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hell

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ok im not going to get into too much detail but when i was pregnant with my daughter and also five months after i was in an extremely abusive relatoinship that caused my to lose everything my confidence my willpower and most of my friends and family i finally got out of this relationship and he moved states i just found out he is back and he is threatning to come and find me i have had avo's on him but they do nothing i feel scared but im also feeling like i shouldnt have to run any more dont i deserve to live my life

anyway no one needs to reply to this if they dont want i just needed to vent some things and get them of my chest

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Arna
December 2008 | Arna
Re: hell

That's great you got out of there.  I know AVO's don't always work, as by the time you report a breach and the police arrive, they're gone and you have no way to prove it :(.  I had to take one out on my former best friend, and she breached it 100 times in the first week.

Be strong and don't live in fear as he will win then.



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exquisite-flower
November 2008 | exquisite-flower
Re: hell

Good on you for getting it out!  This is not the kind of thing you need to bottle up so near the birth of your baby boy!

One thing that you will find about Minti is that everyone is there for each other to share the sorrows and the joys!  So you wlil likely get a few replies. 

If AVOs dont work is there a next course of action you can take that is more proactive?  I hope that your solicitor can help and give you some decent advice that will set your mind to rest as well as bringing you support and confidence in your day to day life.

You definitely deserve to live your life and I wish you every happiness in the rest of your pregnancy - I was reading about you and your family before and you mentioned how you are doing well with your daughters potty training - good on you! 

Keep your head high!

Peace
EF.x



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alishas-mummy
November 2008 | alishas-mummy
Re: hell

awww poor you :(

of course i'd reply.. everybody needs a shoulder to cry on:)

i am glad that u were able to get out of the relationship, must've been a big stepping stone for you..

but you're right, you do deserve to live your life, and not run anymore..

i know that i'm probably not helping much, but i do hope that you'll be ok..
and just letting you know, that you are in my thoughts

Love Thuy xoxoxoxox



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