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2008

Minti Featured member

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I am not a person who usually wins things. Other people do that. So imagine my surprise when I opened a message from Angie to tell me that I have been chosen as a Minti Featured Member. I was so overwhelmed, but then a bit apprehensive when asked to write a blog about myself. Angie gave me a list of subjects to talk about, so I will give it a go !

My name is Janice Povey. I live at Woolgoolga on the East coast of Australia, roughly halfway between Sydney and Brisbane. I have two children, Jamie, who is 38 and Jane who is 40.

Jamie is a financial accountant, living in Sydney and Jane is a senior police constable, living in Griffith in Central New South Wales.

I didn’t find Minti, but Minti found me. I was browsing in Google and  found a link to Minti through a parenting site. It immediately intrigued me, and at that time I really didn’t understand the extent of the site. I was completely new to the world of computers, but I sensed the friendliness of the people and was attracted to them. Because I was still feeling my way with this strange thing called a computer, I used my real name to register, although I noticed that everyone else had created their own. I still think today that I am the only member using my real name.

I found so many mothers, who, like me are not literary authors, but who could offer help and advice to other mothers with problems. I found that I could be a sounding board for them, listen to their problems, and offer them support and encouragement. I can recall the times of Jamie’ teenage rebellion. He had suddenly grown into a young man and suddenly “ knew everything “. I had some very difficult times, trying to keep him on the straight and narrow, and I know that mothers face the same problems today. We got through those times, but they were hard, and I know how much more difficult it must be today.

We live in a society which has abandoned the fundamentals. Young people seem to lack the mentors who I relied upon for advice and guidance. Modern day children have been forced to live in a protective cocoon, which makes it hard for them to go out and have old fashioned fun. The world is a more dangerous place for children now and this adds to the pressures on parents. How does a parent balance the need to protect, with the need to allow freedom to learn ?  I think this is the biggest question and the most challenging.  I believe that parents should be their children’s primary teacher and role model, in terms of discipline, respect and manners. A child is a reflection of the parent.

My mother gave me the best advice I have ever received. “ go by your gut instinct – it will rarely let you down “   Over the years, I have learnt that she was right. You know, deep down inside you if something is right or wrong. 

I think that every new mum looks forward to hearing her baby’s first words, and secretly hope that the first word will be “MUM”

In my case, this was not to be. Jamie was a water baby; he loved his baths, so ‘BATH’ was the first word he ever uttered.

For me, the best thing about being a parent was watching my child experiencing things for the first time –learning from their mistakes and moving on. And now, at the age of 55, to have them visit, put their arms around me and say “I love you Mum “.  That is what parenting is to me.

Minti must be so many things to so many parents. It is a communication medium through which parents of all ages can provide support to others and in so doing, facilitate a genuine friendship between all those who

participate. I have made some enduring friendships on Minti  and I hope that I have provided some support to those in need.

None of us are too old to receive advice. I have read so many valuable contributions by so many members. I recently read some advice which really touched me. It was not specific to one subject, but talked about “Emotional Freedom” and how making changed from within can produce positive results through every aspect of our lives.

So now I have to confess to a Minti addiction. It has introduced me to so many genuine parents whose companionship on Minti I find to be inspiring. I am fortunate to have the time to listen and hopefully to contribute. If my contribution is worthwhile, then the addiction is justified.

My Minti addiction does not produce a competitive home environment. My husband, Steve, is supportive of my involvement and is not threatened by it. When I was ill and unable to type, he took over my blog and developed a knee cult ! Pretty ordinary knees, if you ask me, but it produced lots of laughs and funny comments.

I think that Minti can be more than just a computer link. It can develop relationships on a personal level and already I have met Amanda and her family and soon will be travelling to Canada to meet Ally, Jess and Marge. Everyone already knows how thrilled I am to be going to do this. The days are counting down.

I am thrilled and honoured to have been selected as a Minti Featured Member, and I thank Angie for all the work that she has put in to make Minti such an indispensible part of my life.

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HarrisonsMommy
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | HarrisonsMommy
Re: Minti Featured member

Well done Janice.  You so deserve this!  Congratulations.

Angela



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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
Re: Minti Featured member

Thankyou so much Angela, i so appreciate it.

Janice xxxxx



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blackwidowkate
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | blackwidowkate
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Hi

The best words i have ever heard was "the young shall learn from the old"

From you we have all learnt so much with your patience and love and guiding hand

We have days when we feel the word has abandoned us and no one cares and along comes this shining light to guide our path

So many nights I have sat here and read your comments and thoughts or talked to you on messenger or just logged onto my home page and there is always somehting inspirational from yourself

You have a natural beauty and honesty that seems to know instinctively when one is hurting and you are there either in word picture or spirit,

A never more deserved award for a loving caring beautiful lady. 

