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Sad and Scary Day (Part 2 of 2)

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I started trying to exercise, alternating between going to the gym and running with my dog, while my son skateboarded with us. We arrived home still sad from the days events, changed and decided to run/skateboard with Allie (our dog). I took off first while Elijah looked for his Ipod and would catch up with me.

I was halfway down the block, running, Ipod blaring...when I noticed an older man, in a silver Honda, stepping on his brakes, leaning his head completely out of the car looking at something behind me. My heart started racing, I quickly looked behind me, wondering what had caught his attention. To my horror, it was my son on his skateboard. The man was unaware that he was with me, Elijah was trying to catch up to me. My son also noticed the man and the weird look on his face. The man turned the corner a few minutes before we rounded it. He was still looking at us and pulled into a driveway that we would be running directly past. The driveway was blocked by thick green bushes, hiding him from our view as we approached it. I looked behind me to talk to Elijah and noticed another man in an old beat up, white, tan, burgundy and rusty Chevy van, parked across the street, also looking at us, he started his van as we approached the driveway. I tried to remain calm, hoping that it was just my imagination, but wanting to be cautious. I stopped and told Elijah, "When we're almost there I'll sprint and you ride your skateboard really fast past the driveway." We went quickly past and did not see the man. Relief came over me, feeling a little stupid for being so paranoid.

All of a sudden the silver Honda pulled out of the driveway...slowing down, looking again...he swerved as if trying to make an illegal u-turn, (we were running on the sidewalk, against traffic) and if he was successful, he would be directly facing us, we would be trapped. Traffic suddenly picked up blocking his attempt, he almost hit a pole in the middle of the street and had to jerk his steering wheel, driving past us.

We were at a spot where there were no houses or people. I told Elijah, "We need to get to the top of the hill before he can turn around again." My son was scared, I was exhausted from running so fast, but I had been attacked when I was younger and was now feeling very vulnerable and scared for our safety. We crossed the street and were close to the park that we run through...the man came from nowhere, made a u-turn and was now directly facing us waiting for us to reach him. I started pointing at him to let him know that I see him and know what he is doing. I told my son to get on his cell phone (we were never able to get his license number because the sun was directly in our eyes.) I started sprinting again and tried to look tough and confrontational, my heart pounding so hard and quick, I felt sure my son could hear it, as we approached his waiting car. We looked directly at him...he quickly put dark glasses on and tried to hide his face leaning down lower in his car. We made it to the park (now also deserted for some reason, very unusual for that time of day). We both were so scared and just kept running, looking behind us, sprinting, and looking, until we headed out of the park. We were approaching a light (where the park exited)...the Chevy van that had been parked, slowly passed (he had circled the block), looking around as he drove. We were hidden from his view, but could see him. Once he passed...I ran, and ran, and ran...we finally made it home safely. Both of us scared to death, realizing that it wasn't our imagination and we could have been in real danger, the men appeared to be working as a team.

When I got home, my husband was there, we got in the car and drove around...wanting to get a license plate or something to report to the police . Unfortunately, there was no sign of the men. I have not been that scared in years...my son said he was afraid that he would have nightmares about it.

I received a little taste of how an attack/kidnap could easily happen. The scary thing is, my son (13 years old) had been going to play basketball alone in the park for the past week and a half. You never know how long they could have been watching him and luckily, I just happened to be with him on the day that they might have decided to make their move.

We live in a nice neighborhood, the homes and park we run through is in a million dollar neighborhood. It can happen to anyone, anywhere and at anytime. Please be aware of your surroundings...you never know who is watching!

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julielf
June 18th | julielf
Re: Sad and Scary Day (Part 2 of 2)

Oh my goodness.  That was such a horrible experience.  I hope your son is ok and not too scared although a little scared is probably a good thing!



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Arna
June 18th | Arna
Re: Sad and Scary Day (Part 2 of 2)

OMG!  I've got goose bumps just reading that.  Wow!  I wonder what those men wanted.  Glad you didn't panic though, could have been so much worse!

