This sounds a bit like my family

my daughter's vegan, I can't eat things with gluten in and the other two eat only meat, Poor Phina opens all the windows when they cook.

It's better now they can get their own food cooked, I know it's a long time for you to wait, I hope you manage to get round it

Good luck - that sounds like a rare old challenge! Perhaps M is old enough now to help you prepare some veggies - maybe he would feel like trying them if he "made" them? Sounds like less of a challenge than changing DHs habbit!

Oh, Izzy what a job you have ahead of you, good luck with it all.  Well done for being organised.  My son also just eats carrots, maybe mushrooms but thats about it.   Try cooking a tomato sauce and put it over the veges it may work.  Sometimes does with us.

Good luck - well done for trying and planning it out!

Good luckenjoy your cooking xx