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LAPD Officers INFO: Interesting Stuff!

by LisaPetrarcaComment Published at 23:1523:154 comments4 comments164 Visits164 VisitsReport
Hi Guys,

This is a little long but very interesting and insightful information about what life is really like on L.A.'s Skid Row streets and what type of condition many kids are living in from someone who walks it everyday!  I have also posted my response after I received an EYE OPENER!

A Skid Row Cop's Opinion - 6

To Feed or Not to Feed, An Important Question.

Hello again.  I am Senior Lead Officer Deon Joseph.  I am the Lead Officer of Skid Row.  My duties do not just include crime prevention, but the quality of life issues that affect the homeless community.  Many people outside of the skid row realm tend to look at this area as a quasi community.  The thing they fail to realize is that there are good law-abiding people here whether they are street dwellers or residents of low income housing who see skid row as a true community in every sense of the word.  Like any community, they desire litter free streets, and responsible behavior from those who live, work, or visit this area.

Community members voice their concerns to me on a daily basis.  One of their major concerns is the feeding of the homeless by outside groups.  Their hearts are in the right place, but the results of their activities contribute to the poor quality of life for the skid row community.

Throughout the week, and particularly on the weekends, large groups of caring individuals come from all over the county to drop off food and bags of clothing on Skid Row to those they perceive to be in need of such items.  These individuals come from all faiths and walks of life to do their good work. 

But they never hang around long enough to see the aftermath of their activity.  They are oblivious to the realities of the skid row area.  My goal in writing this as in all of my writing is to educate people, not embarrass them or ridicule their good intentions (unless I discover their intentions are not good at all).  It is being done to show them how they can be of better service to this community in a more responsible and orderly fashion.

One of the myths surrounding the skid row area is that the homeless here are starving.  I am sure you have heard public service announcements on radio stations and television depicting the people here as being malnourished and without clothes. 

The truth is that no one goes hungry on skid row.  Within my area there are several missions that serve food three times a day to the poor and homeless members of our community.  The average person on skid row can eat up to four times a day.  Within these shelters, anyone who desires to drop off clothing to the homeless can do so.  Since I have worked in skid row, I have never observed anyone die of starvation or go without clothing unless they did so of their own free will, or as a result of mental illness or drug addiction.

Though these truths exist, homeless feeders still come down to skid row by the dozens and give out paper bags full of food, and throw plastic bags full of clothing onto the sidewalks.  They do not recognize that one of the driving forces keeping many of the homeless on skid row is the flourishing narcotics trade.  When they are finished doing their good work, the homeless individuals in question remove their halos and begin bartering their food items and clothing for narcotics.  Since most of them have already eaten, most of the containers and food provided to them end up on the sidewalk and street, where rats, and other vermin feed throughout the night.  The clothing ends up spread throughout the corridors of my designated area, causing skid row to look like the city dump.  When these streets look like a dump, people are more inclined to dump other items such as sanitary napkins and human waste on the sidewalk, creating one of the unhealthiest environments in the City of Los Angeles.  Sometimes glass items are given to the homeless in the form of soda or other refreshments.  These items are later used as weapons that cause injuries to other homeless individuals.  Fights often break out over these items as they are being distributed, not because they are desperate for food or clothing, but because they trying to find the best item to sell for money in order to buy crack cocaine, heroin, or marijuana.

There are also environmental issues to be considered, such as biodegradable and non-biodegradable items ending up in storm drains throughout the area and hurting our environment.

These are just some of the ugly images that community members, service providers, and officers are faced with long after the feedings are done.  Central Police Officers in partnership with community members have tried to express these concerns to numerous groups that engage in this activity.  All efforts have fallen on deaf ears, primarily due to the perception that law enforcement is somehow against helping the homeless, and desire to 'criminalize' anyone trying to do something that in their mind is positive for a marginalized social class.  This is far from the truth.  Some cities across the nation are creating ordinances, and laws that would prohibit homeless feeding.  We believe that these laws are extreme, insensitive, and send a message that those helping the needy deserve punishment.  Yet, when our words of truth continue to fall on deaf ears, the end result becomes enforcement because we cannot allow this activity to continue and cause the decay of the skid row area.

Enforcement is not the direction we seek to take on these issues.  We are seeking voluntary cooperation with these groups.  We desire for feeding groups to come to the table with us and discuss this important issue.  If you do not believe the things I say because of my uniform (which I proudly wear none the less), we will have community members, and service providers who help the homeless on a 24 hours basis at our meeting, who will tell you how this activity hurts their community.

Service providers have offered to open their doors to allow groups to work out of their facility and volunteer their services to help the homeless.  In doing so, two things would occur: First, more homeless individuals would go to the missions for the services they need. Secondly, food items and clothing would be distributed in a more orderly fashion, which would minimize fights, and improve the quality of life on the streets of skid row.

