Well I had a nice day going to the Bakery to meet a sort of sister of mine.  I've known her since she was like 2 and used to watch her and her brother.  She is going to USC, so she is very close to me.  We ate lunch and just chatted.  Sad to see her go back home for summer break, but I know she will return soon enough.

Well I have to tell you something very scary that happened to me today....I was at the bakery waiting to take my daughter to the bathroom.  There was another gentleman waiting as well.  Well this guy comes out, and then closes the door.  He opens it again and then closes it.  Did this 3 times.  He finally comes out holding the key, I say we need it and he says I dont care and walks to the front with it.  The guy waiting with us goes and gets it and says he is just going to be quick and he knew my girl needed to go.  Well this guy comes back, the one that was in the bathroom first, and I can tell he is drunk from when he came out the bathroom.  Well he comes back and stares at my daughter.  I tell Kathy to get off the steps in the back and to come to me.  He walks up the steps and just stares at her.  I dont look at him and I tell Kathy to stay right next to me.  Feeling that he was going to do something I knocked on the kitchen door.  No one answered and then the guy started to say something and thats when I pounded on the door.  The chef asked who it was and I yelled it was me.  He opened and asked what was wrong.  I told him that the guy was drunk and starring at Kathy and I wanted him kicked out.  My SIL was there also and called for my hubby.  The chef already was telling the guy to get out and Miguel came flying thru the kitchen out the back yelling at the guy to get out.  He was yelling at him that I was his wife and his baby. 

I don't get scared when people look at me or anything like that.  NEVER! But this guy I did not have a good feeling about and I wanted him gone.  When Miguel came back in he asked me what he did and I told him that he was staring at Kathy like he wanted to do something to her....They called the cops on him cause apparently this is the 3 time my hubby has kicked him out.  And he already harrased a customer as well.....OMG!!! 

So my SIL took me home afterward and I've been here ever since.  I don't want to ever see him again, if I do I'm going to call the cops if he even looks in my or my babies direction.

Ok, so what I have been thinking about has to do with my SIL, and any opinion will be really appreciated.  As you all know I have been trying to make amends with her and to have a better relation with her.  Well come to find out, I think things are only getting worse.  Why?  No clue, but from what I can gather from my MIL and FIL it's jelousy on her part.  Well she has not been making my girl feel welcomed at the house.  My girl won't even go into the house, no matter how much she wants to play with her cousin.  This is so much that her cousin even cries for her to come into her house to play with her.  Well the other day one of my neices asked her why she and I don't talk.  Her reply was that she did not like me mistreating her daughter!   Um, hello!!!  I have never done anything remotely unkind to her daughter.  She loves me so much that she calls me her mommy and fights with my daughter for my attention.  My neice said that she has never seen me do anything, infact one time she got hurt and I took care of her.  That's what she told my SIL, and my SIL replyed well i've seen things she's done behind my back.  Total lie.  I told my MIL as she has seen that my SIL will not open the door for my daughter 2 times now.  Something is obviously going on.  My MIL said that they would talk to my BIL as I was really hurt that she would say something like that to our neice, and also not making my daughter feel welcomed and ignoring her when she is asking for her cousin to play.  Anyway, I want to talk to her and my BIL to find out what the issue is.  Was it something I said or did or is she just purely jelous for what ever reason and she is doing this because of it.  I want to talk to her, but at the same time my MIL and FIL are going to talk to my BIL about his wife and her actions.  I know he will listen to them...and I told my MIL that I just don't want he believing this, what she said to my neice about my mistreating her daughter....GOD HELP ME!!!  I just want it to end.  But should I talk to them or wait until my in-laws talk to him and see what they say?  They have seen how I am with them both and the things I do for my babies and my neices, and know that I never do anything.  Why else would they leave the house and have me watch them?  Also my BIL has let me watch my neice with Kathy while I had Mikey and that was tough...but he obviously trusts me!  So I know that my SIL will say things to my BIL to get him to believe that I'm like that or what ever, but I hope not, I just don't want him believing those lies, especially the one she told my niece about why she never talks to me...