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"THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

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"HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"  AND - THE PHOTO!

 Receiving some not so good news after having had surgery in April,and 6 weeks later finding out that I was scheduled to  have more surgery in August,I decided that I could not handle this right now. 

 I became an  emotional wreck and  fear and. panic took over, yes my bravery deserted me at the door. This is where my knight in shining armour, the Love of My Life, Steve came to my rescue. With the ok from my doctor  to delay surgery until  November, and with Steve  knowing how much I was missing Marg, he prescribed some urgent  Marg therapy and set out on an internet search  for bargain air fares to Toronto. 

I had one condition. Marg was not to know I was coming ! I wanted to knock on her door and give her the suprise of her life ! Of course, we could not do this without Dan's ( Marg's husband) approval. A surprise for Marg is one thing, but I couldn't impose myself on their household for a whole month without being sure that  I would be welcome and that I would not be upsetting any of their domestic plans. So after a couple of phone calls to Dan, which he explained away to Marg as enquiries about the suitability of a birthday present for her, he enthusiastically endorsed the plan! The problem was that her birthday was in June, and I was not going to arrive until August, so how were we going to keep this thing a secret for three months?

It was easy to start with,but as time drew near it became harder, not just for me, but for the others that, for various reasons, I had told !  For some of you,like myself, it became a very difficult dodging game  towards the end, as this beautiful lady has finely tuned antenna's which  were picking up that something was going on ! It was especially hard towards the end as both I and several of my friends were all trying to avoid her in case we said something that she would pick up on .  Dear friends I thank you so very much for not letting the cat out of the bag. And how Dan managed to keep the charade alive so perfectly, I will never know ! In fact he told Marg that his brother was coming to visit from Mexico, so at least she knew to expect an overseas visitor ! just the wrong one !! 

The  last  2 weeks  were nearly impossible, as Steve was over in Perth   and my dear friend Marg thought she would keep an eye on me through Skype, day and night. When I was due to leave home for the airport, I knew that I would be out of contact for 32 hours before arriving on her doorstep. I left a blog saying that I was going out for the afternoon, and I hoped this would cover me until I arrived in Los Angeles, from where I would leave a message which she would think originated  from me at home !

Anyway, after a horror experience in LA airport with the rudest customs, immigration and security men in the world,I made it onto the Air Canada flight and eventually into Toronto airport where Dan was waiting for me. So, all that was left was a one hour drive to Oshawa and I would finally be back with Marg.

Dan drove into their driveway - I got out of the car - Marg came out of her front door - and then she saw me !  Well, she came bursting down the driveway with such emotion and  a expression  on her face that was worth all the sneakiness.   To feel her warm loving arms around me for real was just so right.

" THE LOOK IS PRICELESS"    

                                                                                                                                           

 

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Domestic-warrior
October 4th | Domestic-warrior
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

Oh, that is priceless!  I bet she couldn't believe it!!



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      janicepovey
October 4th | janicepovey
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT.

 It took her a while to believe it, after many a warm hug, Julie.

Love Janice



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carole32
October 3rd | carole32
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

I have tears of happiness, after reading that blog. What a wonderful husband and fantastic friends you have. But I'm sure your already aware of that.And you dear lady are a treasure beyond words, I hope your feeling well. I'll talk to you soon.



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      janicepovey
October 3rd | janicepovey
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT.

 I do  feel very grateful  and humble in having such a wonderful husband in Steve and   such treasured friends.

I'm glad they were tears of happiness, Carole. Many thanks for your lovely thoughts. 

Catch you soon.

Love Janice 



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janicepovey
October 2nd | janicepovey
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

 A ghost I wasn't but sure felt like one after my trip to get there, LOL! It was just right Arna and yes I agree our time together was good for us both.

Love Janice



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Arna
October 1st | Arna
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

LOL.  Poor Marg!  I reckon she thought she was seeing ghosts! I'm so glad you were able to go and see her Janice, it was good for you and her.



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boredmum
September 30th | boredmum
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

 lol Aww thats just gorgeous!!  Glad you captured  marg's excitement on camera!!

xx



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      janicepovey
October 2nd | janicepovey
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT.

 Marg's emotions that greeted me on my arrival, made all those hours of travelling very worth while.

 Her look is gorgeous.

Luv ya heaps Janice xxxx



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           boredmum
October 2nd | boredmum
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT.

 I bet honey..marg is beautiful, she glows within like you!! 

Love ya more :P

xoxox



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                janicepovey
October 2nd | janicepovey
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT.

 You are such a sweetheart, have me blushing this way .

