It's all over.  Derek just asked Ethan if he wanted to go to bed.  Nevermind that it is 10:49 p.m and Ethan was supposed to go to bed 2 hour ago.  Now he is being ASKED if he wants to go to bed.  Why not just top the whole evening off and ask him if he would like a piece of cake before bed?  Or maybe a Pixie Stick?  Dad and Boy are now doing puzzles.  Isn't that what every other 20 month old is doing right now?  Hey, it's not my job so I don't know why I am even complaining....