as most things in our life have changed recently there is still one thing that bugs me like no other........MY SIL!!!!!

i'm so angry at her right now she believes that i have been talking about her behind her back back in november well i wasnt but it isnt that easy to convince her of that grrr. she said someone told her that i did and so i asked who it was and she wouldn't tell me again grrr i planned to talk to this person so we could confront this issue with the 3 of us there to see who was lying but nope she wanted no part in it she said she's been sworn to secrecy, well to me that sounds like its a lie anyway and also for the fact that in november when this was supposed to be said i was rushed to hospital for threatened pre term labour yet again at 32 weeks so my priorities weren't really with her and her family at the time but that isnt the real problem here my bil and her have now decided to make it known to my kids aswell, by not inviting them to their own cousins 3rd birthday party and now we arent allowed to come to their engagement, doesnt matter i give it 6 mths anyway well thats what they said when i got married which was almost 4 years ago now hahaha

it just really annoys me that they can be so cruel to my kids and i dont have a say in it, i swear if i see them out in public i will humiliate them like they have to me in the past even though i know i shouldnt let it get to me but hey you dont mess with my kids man, and she has learnt that lesson once before but hey i guess you really can't teach an old dog new tricks lol