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Oct
2007

Howdy

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Wow,this was an interesting e-mail to get from Angela! I've been thinking of something terribly clever or profound but guess what....got nothing!LOL!!!! So seems to me..the way to start is answer the questions.

Hi!!! I'm Marg. I live in Canada and basically love my country and am intrigued with every other country. I have five children and like anyone who has lost unborn or born children feel the need to add  that there were three others that didn't have a chance at this marvellous life. My five are all older children that found it neccessary to leave home to live their own lives.

Minti found me! LOL!!! I was layed up and stared at the computer and decided that I should trek were I had not treked before as I couldn't trek any where.

Personality! I love the personality of Minti. It has bad days,act-up days,good days and very good days...alot like a toddler! But then it is growing and learning.

Being a parent??? Special,wonderous,ever changing,a challenge that meets you every day. Taking on the responsiblity of being there,being your best and giving your all.

I feel parenting challenges change as your child changes. First it was fear that I'd do something to impeed my childs life,calmed down and got to it!! Socializing ,teaching learning skills,stressing the importance of trying,failure and moving on with your life.Teaching modesty,acceptance,planning and giving back. Dating and again social skills,driving...that one may kill you. Teaching Mom to let go. It's a never ending learning process.

My biggest fear in parenting is that parents don't see their child.

The best advice I ever got was, " Relax!"

Angela said I didn't have to answer all the questions, but Babies first words I like to change to ,when did you fall in love with your Baby? Developmental milestones are so important and so varied but that moment when you look into your Baby's eyes and it's just a free fall tumble into the deepest and most profound love you have ever felt or could explain to anyone other than an other parent. 

My favourite song!! I love my music but that's an easy one Janice Joplin "Little Girl Blue".This speaks to me for some reason and I also love her "As Good as You've Been to This World".

The funniest thing...geeeess to narrow that one down,gotta go with the Northern Red Bellied Snake I found in the laundry when Hubby was on an important business call,or when we were entertaining and the lost lizard hunt,or the time my eldest got sick of his brothers chasing each other and filmed it to the theme of StarWars!!!

One word to sum up Minti....hummmmmm.....Mintilious! Heeee,heee!

And the best thing about Minti is the beyond wonderful people that you get to meet. The real humans that form this community and it is that,a community. You pop into Minti to check on your friends like a neighbour would,you care deeply that their pain is short,their troubles lessen by knowing that someone cares. Life and raising children is not easy. If you care about doing your job well it's tough.Having some one there that understands is important. My life has been full of those things,pain, loss,challenges but it's how you pull yourself up and through that is the end marker. The way you choose to see this world and be seen by this wonderous thing that is your life. The true marker is have you done something that makes the Powers that be smile? Haaa,haaa,I got a forum to be yappy! Thank you I truely feel honoured because of those that are here.

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Kristen
October 2007 | Kristen
Re: Howdy

You are a great Minti person of the week.  I like that Minti found you.  I think that somehow that happened for all of us.  You have such a positive spirit and it really shows in your writing.  Thanks for your contributions! 



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      Marglr
October 2007 | Marglr
Re: Howdy
Ahhh...thanks! Your comments are greatly appreciated!


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crystalmoon
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | crystalmoon
Re: Howdy
Marg YOU are one of my dearest friends and I am sooooo happy you have been chosen for this recognition....... For to me you have been long deserving of it.

You bring color,taste,touch,and heart to your blogs......they are a joy, inspiration and thought provoker. Many times in the past I have logged into minti expressly to read your words.

Thank-you for being a part of my life, I feel myself and the members of minti are privilleged (sp) to know you.......

Fondest love and thoughts
Your Windchimes XXX


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      Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
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You know the meaning of windchimes. You are windchimes and I know this is you. Quite remarkable really. Most would be bitter or trapped in the past or looking to lay something at others feet. But not you,you try and you are. You send wonderful vibes and you have allowed me your friendship. I'm so much the better for that! Take care Windchimes and thanks!


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cazza
October 2007 | cazza
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Hi there Mum margir, 

Congrats on being the featured member, its made my day to see some one that is so kind, and always has a nice word to say get this feature...