If you do not desire to work with the missions, I would ask that you be more responsible for your actions by sticking around and cleaning up after every feeding.  Pick up the clothing left on the street after the homeless have had their pick.  Community members have been placing trashcans on street corners throughout the skid row area to assist you with that.

In closing, it has been the goal of the Safer Cities Initiative to better the lives of the skid row community through enforcement, enhancement, and outreach.  Your LAPD Central Officers are one small part of the solution to end homelessness by releasing the grip of crime in the area that keeps many homeless people on an endless downward spiral. We welcome the open hearts and minds of anyone with the desire to assist us in this effort in a humane and sensible way that does not hurt the lives or quality of life for the homeless community.

As always, I offer challenges to those who may not agree with me to come and see for themselves the things that I speak of.  I am particularly asking those that engage in homeless feedings to please contact me at 213-793–0740 or E-mail me at 32511@lapd.lacity.org.  I along with the City Attorney and Skid Row residents would like to meet and dialogue with you in the near future.  Please understand that we are not against you. We want to help you do your good work here.

Sincerely,

Senior Lead Officer Deon Joseph
LAPD Central Division

MY RESPONSE POSTED TO LAPD BLOG:

Officer Joseph,

I want to thank you for this article. I have felt a strong need to give back and try to make a difference in the lives of those less fortunate....even if it is just ONE person. I was planning on getting some of my friends, family and our children together and go down to skid row with blankets, clothes and sports equipment (for the kids).

I am the first to acknowledge that my perception of what life on the streets is like is limited to televison documentaries and newspaper articles. I decided to research and make sure that I am giving in a responsible manner. The reality (based upon your article) is far beyond what I had perceived to be "helping". I now want to make sure that when we give it will make a difference and not contribute to the problem. I, like so many other "naive" people, just feel a calling to help. The question now would be, "How do I give responsibly? What are the most effective missions to contribute to? What does this broken community need from a person like me? Where do we even began to help?"

You are obviously a reliable and active part of this community. Having your input would be ideal for "outsiders". I think you need to put together some flyers, newspaper articles and/or public service announcements that will reach beyond the "inner circles" of Skid Row. I was fortunate to stumble upon your article....wouldn't it be more helpful to take a more pro active approach to getting the word out. There is obviously SO MANY people trying to help, that knowledge and guidance would be the most effective form of "Making A Difference".

Please consider my request to take this article one step further and try to get the word out before others with a giving heart continue to make the same mistakes.

I would welcome any further advice or suggestions from you before we make our trip down there! I want to be a caring, responsible, and loving person who can try to make a difference....one person at a time!

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Feb
2008
LisaPetrarca

Skid Row

by LisaPetrarcaComment Published at 19:3119:310 comments0 comments17 Visits17 VisitsReport

I have decided to take clothes, blankets and sports equipment down to Skid Row in L.A. the weekend of Easter. My sister, Stacy and her family and my husbands ex-wife and all of our kids will be making the trip. I have so much "stuff" that I've accumulated and never use. I feel I should take it directly to the needy.

I was so amazed that so many kids are living on the streets, the average age is 9. I want to be able to make a difference so I will go directly to the heart of the most desperate area of the problem. I at first thought that we would drive down there and get out and start handing out all of the items. I was then informed that the most effect way is to contact an already established charity. They know the areas and are familiar with the people. I did more research and stumbled across an article written by an LAPD Policeman named Officer Joseph who works the Skid Row beat. His article confirmed that so many people just drop stuff off and it is often picked through, fought over and just thrown on the sidewalk, thus creating a bigger problem. I am currently in the process of finding an organization to go through as the date to make the trip rapidly approaches.

I would also challenge and encourage all of you to go through your things while your doing your "spring cleaning", bag it up and find a place to take it to in person also. It will make a direct impact on someone elses life. My suggestion would be to make a plan to go with a mission or charity group to distribute your items. You never know whose life might be changed (maybe even your own)!  It might even help you find your life purpose!

REMEMBER WE CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE ONE PERSON AT A TIME!

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Feb
2008
LisaPetrarca

Today....Hmmm....Still Looking?!?

by LisaPetrarcaComment Published at 17:2017:200 comments0 comments7 Visits7 VisitsReport

I have been racking my brain trying to figure out what I can do today for someone. I forgot to let anyone get in front of me while I was driving (I was feeling a little aggressive today?!) I didn't let anyone in front of me at the store either. I 'm going to have to find some way to do something nice for someone before the day is over. Wow....it's actually hard to do something nice for someone on a day when I didn't feel particularly bright and cheery. I guess that is probably when I need to do it the most. I always get a really good feeling inside after I 'm nice to someone. So I still have some time left before the day is over to complete my own personal challenge.

I always do things for my family but doing something for a stranger is a whole different ball game. It actually takes a little thought, Hmmm what a concept, trying to focusing on doing something nice. It takes away all the self pity, depression and stress. I like having to think about someone other than myself and what daily drama I'm going through for a change.

