I have never allowed my neices and nefews over because of the way she behaves and what she might do or say to them and for some ungodly reason today i allowed them to come over and man do i regreat it now

I had no idea how much of an impact things kids say to one another have on them

My nefew only 6 was so heartbroken when my daughter told him she didn't want to play with him anymore totally devistated that it tokk me close to half an hour to calm him down she was so nasty that is only half of it.

He wanted to have a cuddle from the baby whom he addores just like his baby sister and chontelle came over and more or less pulled the baby from him and said she won't play with you she only plays with me you should have seem his poor face

how is it that some one could be so nasty even only being 5 i though meaness came with age not sometime you were born with

how could she go from being the quietest and most placidest baby known to this nasty hurtful green eyed monster i don't know what i am doing half the time that i would give the world to just have some peace and quiet and mummy time that i could almost pull my own hair out

There are lots of things that i don't like to dicuss with people and this would normally be one of them but due to recant events i have changed my mind and i know that there are people like me that keep things to themselves rather then telling anyone and that would mean that their are more parents out there in the same boat as me at the moment.

My daughter has been having strange behaviour over the last 18 months or more and has became more voilent and hurtful since the bub was born first put it down to her being jelous of the bub but as time has gone on and bub is bigger things are still going down hill and fast

She has been checked for many things and many other things but with no results we gave up until last week when the school started to have problems with her and her mood swings then that was that they gave me numbers and names of some docs workers didn't want docs in this as it wasn't a docs matter found the phone book and started reading it and found a thing called CHADS- chil health and development sevices and they got me onto these waiting list and test and heap of other ongoing suport for her and us both

But things are going to be tough and will need every bit of hope and suport for myself that i can find hopefully things do work out with her god nows i want her back i hate seeing her the way that she is i just dont know what has happened to her to have her behave like this i hate that there is nothing i can do to help her anymore

PLEASE BARE WITH ME THROUGH THIS TOUGH TIME AND MORE AHEAD AND WILL KEEP EVERYONE POSTED (here) ON HOW THINGS GO OVER THE NEXT FEW MONTHS AND IF SHE INPROVES OR NOT

I know that most of you read the title and think WHAT THE......?? RIGHT

But before the question is asked no it's not a joke and i'll tell you why!!

While i was pregant with my first daughter now 5 i started to believe all the people that were telling me that it was the worse thing they have experienced in their life the pain and bleeding etc. Then my own mother started with stories of when she had me and my siblings and made it sound worse coming from her.

Then the day came and i was shit scared because of what i was told, but i think now that ever pregancy and labour is different and some are much worse than others. You see mum made it sound bad because all of her 4 labours where over 30 hours each one and my brothers was the worse one he took 46 hours before he showed his face and than there was the complications with him also.

But on the bright side Chontelle now 5 only took 5 1/2 hours to come into this world but with the aid of the drugs. Then with my second i couldn't believe that she was here in record time even with the family and friends that i know they were shocked when i told them that she (mikaylah) was born in only 2 hours, YEP from the time my contractions started to the time she was born also without drugs,Then to my surprise the midwives told me that i was made to have babies imagin that?????