Love all the support and encouragement, and between you and JANICE, YOU    2  are my minti mums .......

take care
love cazza


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      Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
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Ahhh,that's so sweet coming from a great Mom herself. Did you see Janice's note to my lounge??? She and Steve are coming to Canada next year! Talk about excited!!!!


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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | llmunchkin
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I say - now that you are royalty, should I curtsy when you enter the room?  Should I avert my eyes modestly while making sure that Jaydee bows nicley without popping a little air from his butt???

LOL - congratulations you lovely creature!  It is a worthy choice, and you are such a wonderful blogger... Why don't you get someone to add a photo for us so we can see that smile as well as read it?

Lotsa love and hugs - your KiwiInOz and your KiwiRoo xoxox


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      Marglr
October 2007 | Marglr
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YAH!!! Instead of all that there formal stuff you cleverly dreamed up...I need a computer genius! Well actually I just think Minti a prettier site without my mug! How's the banana leg doing?


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Izzy
October 2007 | Izzy
Featured Member: Marglr

Congratulations on being Minti's newest featured member. You deserve it! Like Arna said, you are a gem. I'm sure the Minti community feels the same as I do, you are such a great person and great source of positive energy. I enjoy hearing from you!

I gotta say though.. to me, when my hubby says "relax!" sometimes, it annoys me. I think it's because  depending on the situation, I hear "you're being a psycho, why can't you calm down!".  LOL



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      Marglr
October 2007 | Marglr
Re: Featured Member: Marglr
Oh geeesss...that wasn't from my Hubby! A good friend told me about the world not crashing to a halt if I didn't get everything perfect. Nahhhh...Hubbies can't say that! Cause you're right...them are fighting words!!!! LOL!


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Arna
October 2007 | Arna
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there are some real gems here on Minti.  And you are one of them.  Hope we can tag each others pages more.  Hope things get cooler your way.  And have a great weekend.


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      Marglr
October 2007 | Marglr
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Thank you! We are difinately headed for cooler,but I enjoy our fall but not looking forward to winter this year...I'll have to reajdust my attitude about that cause it's coming!


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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Jessgore
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Congratulations buddy... That is great... You are one in a million that is for sure...  How about you write a book????
You are a credit to the minti family, and a credit to your children...

Well done.. xxxxxx


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      Marglr
October 2007 | Marglr
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Haaa,haaa,thanks Buddy! I forget what your number is,I rememeber you are ahead like a 17???  but I soooo like 21...sounds all young and all!


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mariamum
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | mariamum
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OMG that was beautiful Mary it really touched me.  I'm not good with words so I can't think of anything else to say, except it was all correct every last bit of it. 

You're so cool!

Love Maria xxxxxxxxx



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      Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
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Ahhhh ,Maria Thanks! I'll have to inform my kids I'm COOL!!! Heee,heee I'm sure it will take them by surprise!


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hermy
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | hermy
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like always .......YES, it is good.........great really.......but that's just you........a wonderful, caring and beautiful lady.......thank you for being my friend.......regards Sandra xxx


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      Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
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Thanks for being my friend,you're a rare one and I love talking to you!  Heee,heee should have chosen different one!!! LOL ,rare and chicken....nope,nope,nope! Rare as in a jem! Which you are!


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julielf
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | julielf
Re: Howdy
Very well written.  Well done!


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      Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
Re: Howdy
Thanks,that means a lot coming from you!


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angieh
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | angieh
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Nice to know more about you.

I didn't realise Minti found you. That's great Minti found you, we need more positive, friendly people like you on Minti. Have you considered making Mini Marglr's?


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      Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
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Haaa,haaa Angela!!! There's enough of me to make an army!!! What a way to whittle me down....scary thought!


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nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | nell18-3
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I am so pleased for you Marg
You really deserve this
You keep so many of us going with your entertaining and interesting dialogue with your blogs
You are one of the first to be there when one of us is hurting
You never have a bad word to say about anyone
You always see the good in everyone
You are loving and supportive
You make me comfortable to be myself and most importantly
You make me proud to be your friend.
xxx


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      Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
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Oh Helen,this is just so you,so sweet and I thank you. You should be comfortable to be yourself Girl,you're darn special.


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