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More positive today

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Hi everyone,

Yesterday was such a stressful day. Isabella was very unsettled, refused her day sleep etc. Mum took out her stress from work on me. Everything was piling on top of me, i.e. my comment in my last blog, lol. What a trajic! ;)

On the positve side, my partner is communicating a lot better to me on the phone since we've been here. As long as these positive steps continue when we're back, we might have a chance of saving our relationship. In the meantime, I'm going to use the next four days as best I can to take more time out for myself, clear my head, so I can return home with the strength and resolve I need. I want to be open to what my partner suggests to me to help improve our relationship too I guess, hopefully we can work together and make it happen.

Hugs to you all, have a good day, Ky *;-)

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MapleACE
January 2008 | MapleACE
Re: More positive today

Dear Ky,

Not in my best position to advise but you will be assured that i am listening.  Storms make trees take deeper roots, so be strong and happy.



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Ngairi
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | Ngairi
Re: More positive today

Hope everything works out how you want it to.



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janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | janicepovey
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Dear Ky, sweetie, it sounds like you have a few issues ahead of you, i sincerely wish you the best of luck, with working them. I think the idea of you having time away on your own was a great idea....even if it is so you can have time out out to yourself....regain your strength & willpower, for lay's ahead of you.

 Hugs Janice



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      KyAquarius
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | KyAquarius
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Hi Janice. It was a tough decision to make to come away, but I felt like I had to do it. Things couldn't keep going the way they were. I did need this time for myself, I know that now. I'm glad I did it now and didn't leave it any longer. Thank-you for wishing me luck, I know whatever happens, I will make sure it means 'happiness' from now on. Ky *;-)



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natelz1
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | natelz1
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hey Ky,

You are definately not tragic, i would say, your perfectly normal,i dont think you would have reacted any different to anyone being in the same situation.

Glad your feeling more positive today, much love, and were always here xoxox



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      KyAquarius
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | KyAquarius
Re: More positive today

Thanks heaps Nat. Lol, I just read back over my last comment, I was at my wits end! I guess we all have our moments, funny looking back sometimes, thinking how silly you sounded. But good to get it out. Thanks will be back soon. Ky *;-)



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mumof2b
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | mumof2b
Re: More positive today

Good to hear you're feeling better about things today.........I hope things continue to get better. Hopefully Isabella will settle down a bit now that you feel more settled.

Amanda xxxx



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      KyAquarius
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | KyAquarius
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Hi Amanda. Isabella is unsetlled no matter where we go and what the situation. I have got her in such a good routine at home, she sleeps soundly there. Whereas away from home, she won't get to sleep easy at all. Despite things being better today, she still didn't sleep well. I look forward to getting home and getting into our normal routine again! Hope you're having a good week! Ky *;-)



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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | cazza
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Oh poor isabella and she would be noticing as well that something isnt right and where is daddy,, and why is mummy so sad.... Hope you, isabella and your hubby can get back together and be happy..

xxx cazza



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      KyAquarius
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | KyAquarius
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Hey Cazza, thanks. Isabella never sleeps well away from home, despite whether we're happy or not. At home she sleeps really well. It will be good to get home and for her to be in her cot again. No doubt she'll go back to sleeping well, she depends on her routine. She started off as a bad sleeper as a baby, a routine got her on track with everything. So I guess I've got her so use to it now, stepping out of home is enough to disrupt it! My partner (not married!) and I, yes hopefully we can work through things. If not, then we'll be happy apart and better Isabella to be from two happy homes, rathen than one unhappy one. Take care and have a great Friday and weekend, Ky *;-)



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ajv00
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | ajv00
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Not good when kids don't sleep then they become ratty and you become the woman from hell.  I sure to hate it when bubs wont sleep. 

So glad to hear that your relationship is heading in the right direction and things are looking positive.

Take care - Angie



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      KyAquarius
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | KyAquarius
Re: More positive today

Hi Angie, that's it! Well Isabella handles not sleeping a lot better now that what she use to. Its mainly the getting her to sleep part while we're away, that's where the trouble is. She just fights going to sleep big time and makes it hard for me to settle her. Thank-you, hopefully our relationship can get back on track. Take care, Ky *;-)



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Ravenheart
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | Ravenheart
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Im glad u feel better today, good luck with ur relationship,

take care xoxox



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      KyAquarius
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | KyAquarius
Re: More positive today

Thanks heaps! Good luck when you give birth soon too, really hope it all goes well, how exciting! Ky *;-)



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