Love You Morer xxxxxx



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KathrynR1402
September 30th | KathrynR1402
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

BRILLIANT! Worth all the deception I'm certain! Well done Steve for prescribing such wonderful medicine. What a picture!



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      janicepovey
September 30th | janicepovey
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT.

 I'm with you Kathryn, all the deception was totally worth it, for sure.

Yes my Steve is a brillant rough diamond among the jewels, wouldn't trade hime for the world.

Picture it is hey Kathryn?

Love Janice



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anniebabe
September 30th | anniebabe
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

fantastic ! you had us there through every step.

well janice a great achievement indeed ! dreams really do come true!

"where there is a will there is a way" and it came in the form of your wonderful husband Steve 

i hope this has given lots of faith and hope out there to all that give up on thingd in life easily. you have shown a perfect example of when one wants something bad enough one can "reach for the sky"

marg the look on your face is truly priceless. im glad we got a chance to see this beautiful photo

love annie xxxooo



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      janicepovey
September 30th | janicepovey
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT.

 Yes in the form of my Darling Husband all wishes & dreams can come true.

If you want for something bad enough, all things are possible....when you have a soul mate that knows you inside & out.

Would not have been a surprise without sharing this beautiful photo with you all.

Love Janice



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smsjs
September 29th | smsjs
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

Now that is a great story.......

What a wonderful thing to do for an old friend. An awesome holiday must have come from that incredible surprise!



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      janicepovey
September 30th | janicepovey
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT.

 It was an awesome holiday and the time spent with my dear friend was priceless.

Glad you enjoyed reading our story.

Love Janice



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nell18-3
September 28th | nell18-3
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

Oh Janice

I actually teared up reading this!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thats so amazing, what a lovely and loving support network there was to make this happen, but why should I be surprised, you too are the most wonderful quality ladies, of course people would go to such measures to make you two happy

Wow, what a great surprise you planned!!!!!!!!!

xxx

 



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      janicepovey
September 30th | janicepovey
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT.

 Didn't mean you make you teary Helen, even though I was emotional writing this....it was just so important to me that Marg didn't know I was coming. In doing this I wanted to let this remarkable friend know just how much she meant to me.

I am so thankful to those who helped me keep the secret, I realise it was just as hard for them as it was for me.

Love Janice



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llmunchkin
September 27th | llmunchkin
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

Ah JJ, such an amazing story, it is hard to believe that you have been & gone already, after all that build up!  I hope you are settling in now that you are back & home & ready for the next steps in life at home in Oz. xox



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      janicepovey
September 30th | janicepovey
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT.

 Yes Lui after all the months of build up it seems the time I was away has gone by in a blink of an eye & gee it feels that way.

Yep I am back in reality ( I think) and ready for what is to come.

Love & Hugs JJ xxxx



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emmie
September 27th | emmie
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

Now that is what i called a suprised and excited loook all rolled into 1 love it.I really hope yo bothhad an amazing time together and are able to do it again in the near future.

Love you bi trillions xxx



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      janicepovey
September 28th | janicepovey
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT.

 Yes emz we did just that have and amazing time together....is that a surprised look or what????....love it!

Am hoping it won't be to long before we can be together once again.

Love You Multi- Zillions Mum xxxx



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           emmie
October 3rd | emmie
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT.

OH YES i love it its one to cherish forever haha

im sure you will

Love you bitrillions zillions xxxx



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                janicepovey
October 3rd | janicepovey
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT.

 Emmie, Marg's emotions and the look on her face is embeded in my memory... it felt so wonderful to surprise my friend Marg. The time spent with them all was the best medicine for us all, I so miss them like crazy, yeah I know just a sook this way.

Love You Quad Zillions Mum xxxxxxx



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toosh
September 27th | toosh
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

 How utterly wonderful this is Janice - and the photo is priceless! I am just so happy that you two got to spend a whole month together! You are so brave to have travelled all the way alone - but the prize at the end was so worth it! 

xxoo



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      janicepovey
September 28th | janicepovey
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT.

 THE PRIZE WAS WELL WORTH ALL THE TRAVELING for sure Teshia.

The precious time I spent with Marg was simply marvellous though it went by far to quickly for me, in saying that I am so lucky to have had that time.

Glad you liked the photo....I think it says it all!

Love Janice



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Marglr
September 27th | Marglr
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

Well...ya gone and dun it.....argggggggg!  Hey!  My birthday is in July!   Just remember I was crying and laughing and trying to believe you were real!  GOOD GRIEF! And again argggggg

You left out the important stuff, how you did all this alone, by your wee self and handled it all so well! You boarded planes and stayed cooped up for days on planes and in airports!  I am amazed at what you went through !  You did it!  You also avoided letting me know in any way shape or form.  Even when I kept asking! ! !

