will go away. 

I found out we will need an epipen.  It doesn't worry me to have it, just that we need to. 

But, we will just deal with it and learn to live life with it.  It is just like any other disease...

Thanks-Angela



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winja
5.00 (Excellent) | March 8th | winja
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ohhh im so sorry to hear that harrison had to go thru that

best that you know now tho so you can be safe.

he sounds like he was a lil champ with all the tests and cograts ont he self weaning ! your lil boy is growing up!

hope all else is well on the home front

xxxnat



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      HarrisonsMommy
March 8th | HarrisonsMommy
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Hi My Nat!

Harrison was a brave boy.  I was very proud of him.  Just hope we don't have to do that again any time soon!

And yay on the self weaning.  He was starting in the US but with all the upheaval of the move and travel, it was good it was still around for the comfort.  Now they are mine (or Dean's) again!  Yay.  He askes for it occasionally and he latches on and is off again in a flash.  I think he has already forgotten how to nurse...hehe

 



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loopylisa
5.00 (Excellent) | March 8th | loopylisa
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It's really upsetting when you see your child so distressed isn't it? At least you know what he is allergic to now. I have a friend who is allergic to peanuts,she has to check everything. A lot of food even says on the packets 'could have come into contact with peanuts'. You would think that with it being such a serious allergy, proper manufacturing preventions would be made.

My niece-aged 14, is waiting to have these tests done. Just before Xmas she got massive blisters on her forearms filled with poison. This happened on two seperate occasions and she has been left with scarring. Her appointment isn't until April. Preliminary bloods have shown its not chocolate or nuts so they're investigating.

My very best wishes to your little boy and I hope his allergy doesn't develope any further,Loopy



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      HarrisonsMommy
March 8th | HarrisonsMommy
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Hey Loopy,

I often think it is only a disclaimer on the packaging.  I mean, so many products are made with nuts and it is crazy to think what could happen to some.  You are right, you would think there would be better manufacturing preventions to ensure there isn't cross contamination! 

Hope they find out what is happening to your neice, must be scary for her.  Especially being 14 and getting scarred from it.  Poor girl.



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Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | March 8th | Marglr
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Oh,no wonder you are upset,that's upsetting news. I'm so glad you know,what are they suggesting? Now, I know everyone and every allergy is so different but those things my little one was allergic to altered and the specialist said that it was very normal for even the most severe to change as a child matures,which did happen in our case. At least the peanut one is so well know now that avoidence is easier and understood which is the better than it use to be. Let's hope he grows out of it,such a brave little soul shouldn't have to deal with that.



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      HarrisonsMommy
March 8th | HarrisonsMommy
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Thanks Marg.  I agree that peanut allergy is so known and how lethal it can be makes it  a bit easier to deal with.  And I am hoping that because his response to both the peanuts and egg are slight (only rash around the mouth) that it will be something he grows out of.  I can only hope.

 



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ajv00
5.00 (Excellent) | March 6th | ajv00
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Wow, what a brave boy to have to go through all that.  At least you know for sure now.  I'm sure with your nursing experience you will cope, but I guess it is harder when it is your son.

All the best, take care - Angie 



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      HarrisonsMommy
March 8th | HarrisonsMommy
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You are right Angie, Harrison was a brave little boy.  I was very proud.  Sad to see him so upset.  And yes, I think me being a nurse will help me out if only because I won't be scared to give him the epi pen if I should need to!



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Libby24
5.00 (Excellent) | March 6th | Libby24
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aww thats so sad. i wish we lived in a world where no one was allergic to anything and we were all healthy and happy. ( wouldnt that be good)



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      HarrisonsMommy
March 8th | HarrisonsMommy
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Thanks Liz, wouldn't that be fantastic...no allergies, health and happiness!



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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | March 5th | llmunchkin
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I know it is a BIG worry, and it will be something you need to deal with forever; however it is great that you have found out in this way.  Besides, you are a very bright, smart, capable woman, and you can cope with this.  You might want to familiarise yourself with some of Tammy13's advice among others.

As for NEVER growing out of a peanut allergy... Stephen's cousin Charles used to have an epi-pen and be severely allergic to nuts etc as well.  He is about 12 now, and they think that he has grown out of it.  I will ask his Aunty Helen for some information for you, about what happened with them.

Take care, chin up, life has a lot of great things in store for you all, and you know it.  Big hugs to that little blonde heart breaker too xox

PS - Dean gets the toys to himself for a while huh?



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      HarrisonsMommy
March 6th | HarrisonsMommy
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Yes, I have wondered myself whether or not it is something you can grow out of.  First time for everything I suppose.

Thanks for the support Lui.  Your words made me feel a whole lot better. 

I have added Tammy13 as a friend.  Got an invite to a group about peanut allergy and she is admin for the group so I added her.  Have read a few of her blogs and such.

