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Hello to everyone!

I am a believer, first and above all things in my life. I am a Believer in Jesus Christ, and do my best to follow him in all my ways. I am also a work in progress. I just try to keep the work progressing. I see too many works in progress where the work isn't progressing!

i am also a child protection worker. I keep babies safe for a living. My favorite part of that is getting to tell people their rights under governement policy. Please remember, I am Canadian, and the system here is different than other countries. I've heard about some of the things going on in Australia, and all I can say is that things are somewhat more consistent, and more fair, here. We still fall short, but the best interest of the child usually prevails. Until recently, I worked for the provincial government for 7 years, so I am well aware of their programs, policies and procedures. I have recently started working with an agency here that provides services to our First Nations people who live on reserve, providing child protection services to treaty children living on reserve. It's pretty cool, and I'm enjoying it immensely. The system is exactly the same as far as legislation and the like goes, only the practice is different. And my is it different!

As for me, I am contentedly single, and have no children. I come on Minti to help, and to keep my perspective as to what good parents look like. I don't believe there are bad parents, just those with painful pasts that effect their presents. If anyone wants to talk to me about something work related, I'm here and I'm willing.

I don't like gossip, politics or anything like that, so try to not rope me ...


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Domestic Violence- The Cold Hard FactsJune 7th (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend)
physical discipline and little children. November 2008 (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend)
Child Protection- Striking the difficult Balance. November 2008 (May work) (May work) (May work) (May work) (May work)
Emotional Abuse is ABUSE.October 2008 (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend)
About Child Protection Workers- telling the truthSeptember 2008 (Worth a try) (Worth a try) (Worth a try) (Worth a try) (Worth a try)

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06
Nov

feeling better now.... upcoming surgery though.

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Thank God that's over.

I just had another really serious gall stone attack. it lasted about three days and i actually ended up in hospital over night so they could control the pain. The funny thing is, it wasn't, by far, the worst attack i've had. i've had a couple that were far worse and lasted far longer. I'm not sure what happened... almost seems like my tolerance and patience for the thing has gone down. I'm thinking that not having 500-600 hours of sick leave credits likely made the difference... too bad those don't come with you job to job. I've only been in this job for two months now, so being out with this has cost me all my sick leave, and most of my overtime and vacation leave. Thank God our Christmas holidays don't come out of our vacation leave- they close the office down and we all get automatic paid holidays. Yay! now that's a perk!

I'm feeling better today, good in fact, and i"m back at work. yay! It feels great to be doing paperwork. Who would've thought? hmph.

The one thing that has come from allthis, is that i'll be having surgery on Nov 24th... thank God for short term disability, so i will still have income... but it means i"ll only have like 3 weeks of work left this year.... hmmm... I wonder how restful it will be? I hear people can recoup pretty quick from this when their gall bladders aren't infected... and mine's not, yay! my white blood count was normal, yay!!!

I had been fighting having this surgery, resisting it tooth and nail... but God works in mysterious ways, and He works all things out for his Glory in the end...

God bless you all.

I am's Child.

05
Oct

Starting to feel like home.

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Well, the house is actually unpacked enough that it's starting to feel like home. I had friends over after church yesterday, and we brought up my kitchen table, chairs, dresser, living room chair, and more boxes of Kitchen stuff. I didn't get to loading my dresser or anything, but we did have lunch at the table- Yay! my first guests over for a meal in my new house! It's sooo cool.

I've found it quite an accomplishment getting things done. My kitchen is actually starting to come together. This morning before work, I found the box with my small appliances, so that will be good. Gotta go, update you more later.

Iamschild.

04
Oct

all moved in... now the unpacking begins... and continues and continues!

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Well, I signed the paper work on the first, and took possession that date. Not the way I'd recommend, but I got in without being homeless! Yay!

So, I now have the computer set up, and am slowly bringing stuff up from the basement. One step at a time, but the house is coming. I can cook, and wash and do laundry, and now I can even sit at table. I had my first company over for lunch today, and they helped me bring a few things up- the kitchen table, a dresser and a few boxes. So, things are coming good. Not bad for a Sunday.

Well, God bless you all, thanks, and take care out there.

I Am's child.

26
Sep

yay! I'm getting a house!

Comment Published at 06:0306:037 comments7 comments31 Visits31 VisitsReport

Oh am I releived guys!

Since I got my new job, I"ve been looking for a place to live. And between the housing shortage locally and the economy the way it is, finding anywhere I could afford to live- rent or buy!- was very challenging. There only two houses in my price range for sale in the community- and moving out of town and commuting an hour everyday wasn't an option I could  afford either. (I know, I'm spoiled compared to some city dwellers!)

Anyways, I'm all excited because my mortgage was finially approved last night. It took about 2-3 weeks- where most take about 3-4 days! there was just delay after delay, all things that were kinda out of my hands. So, please, rejoice with me-= I won't be homeless next week!

Yay!!!!

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