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2008

Maybe I'm just asking to much

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Hi everyone. Hope you're all safe and well.

Well, I'm heading into the final stretch of the pregnancy... 3 months this Friday to go. Man, time flies sometimes! I have my first hospital appointment tomorrow. Taken long enough to get here that's for sure. There are a few things that have me a little worried so it'll be nice to be able to talk to the OB. I am a little disappointed though. This may not make much sense... sorry. When I was pregnant with G I did it ALL on my own. No one at any of the appointments and really no one there when I gave birth. No one there to get up in the night when she was crying... I think you get the picture. Anyway, this time around I had a secret hope that someone would be able to come with me to the appointments etc. Well, that secret hope will remain just that. Instead, I have to take G with me yet again to yet another doc's appointment. Don't get me wrong, usually I don't mind her being there at all but at the moment she is in a real shit head phase and won't listen to me at all. I have to get her out of school early, drive for 1/2 to get to there and then 1/2 and hour back. I know it doesn't sound like much but at the moment walking to the letter box and back is enough to make me wanna sleep lol! I guess I just wanted to be able to share the little milestones along the way with someone. Jd has to work, Mum's at work and the friends I do have here are working and not able to take G. I'm being completely selfish here, I know. Guess I'm just feeling really forgotten about at the moment. There are a lot of other factors contributing to me feeling like this at the moment.... too long and complicated to go into. I just miss me.... independant me.

love to all,

fi xoxo

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mumof2b
October 2008 | mumof2b
Re: Maybe I'm just asking to much

I know it's hard and so lonely sometimes...............you are definately not being selfish, you're the least selfish person I know!

I'm glad the appointment went so well and you weren't left waiting for ages.

Love ya xxxx



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ajv00
October 2008 | ajv00
Re: Maybe I'm just asking to much

hey Fi,

If i was there I would come with you.  What a bummer hey.  If it makes you feel any better I never had any one coming to the appts with me.  I did them all alone except when I had to go for my scans.  That is when my partner took time of work... 

Hope all goes well for you

Angie xx



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lindterbean
October 2008 | lindterbean
Re: Maybe I'm just asking to much

 Oh! Wish I could be there to help you out! I know exactly what you mean. It's hard when you're going through something really exciting and there's no one there to catch all that excitement overflow! Everyone needs a little time to think of themselves occasionally, and there's no need to feel guilty about that. You're going through a lot and handling a lot, and you're doing a great job, even if it's hard sometimes.  Big big hugs your way. 



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pauline27
October 2008 | pauline27
Re: Maybe I'm just asking to much

Just three months to go, it will go quite quickly especially as you have christmas coming too. I wish you well now and how lovely when you have the little  one in your arms. Miss G will love it.

Take care

Love Pauline



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RachBess
October 2008 | RachBess
Re: Maybe I'm just asking to much

Hi sweetie,  must be disappointing for you & no of course you are not selfish.  I would come & if I win lots of $ sometime soon I will be there will bells on, well maybe not bells, but clothes definately.   Big hugs. xxx



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Marglr
October 2008 | Marglr
Re: Maybe I'm just asking to much

Catching up with all your blogs.  Good to know what's going on with you young Lady!!!  You'll have your indepenent self there but sometimes are meant to be non independent,all good too!  I wish I was there to aid you Sweety,really do!  You are again going through so much,a lot of changes to deal with. Sending you the best vibes,in such a short time you'll be new parents and I think that will be such a good time for you.  Wishing you the very best!



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nell18-3
October 2008 | nell18-3
Re: Maybe I'm just asking to much

Hey Fi

It must be really difficult for you. As for Miss G you have mixed all the ingredients for a bright, responsible and loving young lady, she will still do you proud even though as all normal children there have to be blips to overcome.

Love ya

xxx

 



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cazza
October 2008 | cazza
Re: Maybe I'm just asking to much

Hi Fi

Dont ever feel you are selfish, and i fully understand what you are saying, I just wish i lived closer as i would be like cath below and help you with Miss G....

Hope Jd gets to go to some of the appt before Miss Worm comes...

please take care. 3 months will go fast...

xx cazza



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cathbusymum
October 2008 | cathbusymum
Re: Maybe I'm just asking to much

Wow 6 months has gone fast! I wish I was closer because you know I'd mind miss G in a flash. Jd should at least be going to the scans with you. Pregnancy can be hard enough without you feeling this way, so i hope the rest of the time goes fast too. That 'lil bundle of happiness will be with you all soon!

Biggest hugs,

Cath xxoo



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tahjay
October 2008 | tahjay
Re: Maybe I'm just asking to much

Don't feel selfish, it is  perfectly natural to feel like you need a little more support and help. I kno beacuse i done it all alone with 2 children as my hubby works away and family ar far away. I used to dwell on it but then i realised how capable i was on my own and realised that and beacme very proud of myself.

When i felt more confident i reached out to other kinder mums and people closer to home to create a new support system for when my other friends and family can't be there. Now I feel alot better and a little less alone.



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natelz1
October 2008 | natelz1
Re: Maybe I'm just asking to much

aw hunny, big hugs, i would so be there if i could. is JD working?? 9i havent been round much lately so i may have missed a blog or two.)  i cannot believe your only 6 months along, to be honest, it feels like you have been preggers forever (sorry im not helping) 3 motnhs is not long to go hunny, good luck with miss g, remember you are boss, and encourage JD to go with you. he should want to. ( providing i havent missed some importnant detail)

Love ya hunny, good to hear fom you, and sending lots of good vibes hunny xloxoxox



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      lonely28
October 2008 | lonely28
Re: Maybe I'm just asking to much

Hiya Nat,

               Yep, the big man has to work. No way round it. We are only JUST getting through and need every cent that at the moment. Believe me, it honestly feels like I've been pregga's forever...... Getting to the really uncomfy stage but at least I'm actually starting to show lol! As for G..... I swear I'm fighting the loosing battle at the moment especially with her grandparents living with us.... oohhh how someone is being spoilt... great lol!

Take care of you,

fi xoxo



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           natelz1
October 2008 | natelz1
Re: Maybe I'm just asking to much

ok i wish i could just start that all over again. lol,

i know how hard thingsare at the moment for you, i totally understand. I really wish i could be there to hold your hand, or do jds hours so he could go with you.

i had my folks come live with me for a while, so i totally get the whole spoilt thing my kids wwhen spoilt as. GRR. but enjoy the last time you have with them, and once they go things will settle back down.

Hope your not to shy to post a preggy pic, you know how baby mad i am, i get tempted to rub ladies bellys at the mall. LOL.

Love ya lots hunny xoxx



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