My husband and I go to a class tonight (learning to communicate better). Don't worry, no major problems just always striving to make our relationship even better. I know I will have an opportunityin class tonight....so I will end this blog as TO BE CONTINUED...........

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Feb
2008
LisaPetrarca

Help Kids In Africa

by LisaPetrarcaComment Published at 22:2522:254 comments4 comments32 Visits32 VisitsReport

I just wanted to let everyone know that our church had the man who started Hope 4 Kids International, Tom Eggum, come and speak last year and again this year. He is AMAZING and his story of how he started the non-profit organization actually gave me chills. We signed up last year to sponsor a little boy in Uganda for $29.00 a month. During our recent financial struggles we had to have them re-process the automatic debit a couple of times, but wanted to make sure that we continued to do it, after all, a little boy was counting on us! When a lady contacted us to ask if we wanted to stop sponsoring because of our money situation......I told her, "ABSOLUTELY NOT, this is important for us as well as the children. She said, "Okay Good, I just wanted to make sure."

We received a letter from our little guy Mwimi (age 10), I wanted to share it with everyone.....so here it is:

Greetings my sponsor in Jesus's name. How are you? Back to me and my family, we are doing good. We stay in Eastern Uganda, Butalya district in Butesa village. Thanks for choosing me to be helped by you. I look forward waiting for your letter and your greeting. Thank you for your heart you showed me. Here are some of my pictures please enjoy them at the bottom of this letter. Educationally I am trying to keep up though our school is in the villages.

Mwimi Yusufu

How awesome is that? I put the letter on the fridge for all the kids to see and read daily. I think it's important as parents to teach our kids to give to others less fortunate and the best way to do that is to lead by example. So I wanted to give you all the same opportunity to sponsor a child in need. Here is the info:

Hope 4 Kids International PO Box 74010 Phoenix, AZ 85087

T (623) 979-5516 F (623) 979-5244

http://www.hope4kidsinternational.org

The difference you make each day can impact the world. Step out of your comfort zone and start making a difference......SOMEONE IS WAITING FOR YOU!!! DAILY ACT OF KINDNESS UPDATE: My act of kindness today was to write a letter back to Mwimi along with a picture of our family. Please share with everyone what you did for someone today.....this is not to brag, but to inspire and move others into action. So tell me...............................................

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Feb
2008
LisaPetrarca

Day Off....Making a Difference!

by LisaPetrarcaComment Published at 20:4520:450 comments0 comments6 Visits6 VisitsReport
Yay.....Yesterday Anthony and I both have work off today! I wish I was wealthy and could just be a stay at home mom and write everyday. What can I say....hopefully "The Secret" will start working because I've definitely been thinking this thought for a while now. In the meantime I will continue to write my book and eventually when I finish it and it gets published (see the positive thinking...LOL), I will be able to afford to stay home. So today we just laid around...no sports or anything going on today, it's definitely nice to have a free day to be lazy, it doesn't happen very often in this household. Later we are going to take our dog Allie down to dog beach for some excercise......she's getting FAT and so are we (holiday bulge)! Okay, so I'm going to try something new on my blog. At the end of every entry, I'm going to challenge everyone to do one good deed for someone each day. It doesn't have to be huge, here are some examples: 1. Let someone go in front of you at the grocery store. 2. Buy a homeless person sitting in front of a store some food and water. 3. Hold the door open for someone. 4. Smile at a grumpy person (they probably need it!) 5. Visit a sick friend and take them a meal. 6. Offer a caring and compassionate ear to someone hurting. 7. Let that person trying to change lanes go in front of you. 8. Help an elderly person put groceries in their car. 9. Forgive someone who has hurt you, (YOU will feel BETTER!) 10.Encourage others to do something kind for someone else each day. Someone is waiting for YOU to make a difference in their day!!! Read Psalm 138: 2-3
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Feb
2008
LisaPetrarca

Thanks For Your Votes- I Was Runner Up In Contest!

by LisaPetrarcaComment Published at 00:1400:1411 comments11 comments35 Visits35 VisitsReport

I haven't been able to write on Minti in a while...been really busy as usual.  I just wanted to pop in real quick and thank everyone who voted for my article on  http://searchwarp.com/swa293159.htm (The World Was Made Better In A Day)- I was so happy that I placed second, especially with the amount of articles that were entered.....not to mention the incredibly skilled and talented "real" authors.  It was such an uplifting thing and definitely boosted my confidence to write more often (always tend to doubt myself because I never went to college).  

I didn't win the $100.00 but I received a 6 months free featured website on their search engine for my health and beauty website http://lpetrarca.qhealthbeauty.com which  is worth about $60.00.  My first "PAID" article I'M SO EXCITED.....couldn't have done it without your support!!

THANK YOU- 

Lis    

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