well things have been hectic?

I haven't written in a while due to one of my ex's finding this web site and not liking what I'd said.

things are still the same with everything. just I'm now starting to lift myself up un stead of letting them knock me down,

against evryones wishes I'm looking for work or study to be a social worker or counsellor or disability worker anything to help others.

hope everyones been fine catch up l8r

well its not long till christmas and my lovely Children are all off to spend it at there dad's  we take it in turns each year who has christmas and new year with them and i had them last year, so my christmas wont be until jan when they all come back home

i know plenty of mothers who'd love to have 3weeks off but to be honest i hate it, when they are here i'm running around like a chook but when they go i get extremely bored, the house stays clean, i dont have to be home til late, i guess my munchins keep be busy always cleaning, stopping arguements, be home on time, the normal life of mother hood.

MERRY CHRISTMAS and ENJOY the NEW YEAR.

well its only saturday and this is what has happened

friday night - my boyfriend and his sister got into a fight she hit him in the head with a bottle, ( he needed stitches), 2 of my mates got jumped by 8 people, ( Black eyes and brusies)

saturday - i'm at the doctors to be told i have a chest infection, ear infection, and that i have to go back to the doctors on monday for more blood tests, my dog bite my mate who needs to go get a injection.

SO I"M LEFT WONDERING WHAT NEXT

well its Tessy's 9th birthday today.

she had a sleep over last nite with 5 friends, than today her dad surprised her at school she was suppose to come home and play pin the tail on the donkey, pass the parcel, musical chairs, but in stead she went with her dad,

i am at my wits ends somedays its always he says she says with that lot, my daughter has learnt that if you cry daddy gets her anything she wants, he knows she does this on purpose but he still caves in to her, i've tryed many times to sort something out because she has learnt that if dad says no go to grandma or grandpa, and he doesn't like it i've explained to him that thats what she does and because he still lives with his mum and dad she'll do the same there, we have been dealing with this for nearly 5yrs now, but like normal i'm always wrong his right until she does the same to him.

plus cody is suppose to talk to his dad every night but doesn't and his dad thinks thats my fault, what am i suppose to do force him to talk, he'll hate both of us for that, cody is the sort of kid that wont do it if he doesn't want to,

Later