why is it that some people just can not be civilised about an argument. I wrote my previous blog just to get my thoughts written down. To express my feelings I thought this is what a blog is for. I mentioned no names and I don't want an argument I just wanted to write down my thoughts. Some people are so petty and childish. The more these peolpe attack me the more I know I was wrong in my choice of them as friends.

 All I want to do is enjoy minti and not have to put up with all the nastiness that has been happening. I admitt I said one hurtful thing, Something that could have been said differently and then maybe this nastiness would not be happening. One thing that has been twisted. I am sorry if this gives minti a bad feel it was not my intention I was just writing how I felt. I will say no more on the subject now as I know what I said and it dosn't matter what lies are told I will always know what I said and I know that I don't want minti to be a place for nastiness.

love to all

  Lexi xxx

It is so sad when someone you thought of as a friend, Someone who said that no matter what it was they believed it could be talked out, decides that when they are told something that they do not like to hear they can turn so quickly from that so called friend into someone who lies and exagerates what was originally said. Someone who can be nasty to another person but can not handle it when told one simple truth, that addmittedly would have hurt this persons feelings.

I believe in telling my friends how I feel. How else can they know what is wrong in a friendship if they are not told. I know I don't always word things in the best way but I do know that I say what I feel.

I also defend my friends and am there for them as much as I can be. Lately I have been unable to be there for my friends as I have really needed to heal myself . The first day that I really felt strong enought to come back and be on here(more than a shadow) and  on msn I am bombarded by one so called friend accusing another friend of something so petty it made me angry . Not voting on a high ranking memebers articles to me is not that important. So many lower ranking members and new members need that attention so much more to make them feel welcome here on minti and to encourage them to come back more

Before I backed away from msn and minti I was constantly bombarded with

" can you vote on this article?"

" can you vote this article out? "

" what do you think of this article?"

The articles are very good there is no denying that. To have things that you want to say pushed aside for articles is not what I would call being a friend. So many times I defended this person, So many times I was there to listen to this person but now none of that matters because I said how I feel. The one problem I had this so called friend was there for me and I really do appreciate that, This person helped me when I needed advice. I will not however sit by and listen to another friend being bitched about and not say anything.

I have always said how I feel and I always will. I have said one hurtful thing to one person and now someone that she has bitched to me about before is defending her and attacking me. I feel this so called friend has sucked alot of people in and is using alot of people. It makes me sad that some very lovely people are being used as I was.

I am hoping that one day this can all be worked out but I don't hold out much hope as obviously I have been lied to.

there that is my vent thank you for reading MWAH

 Lexi xxx

ok well B is now on antibiotics for some bug that was growing in her throat. Strepptyccocol something or rather it is called and apparently is quite common but that is what made her soooo sick. We all are a little sick but the rest of us just have a bit of the flu which is slowly fading Tea tree oil in my oil burner going constantly is helping and vicks and Benadryl LOL

Missing too much school and M is missing her boyfriend hehe. I am soooo tired but I think we are all sloly on the mend.

I want to say thank you to all of you who left lovely messages for us it is very much appreciated. It made my day to know that I have friends here THANK YOU MWAH

 Lexi xxx

Unfortunately I have had my eight year old in hospital for two days with suspected menningicocol which thank god turned out to be a nasty viral infection. The other two and hubby and myself are not 100% either now but atleast B is home from the hospital. I will right a better blog or article on it all when I have more energy.

 Lexi xxx