I have to disappear for a while. sorry guys but I have some things to take care of.
1- I am probably going to lose my home when the settlement goes through. With the rates and mortgage as it is at present i can afford to stay here, but when he gets his payout of his percentage he is entitled to i wont be able to afford to stay. I have to leave my dream home for something cheaper and uproot the kids. (found this out yesterday)
2- I have some major structural issues with the home that i have to get fixed before i try to sell it (i am hoping that it is still covered under the structural warranty of the house so that I don't have to fork out many thousands to get it fixed). (found this out today)
3- i have to get the house ready for sale and find a new place to live.
4- going through the process of agreeing on settlement.
5- amongst the usual work and kids stuff, charlotte needs extra time spent on her for speech pathology homework and all 3 are still sick with the yucky cough.
trying not to have a nervous breakdown at this point. baby steps. dealing with one thing at a time. all while Mr no-responsibility gets to sit back and relax, occassional visits with the kids, can do whatever the hell he likes after work and not have to worry about any of this stuff (while i am paying for lawyers and building inspectors and valuers etc), and in the end get a nice sum of cash given to him. whatever doesn't kill you only makes you stronger, right?
i'll be back when things settle down a bit. | 
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