Congratulations does not even express the feeling I have for your win.

It is a small well deserved recognition of your contribution to a family "MUM"

Some of us may not be much different in age to yourself but the wisdom and honesty you show far outweighs the material age.

A special wish for you  May you always have enough

Luv Deb

 



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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Dearest friend Deb, i just found your beautiful comment and literally bawled my eyes out  reading it.....with appreciation  and deepest thanks. This has to be one  of the best things, anyone has ever written about myself....i thankyou so very much.....you are a true & dear friend.

This is what makes minti the fantastic site, it is.

Love you



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           blackwidowkate
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | blackwidowkate
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Hi

Woohoo you have the idea now the links go somewhere

Keep it up and you will be a pro in no time

Wish people would stop crying over the truth...sheesh make me feel guilty for making you cry hahahaha

Luv Deb



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natelz1
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | natelz1
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yay congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you deserve it hun! sorry this is late, i seem to have been a bit self absorbed this weekend :s

You way deserve it congratulations!!! :)



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Izzy
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | Izzy
Re: Minti Featured member

Congrats, Janice! This recognition is well deserved!

You know, funny you said something about secretely wishing our little one's first word is mom. Well, my little Katie said "dadadada" first. And then a few days later, Jordan said it too.



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Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | Marglr
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Hi Janice! That was so neat to read! However... I hope Steve's knees aren't ordinary! I was hoping that was how I could spot him among all the other tall Aussie's at the train station!!!LOL!!! You Soooo deserve this Dear Lady! I do hope you print this out and stick it to your frig! Mine holds my magnet that gives me hope of hurrying along that slow little bee!!! Dear Sweet Lady,take all these wonderful words from these absolutly wonderful Ladies to heart! Your great big heart!!! that you share with everyone! Hugs to you,Marg



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      janicepovey
January 2008 | janicepovey
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Hi Marg, i'm certain you will be able to spot Steve's knee's coming from a mile away!!LOL!!  Thankyou dear friend for your beautiful thoughts, they mean the world to me. I know that little bunble bee is slow on his travels, but did you notice he is finally under the 4 month mark now, yippeee!  Even though that magic momment of meeting you does not happen till the 16th of May.... the day we leave for our grand holiday is the  30th of April....so we only have 14 more weeks to go, hey sounding better every time i say it.

Hugs are coming, Janice xxxx



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pavementcracks70
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | pavementcracks70
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congratulations

im pretty new here however i do read your bogs and advice they are magic ! if i could chose a fairy it would be you....you bring color to our busy dreary life at times

bless you rue



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      janicepovey
January 2008 | janicepovey
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Hi Rue, i've been quiet taken back by all the wonderful comments, but to hear from someone like yourself, that are fairly new to minti, just reinforces what a fantastic site Minti is. If i can help with my advice, in some little way or put a smile on your face, to make you feel good, that in turn, brightend up my day.

Would love to get to know you better.

Kindest Regards Janice



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WinnierooPooh
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | WinnierooPooh
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Congratulations Janice, you are such a comfort to all with your wisdom, advice and care. We are very lucky to have a lady who takes the time to fret over the worries of so many Mums and Dads. The ability to share your experiences and life lessons is deeply appreciated. It is also lovely to read your blogs and hear about Steve and your life togeather. in your little part of paradise. Oh and please reassure steve his knees are not forgotten, they will alway's hold a place of honour on Minti.

Lots of love, Winnie.xxxx



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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Dear Winnie, Steve will appreicate that his knee's are not forgotten, not sure about a place of honor though, haha!....but i do love the whole package. You have become a dear friend, here on minti, Winnie and i thankyou for your beautiful comments.

I also wish you well, in everything that lies ahead of you....just remember baby steps, ok.

Loads of Love Janice xxxx



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boredmum
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | boredmum
Re: Minti Featured member

Congratulations!! You deserve it for everything you bring to minti.

Love Dee



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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
Re: Minti Featured member

That was beautiful, thankyou Dee, so much.

Love Janice xxx



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emmie
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | emmie
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congratulations mum you deserve this so much you are a ery special friend and cyber mum to me

love you lots

Emz xxx



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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Dear sweet Emz, my other lost daughter from the other side of the world, whom i worry about, i know we haven't spoken much lately, but your always in my thoughts and i do check in on you, just to keep a mum's eye on you.  I remember this shy little girl, when we first started talking, wow, what a way you have come, my dear friend.

Much love Mum xxxx

PS. love you more!



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luckyone
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | luckyone
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congra janice , you desevre this  your such a giving person and one member thats really shines in here .I am glad i now u  and l happy to be your friend

juliexx



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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Dear Julie....my cheeky friend who just won't let me go to bed at night, hehe!...but just seems to know, when a friends voice is needed, you are a true friend.

