I am a husband to one, and a dad to four.  LOL.  I have been with my wife for 10 years.  We have 4 kids; 3 boys and 1 girl.  Our daughter is 6 years old and she has Autism.  Our sons are just mean lol.  The reason for my user name is that when I was in school, I would see the special needs kids and tell myself that I could never handle having a kid with special needs.  I would have to give it up for adoption.  Well, when you have a kid, you build that special bond with them, that makes you want to take care of them no matter what.  Now that I look back at what I told myself, I can tell that the man upstairs is now showing me that I can hanlde a child with special needs.  He Knows Me.  I'm not a big religous person, but I do believe there is a God, and I know that everything happens for a reason.