I sometimes wonder if my keeping restrained for the sake of avoiding a fighting involving him insulting me and yelling is really worth it!

Thankyou Emmie and Arna for noticing my blog and commenting! I admit I was thinking that noone had even noticed my rant..

I will hang in there....

This weekend my partner did assemble two very heavy wardrobe things to store our childrens toys etc. It did please me!

Its like that sometimes isnt it? but we need to remember all relationships have bad times as well as good . keep smiling and have a lovely christmas with your family xxx

We all go through times like that.  People comment on how my partner and I are well suited and what a perfect relationship we have, but they don't see everything that goes on in our home.  There are times when I just want to kick him out so I can have my own space for a while (he's an invader of my study!).  We talk about anything and everything, and if we find that we've nothing to talk about, we start talking nonsense, which usually ends with both of us laughing so hard the neighbours must think we are totaly nuts.

a relationship takes work.  It is a constant game of give and take.  We get there if we work at it, but if you are the only one doing all the working on it, then it isn't fair on you or your family.

I'm sure that you will find love in your relationship again, and that it will change and come and go, but like you said, that's life.