The boy I tried to help has been returned to his mother. Nothing has changed except the mother goes to the boyfriends flat rather than the boyfriend living in the house and that now the boy has no-one to help him because I am not allowed to see him so he is all alone. This is what our department of childrens services says is in the best interests of the child. I personally will never trust them again. I went to them to help that boy and all they have done is give her a holiday and then shoved him back in danger and taken the only stable thing in his life and completely taken it away from him. I am hoping and praying that he knows I have not abandoned him, that my husband and I love him and are always here for him we think about him everyday and miss him terribly.
If I could speak to his mother I would tell her to look deep inside herself and really search her soul so she can see what she is doing to this boy is very very wrong. That lying her way out of things is not going to help her or her boy and that if she can't see what I did was the right thing then she needs more help than I thought. That boy is very intelligent and what he needs is an emotionally stable mother which he does not have and unfortunately he has no father at all not even a good father figure and most of all IT IS NOT THE BOYS FAULT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |