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DAD CONTACTED US!!!

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After being missing for 3mths, my Dad rang yesterday evening! He spoke to Michael and told him he hadn't been 'in a good place', living out of his car, not eating.. Sounded like he's been in a huge mental hole. But he's found a job and coming right now. He's in Kununurra in WA, working on a station (farm I think?) He was still a bit vague about where he was.

I was walking out the door to the gym when Michael picked up the phone, he mouthed to me it was Dad. I'm glad he said I wasn't here, coz I think I would have abused him! I was shocked and upset all at once, but relieved too. Then Dad rang again later that night, I spoke to him and broke down in tears. It was either cry or let loose on him! Glad now that I just cried. But I will tell him, when he next rings, just exactly how upset I was, coz all he had to do was call and say he was ok. He said he will ring us again this weekend. I hope he keeps in contact now.

Missing Persons in WA hadn't even contacted Dad yet, so this is Dad just deciding to ring us now. Missing Persons are still going to go and make contact with him to conclude the case, I hope Dad doesn't flip out when the cops rock up to wherever he's stayin at! Well Michael told him to expect it, so hopefully all will be ok. So thank God my prayers have been answered, and hopefully Dad will stay in contact with us now.

Thank-you all again for your support, sorry I've been slack at getting back in here again lately, but had to share with you all the news.

Love Ky xo

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Arna
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | Arna
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Fantastic news!  Just remember that it has been a rough road for you and that no parent wants their kids to turn the tides!  be patient with him, and I'm sure things will improve even more!



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toosh
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | toosh
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Oh I am so happy that your dad has contacted you & you know he is ok! I really hope he keeps in contact & comes home one day!

Teshia xxoo



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      KyAquarius
February 2008 | KyAquarius
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Thanks Teshia :) Well he moved out of the home he was renting in Qld before he went away, so home is where he's living now. But I hope he can visit our home again one day. Ky xo



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emmie
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | emmie
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WOW trhat is great news matey i hope he keeps up the contact all the best wirth it

luv emz xxxx



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      KyAquarius
February 2008 | KyAquarius
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Thanks Emz! :) I have a good feeling he will stay in contact now, I can only hope so. Ky xo



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cassaustin
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | cassaustin
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That is great news Ky!

I hope that your Dad keeps in contact with you now and you will be able to rebuild your relationship with him.

Big hugs!! Cass xox



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      KyAquarius
February 2008 | KyAquarius
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Hi Cass :) Thanks! That's it, our relationship needs rebuilding now, but I'm sure it won't take too long. Ky xo



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julielf
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | julielf
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That is excellent.  Your Dad must be in a bad place mentally right now.  He may just need some encouragement - obviously some conselling or something too.  I don't know your situation of course but I think that you crying on the phone was probably the best thing.  He does need to know how you feel though.  Good luck with future phone calls and I hope that he gets himself in a better mental state so you can see him if you want! Best wishes!



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      KyAquarius
February 2008 | KyAquarius
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Hi Julie :) I would love Dad to talk to someone/get counselling, but I highly doubt he will do that. I can only hope the situation he is in now will support him getting stronger. My partner said me crying on the phone would have sat with him hard, so hopefully he does know just how worried I was about him. He's too far away for us to see him when we want, but I'm happy to wait until he's ready to come see us. I won't go push it on him beforehand. Ky xo



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Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | Kellzacar
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WOW - Ky that is GREAT news for you and your whole family. . .  I hope your dad gets better and gets the help etc that he needs, being so l;ow that you feel the need to disappear is certainly very scary for you but also for him . .. .

Kellz



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      KyAquarius
February 2008 | KyAquarius
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Hi Kellz (you prefer Alana?) :) Thanks for the hugz! Yes I can only think that it had to be such a huge mental low that would cause him not to contact us for so long. I'm hopeful he will keep getting better from here. Ky x



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Ngairi
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | Ngairi
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Ky that's absolutely wonderful news. At least you are sure he is OK. I hope this contact continues.



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      KyAquarius
February 2008 | KyAquarius
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Thank-you :) Exactly the main thing is Dad is in contact with us again and sounding like he's back on the way up. I will do everything I can to support him from our end. Ky xo



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janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | janicepovey
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Oh Ky, what fantastic news....now contact has been made, i sincerely hope it continues, i'm thrilled for you sweet, evern though i know you have some anger issues to work through with your Dad, but i bet in your heart of hearts, you are just so relieved to hear from him and that contact has finally been made.

Hugs & love Janice



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      KyAquarius
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | KyAquarius
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Thanks for being happy for me Janice! I think I'm already losing the 'anger' side of it, but still a bit upset over how long it took for him to call. I'll work through it. Yes exactly, I am just so relieved we've heard from him now and hope we can get everything back on track. Ky xo



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hermy
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | hermy
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so glad for you Ky, i am  so happy  you can now relax a bit about the whole situation......i hope things continue as they should......luv Sandra xxx



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      KyAquarius
February 2008 | KyAquarius
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Hi Sandra, thank-you for chatting and messaging me through it all, your friendship is much appreciated. :) Will keep you updated. See you in 2wks! Ky xo



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Domestic-warrior
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | Domestic-warrior
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That is brilliant news, i'm so glad he contacted you.

Best wishes  Julie x



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      KyAquarius
February 2008 | KyAquarius
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Thank-you Julie :) Ky xo



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ajv00
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | ajv00
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Thats is such wonderful news, lets hope he does keep in contact

Take care - Angie



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      KyAquarius
February 2008 | KyAquarius
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Thanks Angie :) Fingers crossed he will. xo



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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | llmunchkin
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Wow matey I know this is awesome news, and I can imagine you have a zillion questions whirling around in that pretty blonde head of yours.  Don't think of it as a bad thing, think of it as good - he called you of his own volition.  If you think you were in turmoil, I imagine he wasn't in a much better state.

I'm so happy for you!  Time for you to build a new chapter in your life, and forge on into the new year.  xox



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      KyAquarius
February 2008 | KyAquarius
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Hey Lui :) Yes I do want to ask Dad a few things, but all in good time I guess. I'm glad he did call us from his own decision before Missing Persons contacted him. Now I just hope he will stay in contact with us. Thanks for being happy for me matey! Will catch up with u again soon, Ky xo



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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | cazza
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I was so happy for u last night when u told  me ...

all the best with your dad...

xxx cazza



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      KyAquarius
February 2008 | KyAquarius
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Thanks Cazza, for being so supportive of me through this. You're a champ, as always! Ky xo



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