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2007

Lonely :'(

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joel left today i hate being left on my own and the first day is always the hardest for some reason.

I also have a doctors appointment today to get my results from my scans, im not even that exited about it i didnt want to do any of this by myself. joel always said to me he didnt want us to have a baby untill he had another job because he wanted to be there for every thing and do you think i listened....NO. I dont want to feel depressed or feel guilty through this pregnancy because i knew from the start that joel wont always be here but i dont know what to do to make myself feel better about our situation.

i have very supportive friends and family but i still feel nothing but sadness untill joels here again. im very attatched to him always have been form the very start. everyone told me to back off a bit because when hes not there it will make it really hard and again did i listen?

anyway im going to have a lay down

ciao

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| Destiiny23

Re: Lonely :'(

Dont worry, try to keep yourself busy and in no time the couple of months will fly by really quick. When my husband was my fiance, we were apart for 10 months and living on separate sides of the world! So i was pretty lonely but kept myself busy and time flew by really quick. Im glad to hear that you have supportive friends and family to keep you company.

Good Luck
Joanne

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| Kellzacar

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Hi honey,

Don't feel so sad . . . you will be amazed at how fast the time will fly be especially as you are pregnant. It never ceases to amaze me at how fast time flies by when you are pregnant..

Why don't you keep a daily pregnancy diary for Joel. In this you can write everyday about how you feel, your hopes, your dreams and anything that may happen. This can be something for you both to treasure and also a keepsake for your bub's 18th or 21st.

Cheers Kellz

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| lonely28

Re: Lonely :'(

that is a fantastic idea kellz. You've just solved a problem for a friend of mine!!!

fi xoxo

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| winja

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hunni i think u need to go out and find a passion of your very own, im a single mum and pregnant my daughter is 5 and in full time school i used to get very depressed all the time feeling isolated then realised one day that i was the only person making myself isolated! no one was stopping me from going out and getting a life and interests of my own that had nothing to do with being a mummy, i started volunteer work at the local neighbourhood centre which in time became connected to what i want to do in life. try to enjoy what u DO have and you wont feel so bad anymore. have a good rest adn congrats on the bub pregnancy can be a difficult thing to go thru alone.

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| Ngairi

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Honey don't be too hard on yourself. He will come home and you can let him know all the things that have happened. As Lui said, keep a diary, so that he can read it, it also makes a great keepsake for the baby. Leisa

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| llmunchkin

Re: Lonely :'(

Oh poor you! It is hard being on your own - especially when you are pregnant. When I was pregnant I felt very insular and had a lot of internal dialogue going on about what I would like to say to Stephen - I was bed ridden and he was at work all day.

Why don't you start keeping a diary about your thoughts, and the changes in your body, and the things that you wish you could tell him? It might make you feel better to get it out of your system, and then you can share it with him when he is around - or you can email it to him perhaps.

Have a restful day, and take care of yourself - growing a baby is very tiring stuff!

All the best - Lui.

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