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I would like to know why out of about 60 private groups on this site, ‘private chat’ was suddenly available for people to access. Doesn’t the name itself imply that perhaps, like opening a diary, eaves dropping, reading people’s letters and emails – you may be opening a veritable Pandora’s Box? I find many of the public blogs and comments of recent times to be quite offensive, annoying, and veiled personal attacks on me. I have also been told personally about criticism of myself on msn and other forums… Instead of trying to create myself as a victim, retaliating in kind or reacting negatively, I responded by getting myself a personal integrity construction kit – built a bridge and got over it. Life is like that, not everyone agrees with or supports everything you do and say. That doesn't mean that they are your enemy, it means that they have a different point of view.
If there is anyone here that hasn’t disagreed with someone else, the way they do things, or what they have said on the site at any given time – I am a fluffy bunny! If it has suddenly become a crime against humanity to have your own opinion, then I am obviously better off being a bunny. If people didn’t question the status quo, stand up for their beliefs, and try to do things a different way, we would never have evolved as a species. Perhaps it would be a good thing, as we would all be out getting some fresh air instead of recirculating and reviving efforts to turn people against each other.
In the real world and online, people need to take responsibility for themselves and their emotions. It is selfish and unrealistic to expect everyone to agree with everything you do and say.
Choose to be happy it doesn't just happen;
Choose to ignore and avoid people I don't agree with;
Choose not to react negatively to situations that are beyond my control;
Choose to respond in a sensible manner when confronted with adversity.
Nobody else in the world can control how you feel about anything, don't blame other's CHOOSE for yourself. My life is no less tumultuous or challenging than anyone else's. However I choose to have a great weekend, I encourage everyone to do the same; and I am off to continue doing so.
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Re: What's With That Minti? - Private Groups
For the record (I thought this was well known)... I am the 'BAD GUY' in this particular episode. Kellzacar was kindly fundraising for lonely28. I got annoyed because Kellzacar and I were not getting along, when I got emailed. Then I vented by posting a blog in a private group... It was pretty vehement - as you know I can express myself fairly well. I joked about it being soliciting and reporting and all that - but of course I didn't. NEVER was there any mention of lonely28 asking for money.
As for the comments about me being two-faced and fake around the site, (yes, I guess that is why I am telling the truth). I changed my mind - as is my prerogative... Because there was a BIGGER picture, and a person in need, so I donated. I am happy with my final decision, and glad I changed my mind. I will not be apologising for what I wrote though - as that is how I felt at the time, and I feel I am entitled to my own opinion, and to voice it in the appropriate forum - which I did.
There is no conspiracy, there is no secret - just me being me, and not pretending to be perfect, nice, or kind - just very opinionated, arrogant, and 'out there' as usual. If that upsets anyone, I feel sorry for you, however that is your choice.
Cheers - Lui
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Re: What's With That Minti? - Private Groups
Oh did you hear, "She said that he said it was her that said it cause she told him she saw it and they confirmed it." " Oh thats a shame, not like him to say that she said it was her." " Did you ask him if he saw it?" " Yes." "Oh! what context was it said in?" " Well how would I know what context, I cant see inside her head and neither can he." " Hmmmmmm." So where was it written." "In a private blog" " That answers that then. No context, No reality, None of my business No problem."
I suppose I could ass-u-me, but I have never gelled with Donkey's, and to speculate would put me so far behind I would not need glasses anymore. Great blog, now where is that real life stuff, oh yes, bath time for Littlies and got to empty the car and check flights for hubbies return and get things sorted for tomorrow and phone hospital to check on Dad and put the bins out and wrap some pressies and do a card or three and where is my purse. ..............................?
Gotta scoot, cheers Winnie.xxxx
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Re: What's With That Minti? - Private Groups
Ah well, like the boy who cried wolf - there have been many outcries of late... This one has some merit, however it is only one of a very few - unfortunately it is hard to tell real from imagined (so it seems), so I'm telling you this one is real - I was very bad.
However there is still far to much he said she said - and that is what got me mad in the first place. There is always far more to a story, and really if it doesn't affect you personally, then it isn't worth worrying about. It affects me, and I am not worried about it at all - there is more to life. There is so much going on, we have our little people, holidays, happy days, and our own traumas to deal with in between... XOX
Hope your Dad is good, can you empty my car when you are out there, but don't worry about the bins - we have a nice man who does all that - cheers, Lui.
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Re: What's With That Minti? - Private Groups
Emmie,
Nothing "fishy" about it.
Let me clarify a few things...
It was a bug. I have described it here. The reason it occurred is that someone was kicked out of your group (by the group administrator) and the kicked out member still received the groups watchlist. No one else were able to access the groups content.
Hope this helps clarify things.
Clay
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