Love Janice xxxx



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mariamum
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | mariamum
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Congrats Janice and Steve (well he did contribute a little, lol) you are what Minti means to me, friendship, care and understanding.  It's nice to give advice and receive it in return but for me the best thing is finding people who care.  So thanks Janice for being there for me. Love Maria x


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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Dear Maria, your coments  & your frindship mean alot to me ( &  Steve),  and even  though you live far away, together we will get you back on top, my friend.... anytime, you know where i am & if not i will have have to come and annoy you, with plenty of hugs.

Love you Janice xxxx



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whome
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | whome
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Iv just read your story and i think you deserve everything wonderfull in life and you seem to be a very nice person there should be a lot more in this world like you but as the saying goes they must have broken the mould lol you deserve to win


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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Your a sweetie, whome, thankyou. Maybe when you get to know me better, you might change your mind, hehe! Hope life is treating well, over there in the UK.

Hugs Janice xxxx



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Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | Kellzacar
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Hi Mum,

I am so glad you finally got featured   . . . As i said in your lounge you really deserved it . .  In a way this is for you AND steve as he steps in and holds the fort when you are not well!!

We ALL enjoy your wise words and your fantastic personality . . . .

HUGS Alana


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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Thanks dear Alana, for uncluding Steve, he is not just  the other half of me, he is my rock. I have one bad trait, i find it very hard to except compilments, and in the past 48 hours, i have been overwhelmed & emotional reading all the heart  felt responses. To the point i come in here read a couple and i have to go out of minti. Well Steve has been gently urging me back on, to respnd to the answers.

I would like to thankyou Alana, for always being there for me, with support, advice and everytime  i annoy you about the computer, you never bat an eye. Thankyou dear friend.

Hugs Mum xxxx



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winja
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | winja
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well done janice hunni! you my friends are a true inspiration and you guide alot of the mummies here thru some tough times with your own wisdom and beautiful personality.
thankyou for sharing with us'
xxxnat


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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Oh my dear Nat, your a real sweetie....how many late talks ( and i mean late) have we had, that your been there for me. So i say thankyou.....even though you are a rogue for keeping me up, but you have a big heart &  i still love you.

Hugs Janice xxxx



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Arna
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | Arna
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Congrats Janice.  Minti wouldn't be the same without you.  You are a truely wonderful person and contribute so much to all of us.  Well done.  May happiness lurk in every shadow and love be hiding in your heart.  You are a special lady!


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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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You are a real sweetie Arna, thankyou. I sincerely hope all your aches , pains & morning sickness as settled down for you & that the rest your pregnancy is smooth sailing.

Hugs Janice xxxx



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anniebabe
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | anniebabe
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janice, from the first moment i felt your warmth. i am so down to earth and i found that in you too.

congratulations on being a featured member it was a pleasure reading your feature. i always look forward to what you write on minti and you have made my day more than once in my lounge thank you

cheers annie

 



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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Dear Annie, i to have enjoyed getting to know you & in that short time, i feel that you are  also a down to earth country bumpkin, like myself and i feel your honestly & warmth, with everything you write. Tahnkyou Annie it has been my pleasure.

Hugs Janice



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hermy
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | hermy
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you sooooo deserve this.......well done .........you are a lovely lady and i hope that i too get the honour of meeting you one day........with all my luv, Sandra xxx


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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Thankyou lovely lady, i to hope that one day soon, we have the opportunity to meet in person.

Lots of love Janice xxxx



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Ngairi
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | Ngairi
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Congratulations Janice, well deserved. You have been a mentor to a lot of parents out there, when they haven't had one or needed someone unbiased.

Well done. LEisa



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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Dear Leisa, thanyou sweetie, i hope i can help some mum's out there, in some small way, sometimes, it is just nice to know someone really hears what you are saying.

Love Janice xxx



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Libby24
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | Libby24
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I say it couldnt go to a better person Janice. you are like the Mum of all of us here. You are so kind and caring.
Congrats on getting this award

Lots of love to you Janice

Luv Liz


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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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A  young mum hey dear Liz, haha!  I appreicate your kind words, thankyou.

Loads of love Janice xxxx



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FremantleDocker
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | FremantleDocker
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congratulations and well done on being the latest Minti Featured Member. You are such a lovely person, and so kind and caring. take care my friend.


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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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More to the point Kerri, you take care my friend and i sincerely hope everything works out for & your family, only the best wishes coming your way. Thankyou.

Luv ya Janice xxxx



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ajv00
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | ajv00
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Janice, you more that deserve this, Congradulations, and what a great blog.

take care - angie



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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Glad you like Angie & thankyou, sweetie.

