Our litte boy spent the night at his grandma's for the first time ever!  I was so upset when I left him that I could not bear to look at his picture when I got home.  Hubby said that we should let him sleep over so that he could get some sleep, as Mikey still wakes up at night.  Well, neither of us could sleep last night, I knew cause of him being gone.  Kathy was with us, so it was wierd not having my son also.  This morning when I woke up I was so engourged that it hurt and I had to go to my MIL early to feed my baby boy.  He missed me so much!  As soon as he saw me he started to cry and nursed alot!  Needless to say I really missed him too.  Kathy missed him alot and he was really happy to see her as well.  Hubby said that his sis would take him tomorrow, but I said no cause of missing him and cause of getting engourged and I don't want my milk supply messed up cause of it. 

Other then that, not much else.  It's been really hot here so we've been inside.  There are alot of fires popping up everywhere!  Good thing we got alot of rain this winter.

Well I had a wonderful Mother's Day.  I went and got the crib for Mikey, it is really nice.  It came with the mattress and a changing table, all for $150!  Which is a great steal.  It's white and very sturdy.  And it converts into a toddler bed and then becomes the foot and head board for a full size bed.  Really nice! 

I took Mikey to the doc today because he has a lump at the back of his neck and he had a fever of 104 and screaming in pain alot!  So we did a UA test and it came back clean, so they are sending the urine for a culture to see if anything grows.  If he has another fever tonight then we've been told to take him to the Emergency Room and have them do blood test.  Or I can take him tomorrow to have his blood drawn to do a blood culture and check his CBC (blood count).  So far no more temp, so I'm thinking we've passed whatever it was he had.  The doc said his ears were great and he never had a cough or any kind of congestion. 

Kathy is still at grandma's. I did laundry today, what fun, but my SIL forgot to take out my girls carseat, so she's stuck there.  Not that she minds as she loves to play with her cousins who are also there right now, and grandma.  Daddy will go get her later with her brother's carseat.  Well, that's all for now....

Well my son has come down with a terrible fever.  Her has been fussy all night and thus has not slept a whole lot. He has been in alot of pain, so I've been giving him a massage to help.  I took my daughter over to my MIL's so that she could be watched and be able to play with someone, and so I could focus on taking care of Mikey. I wish I knew what it was though that is making him have such a high fever.  His teeth don't seem to be breaking thru, and he is not coughing, so I just don't know. 

On another note, I want to get a crib for my son.  I had one for him that we saved for Kathy, but I sold it for the money.  Now I want to get one for him because he needs a nice bed to sleep in.  Also, I wanted to get a toddler bed, but I he still needs to learn to climb up into things before this.  I found a nice one I'm going to look at tomorrow.  Hopefully I can get it and then we'll be set as it changes into a toddler bed and then a full size twin bed.  Really nice.  Also, I can have it for baby #3, which I really am thinking about.  But that's still a little ways off.  Say when my son is about 18m, lol. 

Don't know what I'm going to do tomorrow, I think I'll go out to dinner with my family for Mother's Day as I'm going to see the crib in the am.  Or maybe we'll all go look at the crib and get something to eat in the am.  We'll see, as I told hubby I want him to teach the babies how to celebrate Mother's Day.

Well off to rest as I just got Mikey to sleep.  Poor baby, I hope he can sleep for a while.  Love you all!!!

Well I had a nice day going to the Bakery to meet a sort of sister of mine.  I've known her since she was like 2 and used to watch her and her brother.  She is going to USC, so she is very close to me.  We ate lunch and just chatted.  Sad to see her go back home for summer break, but I know she will return soon enough.

Well I have to tell you something very scary that happened to me today....I was at the bakery waiting to take my daughter to the bathroom.  There was another gentleman waiting as well.  Well this guy comes out, and then closes the door.  He opens it again and then closes it.  Did this 3 times.  He finally comes out holding the key, I say we need it and he says I dont care and walks to the front with it.  The guy waiting with us goes and gets it and says he is just going to be quick and he knew my girl needed to go.  Well this guy comes back, the one that was in the bathroom first, and I can tell he is drunk from when he came out the bathroom.  Well he comes back and stares at my daughter.  I tell Kathy to get off the steps in the back and to come to me.  He walks up the steps and just stares at her.  I dont look at him and I tell Kathy to stay right next to me.  Feeling that he was going to do something I knocked on the kitchen door.  No one answered and then the guy started to say something and thats when I pounded on the door.  The chef asked who it was and I yelled it was me.  He opened and asked what was wrong.  I told him that the guy was drunk and starring at Kathy and I wanted him kicked out.  My SIL was there also and called for my hubby.  The chef already was telling the guy to get out and Miguel came flying thru the kitchen out the back yelling at the guy to get out.  He was yelling at him that I was his wife and his baby. 

I don't get scared when people look at me or anything like that.  NEVER! But this guy I did not have a good feeling about and I wanted him gone.  When Miguel came back in he asked me what he did and I told him that he was staring at Kathy like he wanted to do something to her....They called the cops on him cause apparently this is the 3 time my hubby has kicked him out.  And he already harrased a customer as well.....OMG!!! 

So my SIL took me home afterward and I've been here ever since.  I don't want to ever see him again, if I do I'm going to call the cops if he even looks in my or my babies direction.

Ok, so what I have been thinking about has to do with my SIL, and any opinion will be really appreciated.  As you all know I have been trying to make amends with her and to have a better relation with her.  Well come to find out, I think things are only getting worse.  Why?  No clue, but from what I can gather from my MIL and FIL it's jelousy on her part.  Well she has not been making my girl feel welcomed at the house.  My girl won't even go into the house, no matter how much she wants to play with her cousin.  This is so much that her cousin even cries for her to come into her house to play with her.  Well the other day one of my neices asked her why she and I don't talk.  Her reply was that she did not like me mistreating her daughter!   Um, hello!!!  I have never done anything remotely unkind to her daughter.  She loves me so much that she calls me her mommy and fights with my daughter for my attention.  My neice said that she has never seen me do anything, infact one time she got hurt and I took care of her.  That's what she told my SIL, and my SIL replyed well i've seen things she's done behind my back.  Total lie.  I told my MIL as she has seen that my SIL will not open the door for my daughter 2 times now.  Something is obviously going on.  My MIL said that they would talk to my BIL as I was really hurt that she would say something like that to our neice, and also not making my daughter feel welcomed and ignoring her when she is asking for her cousin to play.  Anyway, I want to talk to her and my BIL to find out what the issue is.  Was it something I said or did or is she just purely jelous for what ever reason and she is doing this because of it.  I want to talk to her, but at the same time my MIL and FIL are going to talk to my BIL about his wife and her actions.  I know he will listen to them...and I told my MIL that I just don't want he believing this, what she said to my neice about my mistreating her daughter....GOD HELP ME!!!  I just want it to end.  But should I talk to them or wait until my in-laws talk to him and see what they say?  They have seen how I am with them both and the things I do for my babies and my neices, and know that I never do anything.  Why else would they leave the house and have me watch them?  Also my BIL has let me watch my neice with Kathy while I had Mikey and that was tough...but he obviously trusts me!  So I know that my SIL will say things to my BIL to get him to believe that I'm like that or what ever, but I hope not, I just don't want him believing those lies, especially the one she told my niece about why she never talks to me...