I hope you report it to the police and have warned neighbours too.  More eyes watching will deter the men from the area.



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electrifying02
June 17th | electrifying02
Re: Sad and Scary Day (Part 2 of 2)

omg lisa what a scarey day for you and your son i am glade you got home ok . hope they get caught., take care

belxxx



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      LisaPetrarca
June 17th | LisaPetrarca
Re: Sad and Scary Day (Part 2 of 2)

They haven't caught them but I just found out that two other 13 year old boys  had been approached and offered money to get in the car with two Hispanic men. I got chills when I heard that!



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pavementcracks70
June 17th | pavementcracks70
Re: Sad and Scary Day (Part 2 of 2)

OMG...felt your heart pounding from here! what a terrible moment for you and your son....im so glad you both stood your ground ...like the others have said get the police onto it. Your so right about the neghbourhood we live in as it doesnt matter what end we are in, 'sick people' can appear anywhere so we all should be mindful of our surroundings at all times.



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      LisaPetrarca
June 17th | LisaPetrarca
Re: Sad and Scary Day (Part 2 of 2)

I hope that by posting this it will heighten all parents awareness.  I went to the police and posted my story...not exactly what I expected.



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cathbusymum
June 14th | cathbusymum
Re: Sad and Scary Day (Part 2 of 2)

OMG! You really kept your wits about you and did a great job. I think I might have turned to mush.

Like Cass said, if the neighhood knows, then everyone can keep an eye out.



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      LisaPetrarca
June 17th | LisaPetrarca
Re: Sad and Scary Day (Part 2 of 2)

I had been attacked when I was in high school and fought him off...I guess that experience has made me constantly aware and ready to fight to protect myself and my family.



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cassaustin
June 13th | cassaustin
Re: Sad and Scary Day (Part 2 of 2)

Oh my god! How frightening for you and Elijah! I dont think i would leave my house again if something like that happened to me!

I think you should report it to the police anyway, even thou you never got the licence plate number, you can still give them a description of what the cars looked like. If they dont take it seriously, go to the media! You never know who else they are following. If the media print something about it then everyone in your area will be aware of what is going on around them.

Hope you dont see them again.. or anyone else like that for that matter.

Cass xoxox



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      LisaPetrarca
June 17th | LisaPetrarca
Re: Sad and Scary Day (Part 2 of 2)

The police didn't take it to serious...I think I will still send an e-mail to the school to warn children.  It's almost summer vacation and kids will be roaming around.



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BrightonBelle
June 13th | BrightonBelle
Re: Sad and Scary Day (Part 2 of 2)

Did you report this to the police? As although nothing happened they were obvoiusly acting suspiciously and just to gave the police a heads up that they are targeting the park may be a good idea and could save another childs life.



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      LisaPetrarca
June 17th | LisaPetrarca
Re: Sad and Scary Day (Part 2 of 2)

I did and I wrote about it on my Blog...their response was not very encouraging!



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pauline27
June 13th | pauline27
Re: Sad and Scary Day (Part 2 of 2)

How awful and frightening for you. Great that your lad wasn't out alone

So glad you were both safe and  I hope you won't have nightmares



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      LisaPetrarca
June 17th | LisaPetrarca
Re: Sad and Scary Day (Part 2 of 2)

Thanks so much, ME TOO!  My son didn't end up having nightmares but he doesn't go anywhere without me now.



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nell18-3
June 13th | nell18-3
Re: Sad and Scary Day (Part 2 of 2)

OMG Lisa

that is terrifying !!!!!!!!!

I think someone else was definitely looking out for you !!!!!!!

Take care

xxx

 



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      LisaPetrarca
June 17th | LisaPetrarca
Re: Sad and Scary Day (Part 2 of 2)

You're definitely right Nell...God was watching out for us that day!



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