I was given the world's best surprise ever by you and Steve and I will forever be so thankful!  Even if you posted that picture!



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      janicepovey
September 27th | janicepovey
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT!

 Oops yes I gone and dun it, did run for the hills but hill to steep had to make a retreat, Haa Haa!

Dearest Margie all the travelling was definitely worth it, to feel your warm arms around me for real and to see the pure emotions that sweep over your beautiful face on my arrival, gee what Dan's brother missed out on, LOL!

So I am forgiven for my avoidance and shut down you experienced ??? Hee Hee!

My surprise was when my darling husband said I'm sending  you to Marg, thought it was going to be another 12 months before that was going to happen, he is truly a nation treasure to me.

The photo is beautiful my friend and that day will be with me for the rest of my life....pure magic!

Love you Morest, Janice

 



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missnickley
September 27th | missnickley
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

OH that is so fantastic!

Good on you all for keeping it a secret and you for being sneaky in the best possible way!



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      janicepovey
September 27th | janicepovey
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT!

 Nicki, I think Marg forgave me all my sneakiness once she got over the shock I was there for real, Haa Haa!

Love Janice



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mystikal
September 27th | mystikal
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

rofl always wondered what Marg's face would look like! Does better justice than "the scream"



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      janicepovey
September 27th | janicepovey
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT!

 The scream I missed Mel, Marg was to quick coming through the door....just missed the scream & hands waving about in the air....so wanted that one.

But I love this photo.

Love Janice



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YUB
September 27th | YUB
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

Sweet! Like the ovens just been opened with a whoosh of warm air and delightful aroma, and YOU are the sweet, sweet muffin!



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      janicepovey
September 27th | janicepovey
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT!

 I love the way you described our moment in time of meeting up once again, it was truly a delightful aroma.

Love Janice



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MrsSanders
September 27th | MrsSanders
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

Beautiful,truely beautiful. Surprise,love,excitement,joy,shock,recovery and the little girl inside shines through,yay.

Thankyou for sharing this gorgeous picture of this lovely,lovely lady.

Yes,hmm, the avoiding Marg that last 24hrs was excruciating and the guilt was a tough one, wanted to reply to her questions,but not dishonestly,so avoidence was the only tactic,LOL.

Worth it all though, to know that you were togeather and building each others strength.

Thankyou Janice, so, so much for posting this, it's awesome.

Love and Hugs. Winnie.xxxx

 



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      janicepovey
September 27th | janicepovey
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 Dear Winnie all the sneakiness & avoidance on your behalf was worth it don't you think? 

The moment of my arrival was pure magic Winnie, all the emotions you stated was flowing greatly on two sides. For me it was am I actually here and for Marg the photo speaks for itself.

Thank-you dear friend for being in on the surprise and staying strong towards the end, it definitely was a hard task towards the end.

Hugs & Love Janice xxxx



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ajv00
September 27th | ajv00
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

 Oh Janice, the photo captures the moment perfectly..  what a great surprize had by all. 



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      janicepovey
September 27th | janicepovey
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 Yes  the photo did capture the special moment & the surprise was total.

Love Janice



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August88
September 27th | August88
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

Such a great surprise! Love "the photo". It shows how well you pulled it off! I can only begin to imagine how Marg is feeling. So many emotions wrapped into her face. Great memories. xx



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      janicepovey
September 27th | janicepovey
Re: THE PHOTO & HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT!

 The look on Marg's face made all the travelling worth while and the look of surprise was just wonderful.

Great memories for sure Lynette.

Love Janice



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veejay
September 26th | veejay
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

Absolute joy in her face and yes you definatly got your  hugs and love which are in the

"REMEMBER WHEN" pile  The healing began as you stepped of that plane into Marg's arm which in turn got transfered to Steve in Aus on your return 

PRICELESS 

hugs and love Vicki  



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      janicepovey
September 27th | janicepovey
Re: The Photo & How the surprise came about

 I think this photo is beautiful, it shows pure emotions but I'm still going to hide before Marg see's I've put it up, Haa Haa!

The month of hugs & love I received was the best medicine, I could have wished for....your so right Vicki, in all got transfered to Steve.

Love & Hugs Janice



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pauline27
September 26th | pauline27
Re: "THE PHOTO!" & "HOW THE SURPRISE CAME ABOUT"

PRICELESS AMAZING..............No word can describe this exciting look !!!!!!!

Love Pauline



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      janicepovey
September 26th | janicepovey
Re: The Photo & How the surprise came about

 I'm with you Pauline, I believe the photo says it all!

Love Janice



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