Hi Lexi, I agree, these women were out of line completely, and there was absolutely no excuse for their behaviour.  Their slanderous and bullying conduct toward myself excluded; they were still blatantly rude and disrespectful to the site as a whole, and in some instances their misguided ire was directed at some long-term well respected members. 

I am sorry that you have felt the need to write this blog, having been at the centre of this debacle some may blame me.  However those individuals were responsible for their own mis-behaviour, and the ensuing furore. 

Regards, Lui xox

Hello Lexi! Too bad that you have to comment on such negative vibes. I was really taken a back at how personal and extremely negative the talk became. Attacks launched for what reason,guess that's just it,it became very unreasonable.

You seem  to have put most people's thoughts in a nut shell Lexi. Lets hope these misunderstandings can be delt with properly in the future in the private arena rather than a public specticle. On ward and upward I always say

Regards Flossy XX 

i dont quite know whether you have looked all through yesterday but,, some parents on here were actualy called di##heads and bitches over lou blog,, that says it all for me what some of her friends are like,, not all some, who need to go and wash there filthy mouths out,,

I agree, I think its a real shame that things seem to have got this far. Em x

I couldn't agree with you more.

Hey Lexi - long time not speak..

You've said this well and I agree 100% with you....

Lets hope all involved have learned something out of this, grown by it, changed for the better by it and now move on from it..

Take care sweetie and hope things are well with you

OB

It is very sad to see it all going on.  The qualities both bring to Minti are valuable, and while it is not possible to get along with everyone all the time, we do need to remmber that it is ok to disagree.  I think there has been fault on both sides and that a truce needs to be called.

Having been 'sitting on the fence' watching it all going around, I've had to book an appointment with my chiropracter to see if they can put my head back the right way round.

I will remain friends with both, because they offer something special to me equally, and will not take sides.  I will listen to them and try and help them to see how it is affecting minti as a whole, but only if they ask me to.

In the meantime, I am just going to keep my head on and enjoy the calmness that my perusals bring.

ahhh lexi! you took the words out of my mouth!

funny that they have been yelling about cyberbullying and one of the  traits of cyberbullying is STALKING what would you consider stalking? how many times do you think a person should comment on someone elses blogs untill it is deemed inapropriate?

These 2 ladies you speak of are good people. They were just voiceing their oppinions like the others had.

I too would like the cat fights to end. I just wish that some would not start by airing publically what could have been discussed on mail in private instead of sending it ALL to be reported. A lot thought that was strange. I beleive the reporting of too many things seemed to target the same individuals alot and others noticed this. This is where this situation seemed to start in my eyes.

There are a lot of people with different views on here and with lots of different friends. Some like to back their friends when they think they were being picked on.

I wish you would not pick on Gypsie and Whome because they are my friends and that is my oppinion and your opinnion is that they should be targeted in your article. See we have different views. I will still like you and we can get along.

I think this will all be resolved soon and hopefully without more members leaving. I like it here in MINTI and hope everyone can see there is room for all of us and all types of views with tempers sometimes or not.

have to fully agree with you Lexi.....can't add much els you have said it all and very well i may add..........Hugs Sandra xxx