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He's NOT coming home

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Well the one thing I was looking forward to ain't going to be happening anytime soon. Got the phone call from jd.. they're going to be out there for at least another 4 weeks. So instead of him being here in under 2 weeks I have another month to go. I am angry, really really upset and so disappointed. I hate being apart from him but right now it's compounded by the fact that I am pregnant. I've done the whole pregnancy thing on my own before and this time I was really looking forward to having him here. I have another scan in 2 weeks and I really wanted him to be here. I know there will be other scans he can come to, I get that. I just had my heart set on him being home in under 2 weeks. Guess I'm just being selfish... I was getting so excited about him coming home. Life's just been put on hold again... I'm over it. I want to move from here so desperately. Believe me, if I wasn't pregant then that's what we would be doing. I can't move to a town where I don't know anyone with G either. I have to be realistic.... with the way my morning sickness has been I need to have people I trust close by just in case I need some help. I know when he finally get's back that we will be moving etc...... at this moment in time though I am heartbroken. The one person I want here more than anything just can't be here.........

fi xoxo

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cazza
July 8th | cazza
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Hi Fi

What a bugger and hope that it all ceases soon and Jd be home where he belongs...

thinking of you, miss G and bub...

xx cazza



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magenta
July 7th | magenta
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Hey Fi, you are so not being selfish about the shellfish (sorry my attempt at humour!).  Well if  you ever move down this way let me know and i'll look after you. And i'm sure Miss G would love the boys!!!  Take care sweety, thinking of you.

Maggie  xoxo



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      lonely28
July 7th | lonely28
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hehehe selfish about shellfish i like it!!! I never want to see prawns ever again!!!! You never know, in the mood I'm in we could end up moving anywhere... hmmmm that's got me thinking now lol!!!

love to you and the boys,

fi xoxo



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OzBinky
July 7th | OzBinky
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Hey Fi!

Long time to speak matey!!

I'm so sorry.....

Hugs and love to you!

OB



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      lonely28
July 7th | lonely28
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Hey OB!!!

                Think you and I both know that I can do this.... look at the first time!!! Just disappointed is all.... I'll calm down soon.... maybe !!!

love ya loads,

fi xoxo



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boredmum
July 7th | boredmum
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Awww Big hugs hunni. He is the one missing out.

Love ya.xoxoxox



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      lonely28
July 7th | lonely28
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Hey miss working independent lady,

                                                               Yep he is the one missing out but then again so am I in some ways. Well, been on my own before.... just gotta get used to it again......

love ya dd,

fi xoxox



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cheekymonkey
July 7th | cheekymonkey
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Aaaww Fi,

Your not being selfish at all. You want to share this with him and for him to be involved in all the milestones along the way. I too know how it feels to have done it all on my own, and I wish nothing more than for when I meet the right guy and have another bub, that he too will be there to share in the joys ( and spews!!) of things like scans and little kicks!

And it must be soo dissapointing for him as well, getting both of your hopes up and looking forward to being home, only to find out that it's going to be put off a bit longer.

Don't feel bad for feeling the way you do, it's only natural and I'm sure that if any of us were in your situation we would feel the same way.

Chin up and vent away all you like!



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      lonely28
July 7th | lonely28
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I have vented quite a bit over the last 24 hours.... I do believe jd copped quite a bit of it hehe. He knows that I am not exactly overjoyed at the whole situation. I do believe the skipper may of even heard me haha. Just feel crushed. We were on the final stretch of this trip but now the skipper has decided to stay out for at least 4 weeks.... it may even be 6!!!! Think I might need to hop a plane to the Torres Straits...... think the trip maybe cut short then LOL!!!

take care,

fi xoxo



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electrifying02
July 7th | electrifying02
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oh dear fi

i know how excited you were of him comming home i feel for you . i am thinking of you heaps and send you heaps of hugs

love belxx



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      lonely28
July 7th | lonely28
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Hiya fellow preggy lady,

                                          Thanks heaps for the hugs... need as many as I can get at the moment. Now you better be taking care of yourself..... I'm always thinking of ya too and sending you loads of good vibes,

love ya (and put some pants on it's freezing lol)

fi xoxo



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FremantleDocker
July 7th | FremantleDocker
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I'm so sorry to hear about this. I have been on my own before during a pregnancy aswell, so i know what you're going through. I'm here if you need to chat, just minti  mail me ok



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      lonely28
July 7th | lonely28
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Hiya Kerri,

                 Thanks heaps for the support. I've done this on my own before and it can be really hard going at times. Really wanted him here for the next scan but I suppose we all don't get the things we want in life. Take care and enjoy the holidays!!!

love ya,

fi xoxo



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ellamia
July 7th | ellamia
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Awww those four weeks will go by quick i hope and he will be home in no time. Being pregnant on ur own must be hard enough as it is :(

Love Kell



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      lonely28
July 7th | lonely28
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Hiya Kell,

                 That is a fantastic cake you made by the way.... feel free to send a piece my way lol. I have done the whole pregnancy/birth thing on my own before and it is really hard. Was hoping to be able to share the whole experience with someone this time but that's just not meant to be......

love ya,

fi xoxo



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anon
July 7th | anon
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Oh Fi, your not being selfish, this is a very special time for you and JD and there is nothing wrong with wanting to share it with the man you love. You also need his support. He is probably feeling very guilty with not being able to be there with you and will need you to reassure him that it is ok. Stay positive hunny and as Arna said when he gets back, tell him NO MORE!!