Thanks for finding out about cuz.  Will be interesting to hear about his situation.

All my love-Ang



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janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | March 5th | janicepovey
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Dear Angela, so sorry to hear this news, you vent all you like and it's understandable that your worried about the tests results....i think the bigger fear would be the peanut one.....i will keep all my fingers & toes crossed, that the tests come back more positive than your expecting.

Sorry Harrison had so much trouble with the blood tests....they can nasty things at the best of times....hope his little arm is not too bruised.

Sending hugs & love JaniceMySpace and Orkut Hugs Glitter Graphic - 6

PS Keep your chin up sweetie.



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      HarrisonsMommy
5.00 (Excellent) | March 6th | HarrisonsMommy
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Thank you Janice for your kind words.  Harrison is a trooper and has only the tiniest of bruises on his arm.  I had blood work today and he was like, no not me!  Poor little soul.



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dinsdale
5.00 (Excellent) | March 5th | dinsdale
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Oh Ang, I'm sorry to hear about Harrison. My friend went through the same thing and her daughter is allergic to peanuts and has to carry a epi pen everywhere. My step daughter was allergic to egg when she was little. She has since grown out of it at the age of 8 yr, but now she doesn't even like eggs.(very fussy child)She still could eat cake etc. Hopefully Harrison will grow out of it. Poor little boy had his first blood test. Not nice.Hope all goes well

Luv Trace



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      HarrisonsMommy
March 5th | HarrisonsMommy
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Thanks Tracey,

Harrison is funny, if it has a large amount of egg, he won't even eat it.  Small amounts in cakes and the sort are ok.  Hopefully he will grow out of it.  Just wish he could for the peanuts!!!



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fairymama25
5.00 (Excellent) | March 5th | fairymama25
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Hi, oh poor you and Harrison. Its very scary when the allergies are diagnosed, my toddler has severe food and animal allergies. He did very well with the test, unfortunately it is traumatic, but hopefully he wont have to go through it very often. I hope they dont find his allergy severe enough to prescribe an epi pen, but if they do, then you have the life saving equipment in your own hands. Once you get used to it, its a reassuring thing to carry around. Whilst peanut allergy doesnt usually disappear it can improve. Ruby has it, as does my husband. His now doesnt bother him at all, if he accidentally eats some nuts, his mouth tingles but thats all. Get your family on side, talk to them about how important it is not to have these foods around. Good luck, Em x



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      HarrisonsMommy
5.00 (Excellent) | March 5th | HarrisonsMommy
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Thanks Em.  I would rather have the epi pen and not need it than need it and not have it!  Am eager to see what the results show.  I am hoping that because Harrisons reaction to the peanuts (and egg for that matter) are only slight, that in future, it may subside and disappear all together.  Who knows.  Thanks for your support.

Angela



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AZMom
5.00 (Excellent) | March 5th | AZMom
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Aww Angela

So sorry to hear that, I know you mentioned your fears when we met up.. poor lil fella. Hopefully he will never have a lethal reaction to peanuts (or egg). Peanuts is one of those horrible allergies as most food labels (especially chocolate) state that they have been manufactured in the same area as peanuts. Hopefully this does not limit Harrrison's food choices too much bless him!

Lorna x



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      HarrisonsMommy
5.00 (Excellent) | March 5th | HarrisonsMommy
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Thanks Lorna.  Well, not sure what to make of his food choices for the future.  He doesn't eat egg and loves peanut butter.  So will certainly be getting that out of my house before he can climb the cupboards to get what he wants.  He would probably happily live on toast with vegemite, hotdogs, and grapes.



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Arna
5.00 (Excellent) | March 4th | Arna
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Allergies are funny things.  Technically, everyone is allergic to every thing in the world.  It is only by exposure that our bodies decide to accept things.  Look at animal and hayfever sufferers, they have a reaction once, and avoid the animal/ pollens for life.  In truth, they should be exposing themselves to the trigger to build up immunity.

Childhood allergies are tough things, because they can grow out of them.  All you can do is keep an eye on it until there is a severe reaction and then panic.

Oh, keep him from itching the sites too, apparently they will all itch for a while.  Good luck with it all and I hope that the blood tests provide some more answers.



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      HarrisonsMommy
5.00 (Excellent) | March 5th | HarrisonsMommy
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Thanks Arna.  I know that Harrisons reactions to both at this point aren't life threatening but can become at any point. 

Egg is one people can grow out of, apparently not peanut (darnit). 

I asked the specialist about exposure during pregnancy (peanut) and he told me that in reality, some exposure is good like during pregancy.  They found that children who weren't exposed during pregnancy had more chance of allergy to peanut than those who did and that the reactions were worse.  So, at least I did some good by eating my peanut butter toast!



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