Hi to those who read this
Some of you know that my 11yr old Jordan has a little girlfriend at school called tiffany. she is a sweet kid and of course at that age, it is more of a buddy buddy thing. Although he did accidently brush hands with her the other day when the class were watching a dvd...lol
Anyway..it appears the "relationship" is over! Last night I found Jors talking to another girl at school while he was playing the game Runescape online. She told him that she liked him and then he told her the same! I was so surprised at this...I thought he liked tiffany!
I know that at this age its all innocent but it did rattle me a little. I was disapointed that he could so easlily discard one girlfriend to immediately get another without a second thought and it got me wondering are these the kinds of things I will have to deal with more so as he gets older. I wasn't sure how to handle the situation so I gently asked him how he would be feeling should it have been tifffany who had broken up with him for another boy. I left it at that..
This morning he had obviously been thinking about it as he was quiet but still happy to be going to school. Who knows what will happen!
I am not ready for any of this yet. I dont want him to be having girlfriends yet as innocent as they may be...and certainly not dumping one for another...
why cant I just skip the next couple (or 20) years? I have enough grey hair already and i am only 30 ..what hope have got?..... |