Thinking of you? Karen. xx.

 



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      lonely28
July 7th | lonely28
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Heya Karen,

                      I have told him in no uncertain terms that this is it... NO MORE!!!! I think he got the message loud and clear but will be making dam sure when he gets back that the message is understood lol!!! Don't know if he's feeling guilty about the whole thing. He doesn't even really mention the whole baby thing..........

love ya,

fi xox



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gecko-baby
July 7th | gecko-baby
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i'm sorry to hear this, i hope that the next month goes super quick for you and he'll be home before you know it, good luck with your next scan, make sure to let us all know how you got on.

 gecko-baby



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      lonely28
July 7th | lonely28
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Thanks for the good luck wishes..... Mum and G will be with me for this one. Mum is busting to know if it's a boy or girl.... me thinks this one may just be a boy. One month.....sheesh!!!! I'll do it but not happy jan lol!!!

take care,

fi xoxo



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natelz1
July 7th | natelz1
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hey hun, im sorry to read he's not coming home! Must be very hard, and your not being selfish fopr wanting him home. Your sick, you need all the support and help you can get! I hope he comes home soon! Love ya xxxx



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      lonely28
July 7th | lonely28
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Hey you,

              Yeah it's a hard slog.... one that I don't want to be repeating anytime soon. Back to the waiting game.... oh I love the waiting game!!! ( Just as much as I love prawns lol!!!)

love ya,

me xox



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yummymummyof3
July 7th | yummymummyof3
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Well I'm not eating another prawn!!!  I'm sorry Fi that really sucks, perhaps you should look at Gympie!!! at least you will know someone there.... actually no how about Sydney, now thats a much better idea..

Love ya xxxx



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      lonely28
July 7th | lonely28
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Hello Sydney I'm on my way!!!! Prawns suck...... Don't like em at all!!!! Ban the prawn..... I don't even eat them and now I despise the little suckers even more.. although at the moment worms are my least favourite thing!!!!!

me xo



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           yummymummyof3
July 7th | yummymummyof3
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Ahhh yes the worms hmmmm, worms make me sicker then prawns xxx



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RachBess
July 7th | RachBess
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Oh dear.  Poor Fi that sucks.  You are definately not selfish for wanting him home lovely, I would feel the exact same way.   Try to keep yourself busy so the 4 weeks dont drag & maybe it will be here before you know it.  Rach x



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      lonely28
July 7th | lonely28
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hey rach,

                 It's really hard when you get your heart set on something and it just keeps dragging on. I've been pregnant and alone before... just didn't think I'd be doing it again. 4 weeks is not that long in the grand scheme of things.... just seems to be a lifetime sometimes.

much love,

fi xoxo



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Arna
July 7th | Arna
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Oh fi, move to gympie hun.  We're here and it isn't so bad, just not right near the beach. 

I'm sorry jd isn't coming home sooner.  It really sucks having to be stuck on dry land while he gets to explore new places.  Men have all the fun!!!!!

Just hang in there and when he does come home, tell him NO MORE!!!!!



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      lonely28
July 7th | lonely28
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Funny thing is.. we really don't go to the beach that often lol!!! Right now I'd move anywhere.... it's the old saying anywhere but here. Believe me, he's been told no more and when he gets home he'll be told repeatdly!!!!



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pauline27
July 7th | pauline27
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It's disappointing for you but the time will fly by so take care of yourself and I'm sure you will look forward to his return



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      lonely28
July 7th | lonely28
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 I sure hope time does fly...... Never really thought I would dislike a fishy thing so much but now... hmmmm..... there will be no prawns in this house that's for sure!!!!



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winja
July 7th | winja
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sorry to hear this matey! :(

i hope things change and jd comes home to be with you where he belongs instead of with smelly men and stinky fish things lol

xxxnat



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      lonely28
July 7th | lonely28
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Hey stranger,

                       Well things better change..... or I'll be ringing the skipper and giving him an earful!!!! Although I'm starting to wonder if he loves the prawns a little more than he's letting on.... hmmmmmm.....



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nell18-3
July 7th | nell18-3
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You are definitely NOT selfish !!!!

I think lots of us would feel the same, you said yourself you have done it on your own before and were looking forward to sharing the whole experience this time around.

Hope and pray with all my heart that the next four weeks fly for you !!

xxx

 



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