Luv ya Janice xxxxx



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nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | nell18-3
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Thats lovely Janice
You are such a genuine and lovely warm hearted person
You and Marg are both in a class of your own on this site
Am so jealous that you two get to meet so soon
We want lots of pictures !!!!
Congratulations on being featured member
You have always been a winner in our eyes
xxx


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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Thankyou dear Helen, for your warm thoughts, so wished i had your knack for writing, have quiet a few subjects in my head, but can't seem to put pen to paper. You are one friend that i have watched, develope into a beautiful rose.

Helen so wish that my dream to take everyone to meet marge, was possible, in that other blog i did "What a shin dig of a party we would have, for  certain.

Love Janice xxxxx



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kseers
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | kseers
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What a lovely blog - thank you and congratulations


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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Dear Kseers, i'm glad you enjoyed reading it my blog & thankyou.

Love Janice



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Domestic-warrior
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | Domestic-warrior
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Once again, congratulations.   There are some people on here that really shine and you are one of them.  You always offer support and never complain and i really admired you for that.

  Julie



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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Dear Julie, it has been a pleasure to have you a friend here on minti & thankyou for your lovely thoughts.

Love Janice xxxx



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Gypsie
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | Gypsie
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Congratulations Janice...That's wonderful



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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
Re: Minti Featured member

Hi Gypsie, thankyou, you had cause for celebration the other day, ypur 40th Birthday, now angie has given me a reason to celebrate...wow, where's the drinks...oh it is abit late, i should be in bed.

Love Janice



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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | llmunchkin
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Janice, you are the quintessential Aussie Minti Mum, and Marg is your match in the Northern hemisphere - Ally and Jess are very lucky girls to get to meet you both. 

I think that many people on the site look up to you, and value your wise yet fair, opinion.  We experience great pleasure from reading your blogs, and seeing photos or your little piece of heaven on earth. 

You know that I admire you greatly, and am always in awe of your wisdom, patience and generous words of kindness and encouragement.  You and Steve have your own hardships to contend with, yet it seems that you never forget what is going on in so many of our lives.

Congratulations to Minti for providing a forum for such a fantastic woman as yourself to be known and loved by so many of us.

Much love - Lui xox


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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Dear Lui, Gee, gosh now i'm blushing, and  thankyou so very much, for your heartfelt coments. It is people like yourself and every other Mum out there...that make this site what it is.

Lots of love JJ xxx



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mumof2b
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | mumof2b
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CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!

You are so deserving of this Janice.....you have never failed to be there for anyone who is in need of support or guideance. You are a true Gem of this world.

I'm thinking of you and hope all is ok.

Much love...... Nick, Amanda, Zak and Luke xxxxxxxx



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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Dear Amanda, thankyou for your lovely coments, they mean alot to me. Not sure about the gem bit, sweetie, maybe a rusty old nail, hehe! I'm hoping things will be ok.

Hope Zak is feeling alot better after his ordeal, please give a hug from me.

Lot of love Janice xxxx



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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | Jessgore
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WELL DONE JANICE...  Enjoy the glory... :) 


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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Thankyou, my aussie, Canadian, friend, Jess. Hey Jess it won't be long now & vegemite is on it's way, if they let me bring it in of course.

Love Janice



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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | cazza
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Hi Minti MUM..

Well done again and we are honoured to know you and speak to you on here and away from here.. You have a heart of Gold and we really Do Love you.....

xxx cazza


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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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What can i say to you dear Cazza, it is me that thanks you for always being there , with support, encouragement & friendship, i hope one day we will have the pleasure in meeting.

Love your minti Mum xxxx



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cassaustin
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | cassaustin
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Congratulations Janice.

Even thou i dont know you all that well, what i do know is that you are a genuine, caring and honest person. I love reading you comments and advice and look forward to getting to know you better in the future.

Cass xx



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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Hi Cass, thankyou for you kind words. I to am looking forward to getting to know you....love your homepage picture, look at that gorgeous face.

Kindest Regards Janice



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angieh
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | angieh
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Congratulations on the being the Minti Featured Member! I think I can speak for everyone when I say that we are all glad that Minti found you.

I don't think many modern-day children are in a cocoon, but are left to figure things out for themselves - and thus have a possible lack of proper role models or mentors in their lives. It's a shame really, but I guess it is inevitable particularly if two parents are too busy as they work long hours or weird shift hours where they can't spend enough time with the children.

I'm sure that you can't wait to meet Ally, Jess and Marg - I'm sure they can't wait to see you too.


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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Dear Angie, i to am glad minti found me. Thankyou for your remarks & your support in the time i've been with minti.

Kindest Regards Janice



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mum2four
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | mum2four
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Hi Janice,Congratualtions,I couldnt think of a more diserving member  then you,you have so much input into minti and everybody's life troubles,you are there for everybody you are such a great and well respected memebr of minti.Minti should be honoured to have such a member.

                                                   Cham



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      janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Dear Cham, for one who is reserved and doesn't say much, you touched me, with your coment, thankyou so much.

Love Janice



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