That is a big step for your father to take.  I know you are upset with him, but you should be so proud that he has called.

I had a feeling he would and I am pleased it was sooner rather than later.  From here, it is baby steps, remember he has to admit there is a problem and want to get hlep.

Hey Kellz, thanks for the links! :) I've heard of BeyondBlue before and seen the DepNet website, they are very useful resources. I do have to support my Dad despite all the emotion involved with it. I'm trying not to let it worry me now, but handy to have extra info to help me through it. I wish Dad would seek help, but he is way to stubborn. Ky xo

Hi honey,

I know this is very difficult for you to have to deal with and also to understand . . Depression is so very very hard and many times the families of the depressed are often forgotten . . Here are a few websites that may offer you some help, support and guidance . . The biggest thing for YOU is to talk about it and not let things get to you and make sure you talk about things especially how you feel . . .

Depnet

Beyond Blue

Blue Pages

This one is a link to sites for family members etc DepressioNet

I hope one of these sites is useful to you and if there is anything I can do please let me know. .  My family and I have been dealing with depression for 16 yrs. We don't know all the answers but we may be able to help you see the light at the end of the tunnel or just lend you an ear  . .

HUGS Kellz

Hi Ky

Sorry to hear that. You were so excited to finally hear from him too! I do hope that he keeps in contact with you. But you need to look after yourself too. Dont go wasting too much of your energy on worrying. As long as you are in contact, you know he is alive. How he is choosing to live his life shouldn't bring yours down.

Cass xx

Hi Kylie,

It must be so hard for you take things slow sweetie it must be hard on the both of yoou i reaklly hope things get better for you soon matey

Luv Emz xx

Hi sweetie..

i think you both have being througn so much, and the best thing for u both is to take baby steps; Let him tell you how he feels and you tell him how you feel... Open Communication and being Honest with each other will most likely help you both get over this sad situation....

Hope it all works out for u both soon..

xxxx cazza

I am so sorry for you matey, it is such an unusual, and frustrating situation.  He is so far away, he is all alone, and I guess you are just luck that he is calling at all - even if it is upsetting.  It may sound harsh, however he is an adult, and as such, you will have to let go a little because you can't make decisions for him.

It sounds like he really is miserable, and I am sure that he doesn't want to upset you, so please try to be a little bit happy in between those calls.  You have so much going on in your life, and you are so bright and capable and positive - I am sure he is very proud of you xox