After all the talk of everyone having a right to an opinion on this site, I don't see why you can't disagree?????? There are certain subjects that are really sensitive spots for others on this site and yep, abortion is one of them. There is a minority of women out there that use abortion as a form of birth control and that is something that I utterly disagree with. Then there are the women that have to abort for many and various medical reasons. They have no choice! Then there are the women that agonise over the decision. It is not a decision that anyone wants to ever have to make but the reality for some people is that they have to. It's still their choice as it was mine. I chose not to bring a child into this world who was created from a very vicious and brutal sexaul assult. I just couldn't do it. For those who said and still say that I should of just put the child up for adoption, ummmm, no! As a result of another sexual assult I found myself pregnant again. Due to the bashing that I had received the doctor's advised me that ANY medical procedure would be too risky for me. So my choice was taken away. The only choice I had was not to die. When my daughter was born I had the adoption papers ready and nearly signed them. Deciding not to put her up for adoption was THE hardest decision I have ever made. Sad, but true. To the women that have put children up for adoption I bow down to you. I was not strong nor brave enough to go through with it. I love ny daughter more than anything but I'll admit that there are days when I look at her and I am instantly reminded of how she came to be. I suppose the question is being asked, would I have had an abortion if I had the choice?????? I don't know but what I do know is this, I would of made a decision that was right for ME. Regardless of all the advice, the decision would of be mine and mine alone.

I have been present at other womens abortions, I have counselled women who are considering one and in that capacity I presented a fair and well rounded case for ALL the options open to them. I would of been sacked otherwise! I was the one that explained what would happen during the procedure and yes it was hard but I informed them in a compassionate and factual way. I mean, would you rather not have abortion legalised???? Back to some filthy back room???? For me, no thanks!!!!

For the pro lifers out there, glad to see your so passionate. Your entitled to your opinion as I am to mine. Me, I'm passionate about people! I know what abortion is, I know that innocent babies are being aborted but I also know this, there are some INNOCENT WOMEN out there who have been through hell and having a child could do more untold damage than an abortion. Do I regret my decision??? No. Do I hate myself for what I did? No. Do I support the right to choose??? Most definitely. Did I get angry yesterday??? Yep, most definitely. Someone was hurting more than I think anyone really knew. I care more about that than the fact that she CHOSE to have an abortion. Sure, no one had to click on the link, I didn't again, my choice as it was to post it in the first place. So post away but when it gets down to subjects that are obviously going to cause a stir remember, a little bit of compassion goes along way.

Again, my opinion and mine alone. Feel free to say what you want, attack away. I have said what I wanted to and feel that I have made my point. My blog, my thoughts, my story..... do with it as you please.

P.S to anyone that I may of upset yesterday, I apologise. I'm big enough to know that some people reading it may of been hurt and I am deeply sorry.